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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:36
Not wanting to pay for/have to babysit other people's kids has *what* to do with cultural/custom sensitivities?
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:11
Parties at home are one thing, Irooni, and I wouldn't have a problem at all. I think most people would over-cater and draw up an extra few chairs at the food table without being upset. What I had a problem with was a catered event at a venue. When parents budget for x amount of kids at AED 50/75/100 a head, having 4 or 5 extras - gatecrashers - bumps the budget up. Not wanting to look after kids a maid is supposed to be taking care of so she can sod off around the mall (and have to pay for the privilege!) is not a lack of hospitality. Expecting to foist kids off onto someone else without asking is rude, pure and simple.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:36
I had heard this too, many moons ago, yet the Prophet's birthday is a day off. I'm trying to think if we got a day off for Sultan Qaboos' birthday in Oman. There was a street named after his birthday which seems a bit celebratory.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:11
Nah, that's my stage name. Oh no, my mistake, that's Randdy Sancher.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 14:37
Good like that, I am.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 14:28
'S alright BM, I won't straighten your tins for you. Not sure if that sounds rude or abusive....
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 13:26
[i'>I am amazed at how many people have the name Purple and ARancher! Gosh! [/i'> Just getting ideas for my next username and PurpleRancher was one I've liked for ages. (agree, get rid of the odd ones). <em>edited by Sanddy_Dogg on 08/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 13:23
Can't find details for the agency who are acting as sponsors so called Amer Service which is mentioned on the visa. Amer Service is a government department. The lady I spoke to asked if it is an online visa (lightbulb moment - the office guy mentioned 'online visa'). She said for that, the info I was given is correct and he just needs to present his copy. She did say however, if there's a problem the sponsor should attend with the original. Fingers crossed there's no problem, then.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 13:11
When we've arranged visas for him in the past we've got the office guy (kind-of-PRO) to drop them at the airport the day before. He's now saying there's no need, just present the copy. It's been arranged through a travel agency so maybe they deposit the original at the airport. I guess I should see if I can get contact details for them and check with them. ETA, DH's company moved from one Free Zone to another so this is the first time a travel agency has been used. <em>edited by Sanddy_Dogg on 08/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 13:08
No, I would wear someone else's to see the reaction I would get. Just kidding. Yes, of course I would. I'd have yours :) I suppose some people would have to wear a long coat to ensure they have enough room.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 11:36
If you want to keep it, stay here and keep your job could you ust have a quickie civil ceremony somewhere to cover the legalities and then have a 'proper' wedding at a later date when the time feels better? Congratulations, by the way ;)
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 08:46
Freckles, I think it depends on the type of party who's invited. When we, as parents, know each other then we'll all be there anyway. I took exception when DD had kids from her class invited who I didn't know, and who's parents and siblings I certainly didn't know and their siblings were just slotted into line for food. I've also had to take DS when he was small and like you, I've squared it with the hostess first. I simply wouldn't dream of shoving him into a party he's not invited to, where I don't know the parents, and buggering off expecting someone else to foot the bill [b'>and [/b'>take care of him.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 08:26
only read the last few posts but OMG @ 450 dhs for a kid's birthday present.... insane !! Not in this house!
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 06:37
When we've done a party at home it's taken as read that siblings of family friends will come as the family friends will be there too. The only time siblings has been an issue was when I had an organised party for DD at MoE - movie and meal. Before the movie the kids had to line up to tell a staff member their choice of meal for after the movie before going into the movie theatre.. A few maids showed up with the invitees plus siblings and shoved the siblings into the line. I removed them from the line and told the maids that if they wanted the siblings to eat and watch the movie they would have to pay themselves, it wasn't going on my bill. I got filthy looks but as they were just trying to palm their charges off onto me for the afternoon I couldn't give a s***.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 20:34
I've had my card stopped recently, and rightly so - it was for a (small) transaction that was not mine. When I've been issued with a new card I've had a few calls from the bank to verify transactions. Some websites won't process an order where the two addresses don't match.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 19:46
I was a big supporter of the RNLI when we were in the UK; my Dad goes to sea regularly. I make a donation to Cancerbackup (now merged with Macmillan nurses) every year on the anniversary of my Stepnan's death. I also support local animal charities and more recently I'm hoping to support a charity which concerns itself with helping take care of babies in prison with their mothers as well as buying air tickets for people who have completed prison sentences who cannot afford tickets.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 19:25
Buying goods in the UK or US and having them delivered to Shop & Ship means that items are delivered to a UK/US address with a UAE billing address. I've just used my UAE credit card to have Amazon send stuff to my Mum's address in the UK.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 15:32
Maybe it's by mutual agreement where the maid gets another day off in lieu, and is happy to work. Maybe she gets a bonus too. You can't assume that every person bringing a maid is someone who makes the maid work on her time off regularly, or for no compensation.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 09:13
Blimey! Lady Luck was certainly smiling down on them that evening, and thank goodness.
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Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 09:03
Hope these flashes soon pass an she's back to 100% (and her friend too), sounds like they had a very lucky escape. What happened?
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 20:59
Or ceiling fans! :)
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 20:45
Some of our rooms have dimmer switches but have 2 switches - 1 dimmer, one on/off switch.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 20:33
ROFL at C-String. They're not new though, in the late 80's they were called Clump Clips.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:40
so to summarise, so far we have a business that sells : sand, shisha, generators, spices, moroccan oil, Freckles husband and children, fabrics, fags, dates, jewellery, luxury cars and knives! :-P Expat Woman Foodstuffs and General Trading LLC
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:28
Sorry but it's not legal to employ someone who is not sponsored by you or an agency. The fines for getting caught are pretty steep too. I use an agency (different emirate) but I get the same lady every time.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:24
I think it's bl**dy awful but if those are your two windows to arrive I would go for April simply because I wouldn't want to arrive in the middle of Ramadan when government offices are on reduced hours possibly causing huge delays to you getting through all the red tape.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:20
I don't know. When I was in Dubai Cedars closest to me but I still decided that if it was a real, SERIOUS emergency I would head for Rashid. Up here in the Wild West we have a hospital very much like the American where we go for general stuff - healthcare checks, orthodontics, GP type issues, but if it was serious, serious I'd head to the government hospital next door.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:16
Well you would. But you'd only be useful for Rashid hospital. ;) They are great directions. CiD also offers good advice - find your hospital BEFORE you need it.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 19:12
Near Healthcare City. Rashid was there before HC. DC's directions are accurate.
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 18:53
Rashid Hospital or Al Wasl in an Emergency ( severe ) City Hospital ( in general ). We've had 2 situations where admission has been necessary and both times the staff were faultless. SH edited by sleepyhead on 06/03/2011 Agreed. I asked my GP and he told me the above. DH got taken to American hospital after a motorbike accident; what a shower of .... that was. OK for broken arms and cut forehead type of emergencies but for the 'real' stuff I'd want Rashid which is where he was supposed to have benn taken except the ambulance book for the event took a wrong turn and couldn't find its way there...
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 18:07
I'm not surprised. The security guard won't have vehicle insurance you can claim from so it has to come from your insurance. It's like hitting a wall or a post - your insurance has to pay as no other vehicle was involved. It might be worth contacting the security company, as others have said, or lodging a complaint with the police, to see if you can get some (at least) of the costs covered. ETA Sorry, it sounds like I have no sympathy, but I'm cross on your behalf :( <em>edited by Sanddy_Dogg on 06/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 15:32
That could be it!
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 15:30
No, miss b, really it's not! :)
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 15:29
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Latest post on 06 March 2011 - 10:26
OP said that the company require a court decree stating that they have sole financial responsibility. That would make it a bit more complicated, assuming the company know that the child has a different biological father.
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Latest post on 19 February 2011 - 11:51
I don't think too many people think that maids deliberately break appliances. I think it's more a case of being upset at the lack of care employed when using someone elses appliances.
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Latest post on 18 February 2011 - 20:06
Great website. I wish you the best of health to enable you to do everything you need and want to do in the future. x
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Latest post on 18 February 2011 - 08:15
Ooh, Annais is still going, that's great news! I used to visit her at her old location. She had a good selection and her prices were reasonable. I had a class with her a few years ago and she set me on my way with stamping, something I still enjoy.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:42
GMTA
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:40
It's somewhere you can get everything. Especially shave foam and razors.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:16
My money's on mrs j being a bloke.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:14
Hmm, just looked at the calendar, it must be Thursday.... *like*
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:13
Some of the guys at DH's work have said we can get one for about Dh800 pm ikes and we need a cook too. edited by Mrs J Lincoln on 17/02/2011 Oh, I'm so slow - it's THURSDAY!!!!
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 21:11
Cannot give a full day of a week? You can't cook your own breakfast one day a week? Good grief!
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 20:07
We only went in there because they have ceiling fans from The Ceiling Fan Company on display but were really pleasantly surprised by the stock they have. A lot of it is pretty contemporary.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 14:01
Huda lighting on Um Sequiem road has a great selection of light fittings.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 08:59
We bought recently at the Intercoil place right at interchange 4. They sell other brands as well at Intercoil.
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Latest post on 17 February 2011 - 08:03
You say if you settle in one place it will be the Middle East. Do you mean for a few years like 5 or 10 years rather than for good?
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Latest post on 16 February 2011 - 19:35
I'm even going to straighten my hair and put on make up at 4am cos I is well posh and is flyin wid Emirates innit :D ROFL! :) Enjoy your flight. Thanks :) I'll be the common one asking for 10 pepsis and putting them in my handbag! *Joke* Pepsis??? Lightweight!! It's the vodkas you need to sneak into the bag.
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Latest post on 16 February 2011 - 19:20
I'm even going to straighten my hair and put on make up at 4am cos I is well posh and is flyin wid Emirates innit :D ROFL! :) Enjoy your flight.