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Latest post on 12 June 2014 - 16:07
I have found Naturalizer kinder on shins and the bumpy bits of feet that tend to chafe.
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Latest post on 12 June 2014 - 12:47
Some people CAN be too sensitive, that's just the way they are built. It doesn't always have to do with depression. Have you always felt strongly empathic or is this just a one-off case? If its a random thing it could be hormonal or depression as someone else said. It could be you are a bit sensitive too. For example I used to be mad about animals. As a small child I saw a penguin for the first time on tv and cried because I thought his feet were stuck in some way. Mum was exasperated. Ditto for a box of kittens someone abandoned on a roadside. My siblings and I carried them home and then I cried when our parents refused to take them in. I was worried about what would happen to them. After I had children a switch went off there - I don't like reading about bad stuff happening to kids, especially very little ones. I don't go reading if the headline suggests its bad, but sometimes its front page and you cant help reading more - in such cases, a couple of them, I think I will remember the horror and shock I first felt for a good time to come. I don't sink into a depression about it though or fall back into it every time, its just a rude awakening of how terrible humans can sometimes be to each other. Try to remember something - only the bad stuff gets reported so it feels like a lot of bad things are happening. You sometimes get to read about extraordinary acts of kindness and heroism (such a lovely thing when it happens) but it does happen on a lesser scale somewhere or the other everyday.
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Latest post on 11 June 2014 - 18:59
I don't like when grown women put xoxo when they write to people they barely know. Suits teen girls with a tendency to post pouting selfies on facebook. Hate when grown men wait behind me for an elevator and then slip nimbly past inside as I struggle to get my stroller indoors. Hate people who ignore a well established queue like they don't see it right there. Hmm.... Also people who say "I [i'>know[/i'>, right?" or "Shut up!" to express surprise.
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Latest post on 11 June 2014 - 08:45
It appears so, indeed. I sense a conspiracy. But I feel better when I think someone will come along a few years from now, to resurrect this thread and tell me about the great dentist who may have taken it.
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Latest post on 09 June 2014 - 19:34
Isn't there a Susan Walpole mini shop in Dubai Mall, near the Hallmark shop? I thought I saw something similar lately and now realized I had mistaken it for the Camel Co.
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Latest post on 09 June 2014 - 18:42
For some reason the mall loos leave hose settings on the highest pressure possible - I imagine those not expecting such high water levels may be getting a shock themselves. I always do a 'test blast' without using the hose to full capacity. Most people who wash don't always leave the place a wet mess - the floor is always dry afterwards. I personally don't like to use a loo that's got water everywhere myself. We go through rolls of TP (I find the ones here are paper thin!), and bins with lids. As another poster said, we clean with water and then wipe with a toilet roll - freshest, dry feeling ever! Soggy bums don't work for me. On another note - I am amazed at the details my fellow esteemed EWers and I have shared on this lofty topic. I can bet this has already been re posted on other sites and at least one online news site may be trying to figure out how to spin this into a human interest story!
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Latest post on 09 June 2014 - 17:19
so, do all the people who only use the spray seriously imagine that those of us who don't are walking around with "pooey bums" (to use my youngest's phrase) ? Do you not think that we make sure the last piece of paper is spotless before we finish ? Sorry to be gross about this but there seems to be a misunderstanding.. also, most times there's barely a mark on the paper anyway - perhaps different diets make for different consistencies that require different levels of cleaning - trying not to be too graphic !! lol when you blow your nose do you have to use wet tissues ? Sorry mean no offence to anyone but I belong to Team hosepipe, and find the act of wiping inadequate and not very clean. Just my opinion. In certain dire circumstances I have had to use TP and always found the underwear was not as fresh and clean (and I used until I the TP was white). In everything we use water as the best way to clean something that has been soiled - from showers, to pre washing food that needs cooking or eating, or dishes that have been used, clothes, everything imaginable. If wiping was all that was required why not use it as a conservation tactic more often or for more things? Can you imagine wiping off sweat from a brow or underarm and thinking it was enough - no, you'd still feel icky and unclean afterwards. How can the greasy lank hair require shampoo but not water for a pooey bum? And this is something I always wondered - and forgive me for bumping up the gross factor by a thousand but I guess this thread is my one opportunity - but how does paper clean when Aunt Flow arrives once a month??
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Latest post on 30 May 2014 - 12:55
I feel sorry for maids when I see the attitude and outlook some employers have. She is a worker, and does work for money, just like anyone else, she is not less than any other employee just because of her job description. I agree that Western expats pamper (for want of a better word) their maids more than other nationalities, the only downside is when they get taken advantage of, however its better to 'err' by being too nice rather than being too mean.
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Latest post on 29 May 2014 - 20:49
If we were all as dumb as the OP thought we were, we would not only fall for this markting ploy but also be in the queue outside whichever village is doling out this herb and getting herpes shots when we dont have herpes. The OP wishes. edited by Redrec Tangle on 29/05/2014 <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 29/05/2014</em>
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Latest post on 29 May 2014 - 09:04
I would never tell someone who is struggling with a phobia of any kind to "get over it" because that trivilazes it and can have a determinental effect. I would never suggest you just get in your car and start driving. Baby steps now, giant strides much later. Start with a reliable car in which you feel safe, find a coach driver and make sure they understand what it is you are dealing with, pick a quiet stretch of road to start with. See how it goes, your goal shouldnt be to pressurise yourself into driving like anyone else does. It should be to show yourself that you can do this, a little at a time. Fear can be a paralyzing thing, but overcoming it can be a liberating experience, dont give up on the chance to own your life a lot more. Iwas agreeing with you on this. Reaffirming that no-one wants to have a fear. That you are spot on. Oh. I see. I didnt get that (obviously)! Apologies for the previous post. : / sorry.
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Latest post on 29 May 2014 - 08:44
I would never tell someone who is struggling with a phobia of any kind to "get over it" because that trivilazes it and can have a determinental effect. I would never suggest you just get in your car and start driving. Baby steps now, giant strides much later. Start with a reliable car in which you feel safe, find a coach driver and make sure they understand what it is you are dealing with, pick a quiet stretch of road to start with. See how it goes, your goal shouldnt be to pressurise yourself into driving like anyone else does. It should be to show yourself that you can do this, a little at a time. Fear can be a paralyzing thing, but overcoming it can be a liberating experience, dont give up on the chance to own your life a lot more. I tell myself I need to get over it, but it is not my place to tell another. If they could, I am sure they would have. No one actually likes to paralyze themselves. The OP admitted having an issue with a fear of driving and how it is interfering with her life. She also said this thread has nudged her just a little bit towards doing something about it. Nowhere have I trivialised her fear of roads and driving, but saying something helpful and positive is better than just sitting back and saying nothing, so why are you picking apart each of my posts? If you actually read what I wrote I didnt say get over it, and that I too struggled with a phobia once, and it was something someone told me that stuck in my head and came back to rescue me when I found myself wavering and leaning back towards giving into my fear. If you actually have something constructive to add to this thread go right ahead, otherwise follow your own advice and say nothing!
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Latest post on 29 May 2014 - 08:20
I would never tell someone who is struggling with a phobia of any kind to "get over it" because that trivilazes it and can have a determinental effect. I would never suggest you just get in your car and start driving. Baby steps now, giant strides much later. Start with a reliable car in which you feel safe, find a coach driver and make sure they understand what it is you are dealing with, pick a quiet stretch of road to start with. See how it goes, your goal shouldnt be to pressurise yourself into driving like anyone else does. It should be to show yourself that you can do this, a little at a time. Fear can be a paralyzing thing, but overcoming it can be a liberating experience, dont give up on the chance to own your life a lot more.
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Latest post on 29 May 2014 - 08:10
Thats actually quite true, and I have begun to get a new perspective on this. Properly hydrated, it could be something he could get used to. And its a fact that kids here get nowhere near as much exercise as they should. While I still dont think I will take mine walking in Dubai summer heat, I will probably not be as concerned if I saw them again... The mum is quite nimble on her feet and very focused as someone mentioned. It does seem she is using a time otherwise spent traveling to instead get some exercise.
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Latest post on 28 May 2014 - 22:49
What strikes me as the main issue here is not the need vs want for a car, but the fear of driving that has halted a way of life that you might have had. I have also struggled with (a different phobia) in my life and I think when you find yourself making excuses or working your life in such a way so as to fit around a fear, that would have me thinking. I always feel the answer to such questions can be simply answered if the fear is controlling you or you are controlling the fear. If its the former, then give yourself the chance to break out of the cycle. If everyone that you see driving in Dubai can do it - average folk, people from all parts of the world, from all walks of life - then there is no reason why one of those people cant be you too. In most cases - not all - our minds can overcome most fears, provided you are willing to take the first step towards overcoming a fear rather than giving in to it. There is nothing more empowering than doing the very thing that you were once afraid of. That said, I still draw the line at base jumping. :D
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Latest post on 28 May 2014 - 22:35
Thanks ladies, I feel relieved after reading these responses. DT, I was concerned because of both - the distance, the heat, but mostly because of how distressed he seemed. I really wasn't sure if he was too little to cope well. I think, if I see her again, I may just offer a lift, and hope it wont be misconstrued as a criticism of her.
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Latest post on 22 May 2014 - 08:57
I agree with Genie as well. That said, there isn't a lot of women-centric Disney stuff around but, after ages I finally watched Frozen (for my kids) and it wasn't as bad as I thought. Its essentially a tale of overcoming fear, having self-belief, there is a 'true love' aspect but you will be surprised at the context it is placed in and best part - no Prince Charming/rescue fair damsel angle. Tangled went there a fair bit, with Rapunzel showing spunk, rescuing the thief character a couple of times and getting ideas to get out of tough spots, but this went further. Only con is you will have that song coming out of your ears!
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Latest post on 19 May 2014 - 17:12
While I understand how concerning it feels when you hear about unskilled parenting - especially when it seems it can be detrimental to a very small child, I wish people would back off from ripping a first time mum off. it could scare anyone else away from asking important questions that they may have - would you really want them to continue blundering their way about in the dark and making monumental mistakes with their children rather than risk the wrath of EW mums?
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Latest post on 19 May 2014 - 15:47
At a mall, in a store, my 5 year old nephew was playing with a basketball that was one of many on display. A lady came over and right in front of me, told him to stop doing it in a very rude way. She just walked off after shouting at him and ignored me completely. He looked at me and was crushed. I knew what that lady said was essentially right (that you don't create a noise or bounce a ball inside a store) but something inside me just snapped. I went looking for her and found her browsing something peacefully with her husband or partner. I asked her if she was the one that spoke so rudely to my nephew. She said yes and started to explain again how wrong his behavior was, but I cut her off and said if she has a problem with my kids, she should have talked to me, not him. I said, "This is a store, its not your home, you either talk to me or you take it up with management, you don't shout at my kids, do you understand?" She just kept quiet and I saw her partner starting to nod his head. His mum told him off later herself for goofing off in a store of course. I think when it comes to children, there is a very short, direct pre-approved line of disciplining, and not many people should be allowed to cut in. If you ever have a problem with the kid, tell the parent and don't deal directly with the child.
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Latest post on 19 May 2014 - 13:07
For a group that is very little and wont be receiving toilet assistance, I don't understand how they expect a 3 year old to be able to clean themselves properly at such a little age. Then they have swim classes which cant be good for hygiene reasons. FS1 start ages are way too early but what choice do I have otherwise? My older child was 3.8 and was able to manage much much better. Its just a matter of six months give or take and it makes a world of difference. You do not have to send your child to FS1 or FS2. Yes LC, it looks more likely that a nursery will be the better option for her this year. A school setting is way too formal for a 3.2 year old. But shuttling from nursery to big school in FS2 will be another change that she may find hard to adapt to. And still to deal with the fact that with these skewed cut off dates she will only reach the 'appropriate age' for the year group at the very end of the academic year that she will be in and the youngest year on year. Think it needs a minimum age rather that a cut off date. Grr...
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Latest post on 19 May 2014 - 10:03
For a group that is very little and wont be receiving toilet assistance, I don't understand how they expect a 3 year old to be able to clean themselves properly at such a little age. Then they have swim classes which cant be good for hygiene reasons. FS1 start ages are way too early but what choice do I have otherwise? My older child was 3.8 and was able to manage much much better. Its just a matter of six months give or take and it makes a world of difference. After re-reading things I am not sure if this refers to FS1 or FS2 as nowhere is the actual grade mentioned. Not all schools offer FS1 on their campus and KHDA may not consider FS1 as part of the new rule, which puts us back where we started. But seeing as most of the posters on this thread were not for a late start this could be good news for you at least. <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 19/05/2014</em>
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Latest post on 19 May 2014 - 08:54
Yes you are right. Here is another one that seems to clarify that very point. Hope this helps! http://www.khaleejtimes.com/kt-article-display-1.asp?xfile=data/educationnation/2014/May/educationnation_May22.xml&section=educationnation
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Latest post on 18 May 2014 - 21:49
I recommend Moorfields Eye Hospital in Dubai Healthcare City.
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Latest post on 18 May 2014 - 21:43
Toilet trained at nearly 2? That's very early, but as someone else said, also allows for a longer window period of accidents. She's still so little, give her time and leeway for her body to train itself, I think you will see a big change in another 6 months. I am surprised you can be mad at her for something that's just not in her control yet?! A little unfair. I am curious why you would think she has issues that would require a psychologist? Also, is she attending a nursery where she may be getting different training cues that are getting crossed with yours? If you are worried about accidents, lay newspapers or have her sit on a waterproof blankie that Babyshop sells, that will soak up the mess, put in the wash and dries quickly, it will save extra work for you. You should be proud she mastered it so soon, just give her a little time and be patient, as they say, no one ever went to college in diapers - eventually they all catch on! :)
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Latest post on 17 May 2014 - 23:05
Sorry OP but your husbands words and actions are making me angry on your behalf. He has to go to 'let it out of his system' or is it that you also know his mood and behavior towards you will worsen? He has used the "I regret marrying you" line to put you on a guilt trip and its hanging over your head like a Damocles sword now. That said, a baby (or two) really rocks the boat of any marriage, these are testing times and sometimes it takes a while for things to settle and partners to establish chores, taking turns, and routines, meanwhile the unsettled nights and small children make matters worse and people say and do things they normally wouldn't. This needs to be driven with an intent of creating a solid parenting partnership, and love and commitment not just to your children but to each other, or else it just becomes miserable for one partner to carry the burden all the time. I really hope for your sake that your DH will stop throwing his toys out of the pram soon and be a good dad and husband.
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Latest post on 07 May 2014 - 18:11
I would ask security, perhaps two of them, to check with him if he is a parent/ his reason for being around the building. If he is genuine he will have a reason to be there, if he is up to no good, its better he knows that he has raised suspicions. When it comes to the safety of little children you can never be too careful.
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Latest post on 07 May 2014 - 07:50
Would have been nice to have it when the hypnotism inducing maze known as mall parking first opened!
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Latest post on 06 May 2014 - 10:33
No, but our help and support is appreciated as always. I believe Megsy, Daza an Sourskitt are merely being helpful. No - they need to agree with new posters and play nice....... Naughty Daza, Megs and sourpus In fact, you should run over to the below mentioned place in order to be very supportive of the new poster ... lol
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Latest post on 06 May 2014 - 08:51
I knew when I read the OP it was a (obvious) plug but then they had to push their luck, and create friends to chime in. So annoying because of the assumption that everyone is stupid and will buy it, has a total reverse effect on me. Please take your imaginary friends and multiple exclamation marks elsewhere.
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Latest post on 06 May 2014 - 08:42
Tattie, why can you never accept that Dubai isn't for everyone..[b'>.Every time it comes up you're like a salesman trying to flog[/b'> all the things you think are great here.. I'm happy for you that you love it here so much, I do too, but I also respect other people's opinions and if their Dubai experience isn't working for them then sobeit..I'm sure Ruth knows where she can go ski or buy organic produce...it won't change her mind..but as CW says, having a baby's eyes to see the place through might :) , lol that bit made me laugh. Like anywhere else an expat your perception of life in a home away from home is an intensely personal experience. Outlook, expectations, character, personality, values, goals, everything makes a difference. Everyone has a right to love/like/dislike their version of Dubai. That said, if I were made to live in a place that made me so miserable, I would do everything I can to change the situation for the betterment of my mental state: either I would learn to accept life the best I can, to see the positive outcome of it, even if its a benefit that will pay off years from now (being able to afford a house in your home country) or failing that I would try to leave, and find ways and means to make it work for my husband, children and myself.
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 19:24
I was upset on his behalf too, in contrast he has grounded priorities, just a loving husband and dad who wanted nothing more than a normal life and suddenly his world turned upside down. I feel sad for his little girls too.
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 17:52
DH's friend found out his [i'>wife[/i'> was having affairs, not something that happened with just one person and they fell in love or whatever, but an intentional, reckless merry-go-round of men, it seems that just about anyone will do. The husband found out a while ago and after getting over the shock has hired a detective to gather evidence. She has figured out that he knows something and is now being extra careful to not be caught. I asked DH how his friend can bear to be in the marriage. He says that she would be awarded custody and his friend cannot bear the thought of the wife bringing home shady characters who may end up semi-permanent fixtures in the lives of their two daughters. The guy's mind is reeling with the most awful scenarios, he seems well and truly stuck and miserable. It goes both ways as I am sure everyone knows. <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 05/05/2014</em>
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 16:45
Don't know about the whatsapp block but omg the guy sounds like such a drama queen. Who would want to marry this guy?
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 15:37
This has little to do with friendship and more with toxic ties mixed up with poor self esteem issues (on your friend's part). There isn't much you can do as she has chosen the path she will take, and as others have mentioned, it will be an unhappy one which will leave its own scars with time. It starts with friends, then pretty soon family will be shut down. Do you know any family of hers like siblings/cousins that you can touch base with from time to time, chances are they may feel the same about him and you will have an ally there. If and when she comes out on the other side, you can be there waiting.
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 12:50
SanRan hindsight is always 20/20, sometimes I think I just look for stuff to criticize myself as a mum, and I know I'm not alone: mother hood and guilt seem to go hand-in-hand but please try not to make yourself feel worse. The fault lies with the salon and its ridiculous customer service skills. Not you. Fix DD's hair, maybe get a cup of hot chocolate together, she knows you love her, and for children that really is enough. Sometimes its necessary to fight back and give people back as good as you get, and this probably would have been one of them, but its also nice for your DD to see her mum maintain her calm and dignity in a heated moment. To be arguing and debating hotly in front of her (as these things tend to get) would have been stressful for her as she would know she is the cause of it. Don't worry brace yourself, you'll find another moment like this soon enough. :)
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Latest post on 05 May 2014 - 12:37
I have recommended George from Caboodle in Dubai Mall before, they do kid's haircuts and are very very good.
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 13:23
My FJ beeps 5 times then just flashes..... not that i ever speed edited by IzzyOnTheSeat on 04/05/2014 Sounds like it gave up ?
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 13:22
SUCCESS!!! Everything is looking rosy again. You purple haired ladies are awesome.
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 13:12
I am not trying to be dense but I cannot see that in my local UK address supplied by SnS to my email. Is this on their website? In any case I will try that one with many thanks. What about US or other websites asking for local numbers? It's on the SnS website and the other numbers are also there under each address. I see that now, but it still wont accept that number as local UK one. Am I missing some code or numbers?
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 13:06
I am not trying to be dense but I cannot see that in my local UK address supplied by SnS to my email. Is this on their website? In any case I will try that one with many thanks. What about US or other websites asking for local numbers?
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 12:59
Ok I am on BHS atm, and something has just happened to stop serious wallet damage - and I am not happy. At the check out page - where I fill in my details - its asking for a valid UK local number. I don't have one I am in Dubai. I have a Shop n Ship UK address but no number. Please bear with me ladies how to maneuver this and get to my purchase? What to fill in the space for numbers on websites? I am putting only one question mark although I wanted to add several but hoping it doesn't undermine the urgency of this post. Thanks in advance :)
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 08:53
Can think of several websites that use the thumb function (its probably a spin-off from FB where it first originated). So many posters were panning EW for not doing more to make the forum exciting. I think they just came up with several strategies to rejuvenate the forum and it was at their disposal to use new features (as another poster wrote that many had asked for the thumbs). The b**chy behavior, inciting negativity and deliberate thumbing down, that's all just US. Take the thumbs away the rest will still be there. edited by Redrec Tangle on 04/05/2014
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 08:24
Don't know, but it could have many intentions, what is your theory????? Sorry, couldn't resist, but you kind of asked for that a little bit. :D
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Latest post on 03 May 2014 - 12:43
Thank you ladies, you are absolutely right, so on to plan B. With a heavy heart as what I saw online would have been perfect, I have been traipsing around town and nothing comparable is available. Ilovechoos, I am going to check if they can do that, but as per their website it delivers to specific locations as of now, Dubai not included. Thanks for the good idea.
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Latest post on 03 May 2014 - 01:30
No need to apologise I'm sure ...instead just get Mr. DT to add his two cents to this thread :D
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Latest post on 03 May 2014 - 01:16
I would greatly appreciate any responses from those who have shopped online as to how many working days does it take for a shipment to arrive. If I order something today - Saturday, from a UK website and pay extra for express delivery which says it will deliver to the local UK address by Tuesday, can I hope to have the order delivered to my door in Dubai on Wednesday latest ? It's no use if it arrives after that! Am I cutting it too close or will Aramex come through ? Anybody been through this who may have an idea ? I would like to know before I place the order so I can decide if I need a plan B. Thanks in advance.
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Latest post on 02 May 2014 - 23:54
puts me off commenting, anyone else? Not meaning to be snarky, but honestly why does it put you off at all, how would it matter on a personal level. So someone doesn't agree, big deal. I like this feature as it allows people to disagree without getting into a huge spat about things, it adds to the weight of a (good) response, and sometimes posters can be very sure their opinion is always right, and when they see an overwhelming number of thumbs down, it helps to put things in perspective. The only time it doesn't seem right is if its always a dislike no matter what the poster says/writes.
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Latest post on 02 May 2014 - 23:44
well I think this thread is one of the worst ideas we've ever had on here.... sorry but if your spouse is that bad then divorce him fgs, other wise just suck it up - none of us are perfect and i'm sure there's loads of things I do that pee my husband off but at the end of the day we're happy.... I thought EW was supposed to be a place where women could share stuff and ask for advice, not slag their husbands off or gloat in the knowledge that at least their husband isn't as horrible as all the others......sorry. My husband is lovely and I love him as much now as I did when I married him 27 years ago...sorry to disappoint... Oh give over DT. I have read a few of your snappy comments on threads which contributed zero to the OP's question and sometimes had little relevance as well, heck I enjoyed a couple of them myself. So should everyone only start/comment on threads that you deem acceptable? Pretty bizarre response and can only imagine you to be having an off day. bouncy, so sorry for your loss.
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Latest post on 01 May 2014 - 20:02
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Latest post on 01 May 2014 - 18:42
Ask the teacher or parent rep (who has the email addresses of all the parents) to forward an email prepared by you gently reminding them to RSVP to the invite as you need to finalize catering and other details. If some still dont respond you can decide if you want to cater with them in mind anyway. A day or two before the party, send out another reminder disguised as a mail with the location map of the place/home where you are holding the party. Because even if its already confirmed some people forget. And yes its normal for them to do this, do a search and you will read lots of grief, either no one turns up or they all come with extra siblings.
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Latest post on 01 May 2014 - 17:34
they share threads on FB!? :/: same same reaction. Who else is going there now?
 
 
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