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Shzee

Shzee
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Latest post on 10 September 2015 - 02:01
Thanks. Could I get you work email so that he can send you his cv. Just so that you can keep an eye on any oppurtunities. He will be visiting dubai in winter time. I apologise for interfering in your post and sounding like a stalker. Thanks
Shzee
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Latest post on 07 September 2015 - 23:44
Hi Just saw your post. I might not be helpful for you but was wondering if you could help me. My husband is looking for HR job oppurtunities in Dubai. HE is working in UK at the moment in Jacobs Engendering firm. His work experience in HR and Recruitment is almost 5 yrs. He has worked in Dubai for almost 4 years. Please let me know if there are any opportunities in this company. It clicked me when you mentioned that it's a new company and I assumed you will be hiring too.
Shzee
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Latest post on 24 August 2015 - 19:08
Seems true. I am going to apply for the job mentioned above and will look at other opportunities. If anyone of you out there know of any banking jobs, which is my experience,please let me know. Full or part time. The idea are clicked to my heart and I will try my best for it. My experience mainly includes customer service and Personal Banking advising .
Shzee
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Latest post on 24 August 2015 - 14:52
Thnks ladies I would look at these options.
Shzee
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Latest post on 24 August 2015 - 14:06
Yes u are right. I should go out and about. And when I do, my mother in law shows her disapproval by ignoring me when I am at home. My baby is nearly one yr old. I recently left my job as it demanded the hrs that would put both my kids on my MIL. AnD also I feel I don't have any brain left to deal with any pressures. I am a Masters in marketing and was working for a very good organization at entry level.
Shzee
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Latest post on 24 August 2015 - 13:44
Hi thnks My DH also wants a seperate place but he has delayed it and asked me to wait till mid next yr. Until he looks for more options like relocating. I can't go back to work, as no one will look after my baby. And day cares are just so expensive. I have been given future dates in the past as well to solve the problems but back then I had patient. Now that I have completely ran out of patient, still I have been given another future date. Which I am nt sure will actually come or extend. I have tried to confront my mother in law for alot of problems in the past but it seems she acknowledges them during the discussion but never act upon the solution.
Shzee
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Latest post on 15 August 2015 - 02:47
Thanks for re assurance. I'll take him to doc next week. I hope it's just teething.
Shzee
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Latest post on 13 August 2015 - 16:18
True. I'm glad I shared it here. Thinking within the brain and not sharing with anyone, you loose track of what's right and what's wrong. I hope God listens to my prayers.thanks all for helping me out.
Shzee
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Latest post on 13 August 2015 - 02:27
Thanks alot. Gives me much confidence that I am feeling right. Hopefully I can sort things out together with my hubby to make life better for us and our kids.
Shzee
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Latest post on 13 August 2015 - 01:03
Thnks for yr replies Yes my husband knows the situation. He himself now is a target as ever since he has developed understanding with me they dislike alot of his actions too. He want to live separately too but I think is scared of his mum. He keeps giving me dates of next yr for moving out. His mum and sister are emotional black mailers and can go to any extent for not letting him go. He has changed because now he wants to spend time with me and kids rather than sister and mum. Which was what used to happen before our kids came into this world. We live together because his mum does nt want him to be out of her hands. I feel that after trying for 10 yrs to get along with them, now I don't have the pateince left to cooperate with them. I just want my own space.
Shzee
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Latest post on 12 August 2015 - 23:40
My and my husband along with 2 kids live in a joint family with my mother in law and sister in law. Both of us feel that we can't stay with them any more. They both rule our life's, our relations, our parenting, our money, our rooms and our plans. U name any aspect of life and they feel they have rights on everything. I have a very harsh past with them in the start of my marriage after which it has been displayed by them many times that they hate me. Although recently it has not been said but crossing the privacy and personal space lines is common these days. Also the more my husband is getting involved with his kids and me the more they demand that he spends time with them and that he has changed. My mother in law does nt approve of any thing I do in the house. I can't even move a decoration price according to my own will. We don't get extra storage space in the house with increasing family members. The storage space is still occupied by her as she used to when I was only her in this house. She does not even like it when I go out and socialise as frequently as twice a month. She makes bad moods with me after that. There are many other things that we experience due to them that I can't keep on writing about it. But all of this uses my pateince and tolerance to the extent that I am left with no tolerance for my kids. I stay depressed and feel edgy all the time. When my mother in law annoys me with these habits, in my brain I imagine myself pushing and hitting her. We want to seperate but are scared of thier drama and whole family blaming that we left them on thier own! What do u ladies out there think?
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Latest post on 01 August 2015 - 04:56
Thanks :) I will ask him to work on all above advice. Although last yr he was head hunted by Saudi aramco but after that there has been no luck in this sense. But we are still hopeful. Thanks again.
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Latest post on 24 July 2015 - 00:07
Hi I can understand u situation I passed in my 3rd try although I hd already drive in other countries before. I was very nervous first 2 times and failed on silly mistakes. Although 3rd time I changed some of the things in my attitude and driving. 1. I studied the routes with my husband in the evening over and over again....While he was driving and I made notes on when to change lanes, which lane to enter, when to slow down in the roundabout etc. At home I memorised these steps. 2. I did not talk with my instructor in my refresher lessons and she only attended to my weak points. 3. I portrayed in my test that I was very confident. Even when I made a minor mistake I did nt worry abt it and continued with confidence. 4. I took my time to make sure that I do all the routine when I sat on the driving seat. Before moving off the car, I confidently and slowly checked mirrors, seat belt etc. 5. When the road is quieter in the test, drive on max speed limit. They don't like alow drivers. 6. Most of all memorising the test route with my husband driving and me taking notes and then repeating them at home on the note book helped me the most. Hope these tips help.
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Latest post on 20 July 2015 - 02:11
Thanks ladies. He is on LinkedIn. We also have sent his cv to people we know in that region. Strangle enough he is working in a very big organization here but still he has nit got any interview from Gcc. Last he got one interview from a Saudi company and was very close to being selected. I hope some luck works for us, really desprat to come back.
Shzee
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Latest post on 12 July 2015 - 20:39
Hi I know this poSt is old a few years. But my husband is looking for HR jobs in GCC. He has current experience in Jacobs, bug engineering firm in UK. We want to relocate to GCC. please let me know if I can send his CV to u. Thought you might still know some reference in this sector. I would be really obliged if you can get us a reference. Thanks
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Latest post on 24 June 2015 - 23:24
Thanks for your reply. It's good to know that there are great chances to come back and people have succeeded in doing so.
 
 
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