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Latest post on 28 March 2013 - 16:47
Thank you for all the "its illegal " posts!! I am aware that tecnically it is, however as people also know that have been here long enough, there is no issue with someone in the same street working at a neighbours or such, it happens every day without issue and really why shouldnt it ......... To many jobs worths out there for my likeing, clearly you have too much time on your hands !!
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Latest post on 17 March 2013 - 21:14
Rant over for me....... Just wish I'd gone to see Sting instead - poor judgement on my part !!!! Noel cheer up man ! Being moody still is giving you rotten wrinkles !!!
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Latest post on 17 March 2013 - 21:12
Good point SarahLou123! When I saw Oasis at Knebworth the crowd was so dense that people couldn't leave their spot to go to the loo so some people were 'going' where they stood! I just made sure not to drink anything! In my Sisters day at Reading they would Pee in a bottle and lob it at the stage! And do mention the festivals where most people are scantily dressed and high as kites The organisation can be hit and miss here and yes there may be the occaisional fight however most people toe the line due to the severity of the police I had a great time as per usual You were lucky then ! I think perks of being high as a kite is that less egos and more love at events !! People coming together to appreciate something together ! Not be disrespectful and rude! Including to the acts ! Anyway rant over for me....... Just wish I'd gone to see Sting instead - poor judgement on my part !!!!
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Latest post on 17 March 2013 - 21:12
Good point SarahLou123! When I saw Oasis at Knebworth the crowd was so dense that people couldn't leave their spot to go to the loo so some people were 'going' where they stood! I just made sure not to drink anything! In my Sisters day at Reading they would Pee in a bottle and lob it at the stage! And do mention the festivals where most people are scantily dressed and high as kites The organisation can be hit and miss here and yes there may be the occaisional fight however most people toe the line due to the severity of the police I had a great time as per usual You were lucky then ! I think perks of being high as a kite is that less egos and more love at events !! People coming together to appreciate something together ! Not be disrespectful and rude! Including to the acts ! Anyway rant over for me....... Just wish I'd gone to see Sting instead - poor judgement on my part !!!!
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Latest post on 17 March 2013 - 21:09
To give the Brits some due, it wasn't just them, being escorted out by security. Totally agree!! 0ne stuck up American who seemed to think she could flirt her way to the front yuk ! And an aggy Philippino guy who looked off his head !!! Obviously the normal Uk idiot too but to be honest no more than the other nationalities !!
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Latest post on 16 March 2013 - 09:52
I was very disappointed and thought it was one of the worst concerts I've been to. The VIP area was poorly designed - you could see the top of the stage. So if the band were 10ft tall you could see them but otherwise zero!! And NG was awful-which surprised me. I always thought he had attitude and personality. But nothing last night other than he probably picked up a nice cheque. I felt totally ripped off and will think very carefully before booking more Sandance tickets. Me too ! I've said I won't do it again out of principle ! Everything they promised wouldn't happen due to scale of ticket sales did ! My husband works in events and we generally get freebie but had to pay this time ..,.., makes it even worse ! Noel / Toyota you should be pretty ashamed !!!
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Latest post on 16 March 2013 - 09:17
Agree with you on many of your points, as usual behaviour pretty shocking from a few, I was near the front and witnessed many fights. However security were spot on with zero tolerance and we saw loads being 'forcibly removed'. Enjoyed the sets especially Richard Ashcroft, bars were inefficient so only had a couple of drinks (fine by me saved money!) So stayed sober which was probably a good thing. At one point the crowd was more entertaining than what was happening on the stage lol . Left about 30mins into Zane Lowe and yet again had to argue my point to man blocking taxi queue as to why I wanted a taxi and not to go on free bus. (Same thing happened last time!) I live in Ranches...why would I want to go to Marina or MOE! Also seemed pretty naughty they were telling us no normal taxis and only hotel taxis, but I could see queue of normal taxis being held back. Again had to specifically request normal taxi cos I'm not paying hotel taxi rates!! Enjoyed the night, certainly not complaining these are just my observations. It never ceases to amaze me at how some people behave when they've had a drink and why they possibly think its acceptable! (And I'm no old fogey I'm mid 30's too been to loads of gigs and festivals including V fest too!:-)) edited by itsonlyme on 16/03/2013 Security were good ! Yes agree the dramas around us were very entertaining ! Not something you normally see here! But I would say people with the pushing not waiting in line which is generally whats fans do ( I've waited 3 hours fir prince to be at front)attitude would have got a deserving punch in face at a normal festival !
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Latest post on 16 March 2013 - 09:14
Was just about to post too! Very disappointed he played Wonderwall and I heard don't look back in anger as we left! Hardly packed with Oasis hits as stated by time out :( maybe its his personality but he looked like he couldn't really be bothered! On the upside the sound was good. Vip section was badly designed and really you couldn't see unless your where tall or like me on the steps. All round pretty pants not the great oasis night I was expecting. very true, hardly an Oasis night, me and husband where looking forward to reminiscing :(( we saw blur in summer back home and they were excellent !! Noel was pretty miserable. Actually I'm sad to say it was the worst concert I've seen here ! Plus AED 190 for taxi home !!! Rip off !!!
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 20:31
I have not stayed at the Hard Rock but have visited a number of times, personally I would not stay in Kuta at all it is the busiest, dirtiest, seediest part of the island but some people enjoy the action and nightlife it has to offer. The bar and the bands make for a good night out at the Hard Rock and the pool is huge, rooms pretty basic but fine. Perhaps Look at staying in Legian or Seminyak. Where is the villa on the beach as there are not too many that are directly in the beach in Bali. Thanks were are staying at Seminyak for 10 days in a villa- we just wanted a hotel for kids to have some kind of activities and meet other kids etc before we did the lazy part? Any alternative hotel suggestions very welcome ..... Thank uou
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 19:38
Hello - I have a white toddler bed from ikea with good mattress - it's only 6 months old. Just about o list on dubbizle, would happily take 500 for it and throw in duvet ?!? Please let me know- ps it would fit in a large boot to pick up,we are on silicon oasis. Thanks
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Latest post on 16 September 2012 - 18:25
Hi purplerain, We are living at the villa and although i do not know anyone leaving their villas soon , i can recommend the agent we used to find our 2 houses there. Her name is helena and works for landmark. If you need her mobile number please let me know. You can also check the villa community website which is really amazing, full of info! Www.thevilladubai.webs.com By the way how is you DD doing at the nursery? I just saw the thread is no longer there. Thank you Eli - not much change really i have had in-depth conversations with the lady that runs it and also the register which were promising but i think its a case of watching this space........ i would be interested in agents number - you could always leave at play school maybe with your number - leave it for Andrea. Thanks
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Latest post on 14 September 2012 - 07:25
Oh that is even worse !! I don't think they should say the names it's cruel !!
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 21:42
I doubt they are banned I bought both from chemist on DSO yesterday !
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 21:28
Take sea kelp it will how mega quick !
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 20:36
Yes it was me missed the call at 9.56 from Dubai 92 for AED 3500 - I was in a meeting and saw the phone ring too and put it on silent !!! I've told it ended up with a Nadine getting a call next on the list......... Fancy shouting me a mani pedi or facial Nadine !!!! ;)
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Latest post on 10 September 2012 - 10:35
Music box is fab !
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Latest post on 10 September 2012 - 09:49
Oh dear, I'm not sure what to say but can certainly relate to what you say. I think men find it much harder at work to put down boundaries re their families than women do. I've had the 'boundaries' discussion sooo many times with DH but nothing seems to change lol. It's always just, "but this is a one off and it's really important." So, why almost every week lol? My DH has been out here since last Oct leaving me alone with kids in UK - promised visit dates kept changing and not materialising due to 'important' work trips, ditto the promised trip home to help me pack up, dismantle a shed and carry out various DIY tasks to get our house ready for rental. We moved out here a week ago but even that was not without problems as he didn't organise as many things as he had promised - due to work! (I'm forever grateful to a wonderful friend who stepped in to help and sort things). Second day here (a Saturday) he spent almost entire day on his work phone - an important contract LOL. I think what helped me (and it's not necessarily what I want but the other option was to make myself even more miserable/upset) was to carry on and plan our lives as if I was a single mum. It's not brilliant but it prevents the anxst of getting upset when he 'lets us down.' I have found that by writing important dates of events for the kids in his diary he does try to schedule round this. If I simply tell him the dates I think it goes in one ear and out the other. I completely get you re the mid 30's and 20 years etc. Again and it sounds trite I REALLY have to not think about the future or it gets me down. I try to look just to a day at a time. I also empathise with you re kids playing up etc. We became a very tight little unit when he was in Dubai and there was very little conflict between the 3 of us but things change and the kids are back to trying to play us off against each other. I know you're working and busy but if you want to meet for a chat or phone then drop me a line feefmickathotmail.com (I'll take this off in a few hours). I don't know if your DH is the same as mine but mine gets hugely defensive if I attempt any criticism of his company so again that's something I'm working on avoiding. I've found that in the past, I would 'go off on one' when he told me about a work trip/meeting that would mean missing something important. I try now (through gritted teeth LOL) to say, "that's a shame and so sorry you'll miss x,y, z but I'm sure the girls and I will have an amazing time. Reverse pyschology LOL. Anyway, I'm rambling................ Hi I tried to email you but it wouldn't go through...... My email is [email protected]. ,, yes you are correct I am a Prince fan!!!!!
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Latest post on 10 September 2012 - 08:53
purplerain and AusJor, I can relate to you both. My DH was rarely home and when he was, he was holed up in his office trying to catch up on work that had accumulated while he was away on his last trip and getting prepared for his next trip. There have been times when he's only been in the UAE for one night between overseas trips.It got to the point where the kids didn't seem to know or care whether he was home or not. If anything will go wrong or need sorting out, it will always happen when the DH is away. I don't buy it that you should put up with it because he has a good job - it's not such a great deal if you don't have a family life and marriage. As long as DH was prepared to give his pound of flesh, his company was prepared to take it. For us it got to the point where the situation was unworkable as a family and luckily his company listened to him. Only now, after years, are things starting to change. I wish you luck, but want you to know you're not the only one and there are some of us who completely understand your frustrations :( What your saying is completely true ! Things always happen when he's away (of the dramatic nature) and yes we all get used to him not being here and almost when he returns we get out of sink kids play up and argue nets occure! What really worries me is that I'm only in mid thirties so potentially we could have another 20 years of this !!!! Plus no aoffence for advise I'm asking strangers !!! That makes me even more depressed about the situation !!! This morning I am thorally fed up infant in tears
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Latest post on 10 September 2012 - 08:50
At first I thought this was going to be one of the usual types of thread like this where everyone thinks - yes, big deal, so what, we all do that BUT this seems beyond the norm...I suppose because it is HIS company then there is the reason plain and square?Even the busiest man I know doesn't work this amount away. However, it is important to get a balance in life - we shouldn't live for tomorrow because sometimes it never comes for a variety of reasons. Keep your eye on this.Too many holidays missed - this is not right. Something needs to change here.. PS What line of business, is this? This will make you laugh! It isn't his business just one he has help set up for the last 5 years on false promises to the staff! Its all todo with sports that's why he lives/loves it !! He gives the company everything he can and I know I'm biased but he does an excellent job, but it's just relentless now <em>edited by purplerain on 10/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:58
True! DD is 3.3 Y.O, DS just turned 2 in July :) No worries re typos! I'm on laptop yet heaps of misspellings. Mine are 13,9,6 and 2 !!!!! Crazy days !!!
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:49
Hi purplerain, I'm in a similar situation! We moved to Dubai early last year. The headoffice (overseas) offered my husband an on and off role to Dubai with a promise to fully relocate him after one year to their Dxb office. So here we are after one year husband still works literaly 4 weeks in Dubai and 4 weeks overseas (14 HOURS from dubai). We have 2 very young children. I'm all alone raising, entertaining and fully responsible for. Last year we bought a villa to settle and live like a normal family.Still no updtes from company the only excuse is that there isnt enough work demand for an executive manager to be fully based here. To add my husband is always busy spends more time in the skies than on earth travelling to all sort of places. He used to e-mail me his itenraries but not anymore so Im left guessing if he is on a plane etc calculating time diffrence which is driving me crazy. I feel like a single parent, left to make solo desicions for the family exp when it comes to the children. He is always tired when he arrives becuase of jet lag (14 hours non-stop to dubai). Although he tried applying for jobs in dubai but so far this hasnot been successful :( edited by AusJor on 09/09/2012 God that sounds tough- I worry that he wouldn't get anther job so never relay push him far enough to actually apply! It would almost be too much to have to except this it, so all the time I think he cold get something else I think that is what he would do if push come to shove!! Yep being a single parent spings to mind !!! How old are your kids ? Excuse spelling on iPad in bed ! See my exciting expat lifestyle!!
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:47
Hi purplerain, I'm in a similar situation! We moved to Dubai early last year. The headoffice (overseas) offered my husband an on and off role to Dubai with a promise to fully relocate him after one year to their Dxb office. So here we are after one year husband still works literaly 4 weeks in Dubai and 4 weeks overseas (14 HOURS from dubai). We have 2 very young children. I'm all alone raising, entertaining and fully responsible for. Last year we bought a villa to settle and live like a normal family.Still no updtes from company the only excuse is that there isnt enough work demand for an executive manager to be fully based here. To add my husband is always busy spends more time in the skies than on earth travelling to all sort of places. He used to e-mail me his itenraries but not anymore so Im left guessing if he is on a plane etc calculating time diffrence which is driving me crazy. I feel like a single parent, left to make solo desicions for the family exp when it comes to the children. He is always tired when he arrives becuase of jet lag (14 hours non-stop to dubai). Although he tried applying for jobs in dubai but so far this hasnot been successful :( edited by AusJor on 09/09/2012 God that sounds tough- I worry that he wouldn't get anther job so never relay push him far enough to actually apply! It would almost be too much to have to except this it, so all the time I think he cold get something else I think that is what he would do if push come to shove!! Yep being a single parent spings to mind !!! How old are your kids ?
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:43
Hi PP, Sorry to hear about this very disruptive situation. What is not clear from what you have written is this - is he also frustrated and upset about the extra pressure, stress and also being away from the family? Or is he not showing any sign of dissatisfaction? That makes a big difference because he may be keen to find a solution which at least can help you to see that that there may be light at the end of the tunnel. But if he is quite happy with the job and enjoying the travel and challenge, that makes it much harder for you. If he cant admit that he doesn't want to work less, then he may blame the job and be a 'victim' to the job and claim that it is 'all out of hands/ control' If he would like to make changes, he can start learning to say 'no' more often, and have a serious talk with his supervisors about his responsibilities to his family. Good luck no matter what happens. xx Thanks - what your saying makes total sense ! He does say it is too much and about 6 months ago talked to the big boss other than the big boss he is in charge ! Anyway things were promised to change and more support given but non has been , infant 3 managers have left, loading husband with even more to deal with. The thing is he loves his job and would never swap it for an easier maybe less exciting job even if it meant more money and more time out - so work has him where the want him as they know that ! So yep he is a slave to work I suppose !!
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:35
I would definitely be feeling the 'strain' and getting out my 'colander' Sorry couldn't resist that and don't mean to be flippant. It is very hard here to get a work/life balance and some folks have to work really long hours. It won't be forever, I'd be grateful he has a good job. edited by cushion on 09/09/2012 Ha ha just read that ! If I had a colander to hand I may of hit it on his head!!! I know he is lucky to have job but I think company is luckier to have him !!!
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:33
Sorry I can't help with the overall issue. One thing that may help communication with his constant traveling though is an app called Wipolo. He just has to email the bookings/confirmations of hotel, flights, even car rentals and it gets downloaded on your app. That way you can plan things and know when he's away at the tip of your phone. It also helps when trying to keep up with an itinerary so you know where to reach him in case of emergency xxx That's a good idea - thank you x
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Latest post on 09 September 2012 - 21:23
Sounds to me like she is working you!! If se wanted to go hoe genuinely money would make no difference really. I expect she has another job offer and is hedging her bets !! She might stay but in 6 months mess you about again. If she had a real connection with your daughter she wouldn't leave unnecessarily , especially if she is treated well and paid well. I would get rid te trust has gone and she is on te prowl for a better job and no ties !! Bad luck maid searching is a nightmare but someone u can't test in your house is far worse !
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Latest post on 05 September 2012 - 07:29
I was prescribed one this morning for DS and told to pick it up from emirates hospital. ohhh that sounds good let me know - .... I managed to get to get 15 months life span on the pens from UK, but it took some searching then the pharmacy ordered !!!
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Latest post on 04 September 2012 - 20:35
As far as I know you can't get them here, I did get the equivalent from from the Iranian hospital but shortly after they were recalled!!! Great!!! I ended up getting 4 from our family GP when I went back to the UK in the summer all free too when they are nearly AED 600 here !! Can anyone get some and send them out xx
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Latest post on 04 September 2012 - 20:29
Hi Does anyone know who has these in stock? Thanks
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Latest post on 04 September 2012 - 20:29
Hi Does anyone know who has these in stock? Thanks
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Latest post on 27 August 2012 - 22:30
My 3rd didn't speak until very late and I was most worried, now at 2 years 3 months and a few weeks back in the Uk she doesnt stop and is super clear too! I believe all the dialogues and accents in Dubai don't help as well as siblings and just not having family around constantly chatting etc etc Don't worry at all just enjoy te peace and quiet, I know easier said than done but try !!! All be fine I'm sure !
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Latest post on 27 August 2012 - 22:23
Still looking no luck on finding an A2 ..... Flexible on times now ... Please help
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Latest post on 27 August 2012 - 22:21
Or executive towers .... Or business bay???? Please please any info!!!!
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Latest post on 23 August 2012 - 18:34
Anyone !!!!
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Latest post on 18 August 2012 - 19:58
Hi Irooni thanks for the number but I can't delete your thread?? Sorry
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Latest post on 18 August 2012 - 17:49
Send a message to http://www.facebook.com/simonette.boffellibarnard?ref=ts She holds yoga classes at dso. Thank you - but could you send her number or telephone - I am a Facebook free person !!!
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Latest post on 18 August 2012 - 12:37
I know - she is from a long line of swimmers- sad to say i am well out of practice or I would join her - I used to be a county swimmer but no just bob about catching a tan ! Any groups please let me know as I think she may get home sick and swim friends and time will definitely help !
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Latest post on 18 August 2012 - 10:08
DESS is fab !! I would drive from AD everyday if that was what I needed to avoid some of the other rubbish schools here !! We have lived on AR/Dubai Land area and have kids at DESC and DESS, the morning runs are easy, equally Jumeriah and Beach Road areas would only be about 20 mins but possibly longer to get home after school as traffic would be heavier....... Good luck, I'm sure you will be try happy with DESS !!
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Latest post on 29 July 2012 - 19:24
Toys r us in times square or toy store in ibn battuta Thanks do you know how much they are??
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Latest post on 29 July 2012 - 19:15
Hi there Do any of you ladies know where i can get a ride on suitcase? You know the plastic kind for hand luggage and to drag your kids around the airport on ? Quick answers needed please as fly tomorrow night !! Yep as organised as ever !!
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 19:55
Hi Purplerain, We are looking to move in October and are very interested in DSO. I respect that mossb asked first and therefore if mossb isn’t interested would you mind sending me the details? I will post my email address once the post is either updated by yourself or mossb. Many thanks. October would work for us ..... I leave for UK on the 31st for 2wks but my husband is here over the summer so u are welcome to view it!! Just let me know ......thanks
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 11:45
I know on paper JBR etc is perfect I just personally think not great for their age ?? They will have a car each, my dad is actually working out here I know the traffic and driving etc is also going to be a learning curve ... as I think Marina and JBR are awful for getting in and out of not what you want after a day at work lots of it spent on the road ?? That's a bit of an 'ageist' statement ! Don't understand why you think age is a factor for living in JBR. My DH and I are even older than your parents - we are in our later 60's - and have been living in JBR for over 4 years. We love being here and our apartment is not bothered by noise. It's so convenient to have everything we need on our doorstep, supermarkets downstairs, restaurants, hotels, etc. and the also the bonus of having the beach just over the road. Have no intention of moving from here any time soon. We both have cars and can't say we find the traffic in and out to be a problem, even at peak times, we both come home around 5.30 p.m. each day. All car parks are accessed from the main road. Just don't drive down the Walk at night !! That is interesting to hear - I didn't mean to sound offensive I just didn't think they would alike to surrounded by 20 something wannabes loving themselves on the walk .... But then my experience is at weekends so a bit different maybe .. my concern is my dad will have to drive to Sharjah a lot coming from a small town where he can walk to work in 10 mins i think and hour plus drive would cause him issues??? I live in DSO and it takes me 25 mins from here to the office in Shajah to I'm adding at least half an hour from the Marina plus the issue of getting in your car area etcetc ... Where do you work ? what would you think time wise ?
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 10:14
I know on paper JBR etc is perfect [b'>I just personally think not great for [/b'>[b'>their age [/b'>?? They will have a car each, my dad is actually working out here I know the traffic and driving etc is also going to be a learning curve ... as I think Marina and JBR are awful for getting in and out of not what you want after a day at work lots of it spent on the road ?? :-P You catch my drift !!!
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:58
Hi - We might be leaving our 4 bed Villa on Cedar Mid September ,,,,,, its through a private landlord so nun of that silly ripping up of garden business! It is 170 a year in 2 cheques. End villa right next door to a little park area. We have painted it out in white downstairs and made it really quit lovely - if your interested send me your email ...
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:56
Ladies, further to my last post, DH is saying that he's been scouring the property sites for a couple of weeks and nothing has come up in Silicon Oasis. Does anyone who lives there know of any that are up for rent? Does anyone know why the supply of villas seems to have fallen off a cliff at a time when there should be plenty coming free? DH has set his heart on Cedre villas.
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:55
I like it not his normal choice of song but sweet and has a lovely tone/meaning to it Muslim or not ! <em>edited by purplerain on 20/07/2012</em>
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:33
Does anybody know the name of apartments to the left of Safa park opposite Union co-op, they have glass fronts are putting shops in below them ??
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:33
Does anybody know the name of apartments to the left of Safa park opposite Union co-op, they have glass fronts are putting shops in below them ??
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 09:28
http://www.justrentals.com/apartments/sheikh-zayed-road/619816-spacious-3-br-maid-on-szr-aspin-tower-sheikh-zayed-road-view.html Anyone got info on this apartment area?
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Latest post on 20 July 2012 - 08:57
I know on paper JBR etc is perfect I just personally think not great for their age ?? They will have a car each, my dad is actually working out here I know the traffic and driving etc is also going to be a learning curve ... as I think Marina and JBR are awful for getting in and out of not what you want after a day at work lots of it spent on the road ??