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Latest post on 19 November 2014 - 08:30
You can usually pick them up cheaply at most of the school table top sales. I believe there is one at Jebel Ali School this Friday. I bet you'd find some there. this means convincing DH to drive me there on his precious lazy Friday morning ... i don't drive ... :( ... anyway will give it a try ... r these second hand ones or new? edited by twirl1 on 19/11/2014 <em>edited by twirl1 on 19/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 19 November 2014 - 08:28
You can get a lot of them from most hypermarkets like Geant, Carrefour - they may be cheaper than Magrudy's! i had no idea they were available in hypermarkets ... will check it out there ... want to get them as reasonable as possible as i am also planning to buy some as gifts for my nephews who were pretty excited when i spoke to them about it last they visited... sadly their parents never got them any.. although they do play outdoor games but their idea of indoor games is limited to virtual games only...
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Latest post on 18 November 2014 - 08:15
Hi everyone... I hope someone knows where i can find board games like scrabble, monopoly, cludo etc in Dubai, at reasonable rates.. miss them a lot and thought of asking you guys before going on a hunt myself... thanks...!
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Latest post on 07 September 2014 - 08:42
in Islam fasting, prayer and tasbih (remembrance of Allah) is the best remedy to overcome hunger pangs... so i would say meditation can help... if this is not possible i agree with bbarmani's advice... keep as busy as possible... its all a mind game... one who can control one's mind can achieve almost anything....
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Latest post on 07 September 2014 - 08:35
May you get cured soon... so inspiring to see your spirit...!
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Latest post on 07 September 2014 - 08:30
you can check Diaso in Mirdiff City Centre when u r there next... although i haven't seen brooches there as i was not looking for them but they have some really nice tit-bit stuff and i have a feeling they will have brooch pins...
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Latest post on 25 August 2014 - 08:32
I will do that mrsb... thank you... hoping it would help with my migraines ... :)
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 13:08
I use a lady in Sharjah - easy to find near the Blue Souq. Her name is Iman and her contact number is: 0505945885. Does she do it in a clinic or home?
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 08:16
There is a Dr who does it at wafi - am not sure about the cost but she was good. She did wet cupping on me and i thought it was benefitial, although i only went once. By wafi you mean the spa? ...
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Latest post on 17 August 2014 - 16:01
I got it done through a company, iCar Registration co. ... they were good...the number i have is 055- 6600799.. hope this helps...
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Latest post on 11 August 2014 - 09:04
Its Oct 4th i believe... but you would know for sure when you will make a booking anywhere because any hotel or resort are very well aware of the National Holidays and would inform you if you ask...
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 10:44
love this thread... was facing the same thing with my whites but was not bothered about asking anyone.. so now that i have chanced upon this thread.. will now try some suggestions here ... :D
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Latest post on 03 February 2014 - 16:19
with all these celeb overdose deaths one wonders how sad there life must be despite all the money & fame... i am not being judgemental, just wondering.. because u dont necessarily take drugs because u have too much money or for the want of something new to try, or just for the recklessness of it all.. there must be something deeper than that...
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 13:23
Yes really fine nitcomb (the kind that makes your head hurts) daily for a week would do the trick... me n DD got them when my nephew started going to school... me, my sis, DD and me got clean and now my sis keeps the nit combing (often) in habit since her son goes to school and she knows if not contained the creepy crawlies can give the entire household a regular itch ... :D
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 10:11
Yes, it is called selective mutism. If you google this you will find a lot of information. [b'>I have to say she does sound quite severe if she won't even speak to your sister who she has grown up seeing.[/b'> Ye... u may be right however the positive thing is that she speaks to her cousin (my sis next door"s son) and plays with him... only him right now... so maybe her condition is not that extreme... the following is from article on this condition... [i'>There is a hierarchical variation among people with this disorder: some people participate fully in activities and appear social but do not speak, others will speak only to peers but not to adults, others will speak to adults when asked questions requiring short answers but never to peers, and still others speak to no one and participate in few, if any, activities presented to them. In a severe form known as "progressive mutism", the disorder progresses until the person with this condition no longer speaks to anyone in any situation, even close family members.[/i'>
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 10:08
Thanks a lot plum2 ... i just read about selective mutism and it seems like you are absolutely right... she has this condition... i have been looking at other social problems and even feared its slight autism but it was not this... but selective mutism seems to fit her condition exactly... i am so worried... it seems treatment is important in this.. have u any idea is there any professional help available in Dubai and how expensive is it... !
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Latest post on 28 January 2014 - 17:12
Not as bad as you but my brother in law's asthma worsens here and becomes better back home.. he says he feels a different person back home and as soon as he lands back here its back again..so i think it is Dubai!
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Latest post on 25 January 2014 - 16:01
Its a beautiful drive up Shiekh Zayed Road....wouldn't this ruin the look of it altogether... this sounds unnecessarily ambitious I must say... besides the stress it will cause the residents...
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Latest post on 25 January 2014 - 12:12
If people generalize and label an entire nation due a misconduct of a few people its the silliest thing of all.. and I feel only racist and biased people do it.. !
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Latest post on 22 January 2014 - 15:28
This sounds too vague and too complicated to be put into action... what needs to be focused on is encouraging FB practice by making concessions in work places for FB mothers and facilitating it through due provisions in public places.. rather than passing laws that can bring about clashes within families and disrupt and complicate judicial system...
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Latest post on 22 January 2014 - 15:16
We have been to Fujairah Khorfakan many a times through Sharjah, Al Dhaid Road... its a great drive and love the Friday Bazaar (which is daily ) that comes on the way... never been through Hatta and Oman road so cant compare the 2... ! It definitely is ideal for a day picnic trip...
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Latest post on 22 January 2014 - 15:10
Got your brave pants on HorizonMum ;) ? The Queen doesn't need to have a drivers license. Same same. hehehe... I know... must be the two panadols I gulped down earlier coz of a horrid migraine I was having... must have given me the boost in the bravery department! [b'>to me it's not about whether he needs to or not... more about the principle of whether he chooses to or not... that 'choice' is what sets the example...[/b'> I am feeling brave enough to agree with that HorizonMum2... :D
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 12:42
I used many gels and sprays but only pest control company got rid of mine...so i would suggest dont waste your time and energy on anything and just call a company..!
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 12:01
I just renewed mine. Worked out at 35.5 AED per box. IMO it is worth it. It says on the site if one subscribes for 3 months than it would come to 80/-AED per month, if for 6 months than 75/-AED per month and if for a year than 71/-AED... so what do you mean it worked out at 35.5 .. thanks
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 11:44
That's what I thought too! I have a Pajero, low mileage, so thought this would be a breeze and it's a nightmare I could do without, when I have packers starting tomorrow and I'm flying out next week! [b'>One guy called me from Sharjah, said Dubai was a long way and could I drive the car to him!!![/b'> Lol !! Classic... !! But i do believe it would be a feat if you are able to sell your car to your satisfaction in one week... if only you had more time...!
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 11:34
what can happens is and maybe this person is talking about this procedure... the buyer's bank issues an LPO (local purchase order) to the seller... than ownership transfer of the car takes place at RTA ... than the seller goes with this LPO to the bank and the bank issues a cheque in the seller's name... I sold my car through this procedure suggested by the car registration company i used... i mentioned them in another thread too i believe... iCar Registration Services... they were pretty professional..maybe you can contact them or any other such company providing ownership transfer services...they at times also help sell cars and will definitely help you avoid crooks..
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 11:22
smells very fishy...!
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 11:18
If you need it to keep out UTIs maybe you can try cranberry supplements... that would solve the problem of the sweet intake...
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 11:03
My DD did the same thing when she turned 3 and she got over it within a week... i had no idea that it was common but just ignored it and since it went away soon i never thought of it again... At the time also we thought the best thing was thing was to ignore it for if a child becomes conscious he would stutter more in stress... <em>edited by twirl1 on 18/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 18 January 2014 - 10:50
Agree with LadyBee... in receptionist/office type/ customer service jobs why would anyone employ a Brit to do the same thing and have to pay more money... your sister should come to Dubai as a hair stylist... !
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 19:15
Thanks everyone for your feedback... my mind is made up now.. I will drop my child myself... thats what my gut said earlier and it is endorsed by most of the responses... happy i consulted you ladies... :)
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 15:58
My friend sold her father's car sometime back who had left Dubai... she used a company to transfer ownership ... i believe the name was ... iCar Registration Services Co (you can google it).... they guided her well and helped her with all the paper work... !
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 11:59
Meanwhile, I wonder how many of the anti BF in public people on this thread sit on the beach or by the pool with everything out on show with the exception of nipples and designer vagina. Hats off to this one... :D
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 11:55
twirl1, go with your instinct. If you don't want her to go on the bus for all those reasons you've mentioned (completely justified) then don't put her on the bus. No one is an expert, but you are her mum and even if her dad feels she should take the bus, the fact you don't feel she should, then she shouldn't. I completely agree with you and understand your concerns. Thanks a lot shelly... needed to hear that... its so good to know other mothers feel like me and that I am not over-protective...!
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 11:52
Twirl I try to see two sides to all questions and I can see for many the school bus system is a must and certainly a far easier choice for many, if not a logical one. BUT, personally i dispare with parents who put young children on school buses when they don't absolutely have to and wonder what planet they are on. The early school years are so important for a young child that any parent who can take their child to school and chooses not to in my view is missing out, adding unnecessary stress to their child and upping the risk factors. The average school bus takes far longer to arrive home,is incredibly hot during the summer months and children are being put into the hands of people who don't know them and exposed to older children and what comes out of their mouths. It can be extremely traumatic for young children, many some schools will not encourage it. Part of the job of parenting is the school run in my opinion, i have in 20 years never allowed my children to travel on school buses even when i worked full time, that time with them in the car and being able to speak to their teacher is something i feel is invaluable. [b'>But that is personal choice and one that as a control freak i have made and adhered to. So in my honest opinion to you based on your question, no it is your responsibility to take your child and parenting is not always about taking the easy option. If you feel uncomfortable about it then go with your gut and don't do it because you will spend every waking minute worrying if your child is safe and going to make it home without incident.[/b'> I dont know if I am a control freak or not... but I totally agree with each word you say Lolacat ...and these are the very excuses I give my husband for not taking the school bus option... so glad someone else feels the same... :)
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 11:36
Why do you need others to justify your fears? You're the mom, you know your child, listen to your gut. Well looking at her nature... (she does not talk to anyone besides me and my husband... she completely clams up with others, be it stranger or not... not even with my sister who lives next door) I feel I should not let her go on the bus at least for the initial 2 years... but then again I am no expert... it might be that I am being over protective and she would learn to take care of herself faster if left on her own a bit.... thats why i wanted to know what other mothers have experienced... As for the other 2 things I mentioned ... carelessness and molestation and all...I really want to know if my fears are justified or just something I have blown out of proportion due to lack of experience or exposure... <em>edited by twirl1 on 16/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 11:31
When you say starting school this year, do you mean she is FS1 age? Yes she is... she will turn 4 this Oct... and will go to FS1 or KG1 whatever its called here... !
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 20:09
In this post one thing truly amazing i have learnt is... how can one BF while walking... i breastfed my child for 2 years and never once considered doing it while walking, it was not easy in the best of situations in public, but while walking... really??? I had four children in 3.5 years and trust me, I breast fed while walking around the house, haha. I wouldn't do it in public though, especially in this neck of the woods. wow... amazing... even in the house... :)
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 19:36
I actually do NOT believe that anyone would do this and this is not true. I incline to agree... :D
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 19:30
In this post one thing truly amazing i have learnt is... how can one BF while walking... i breastfed my child for 2 years and never once considered doing it while walking, it was not easy in the best of situations in public, but while walking... really???
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 19:26
This is a very amusing post ... :D
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 19:14
And Oh yes... bonding is no issue whatsoever after a C section... my amniotic fluid was decreasing drastically and had to give birth a month earlier, so had no choice but C Section... had no problem bonding with my DD at all... you have the whole term of pregnancy to bond with your child in... and also there is no cheating in it, as your health comes first, in case natural birth has adverse affect on your health your kids might need to face neglect and suffer as a result..
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 19:07
Recovering from a C section or natural birth depends on a lot of factors... especially how good after birth medical care you get... if done by a good and caring doctor the stitches after natural birth heal faster than stitches from a C section, and visa versa... So just pray for the best and take the best decision after expert opinion regarding your particular condition mumofmoo... All the best... :)
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 18:54
Just curious..does villas have grocery home delivery like apartment buildings?
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 18:48
Its very wrong... your friend is too simple if she is just confused... she should be mad!
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 18:30
A bit ridiculous, but I guess they have to meet their daily quotas somehow! Agree completely... i have a feeling a batch of them are let loose on the city to meet this very quota daily... :D
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 12:29
i read some where.. Be concerned about people, But don't be concerned about what's none of your concern ... and i liked the advice Also what goes around comes around... and you won't want someone to tell on you next time you slip up and do something illegal... would you?
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 12:20
One thing that has helped me immensely in disciplining my child is taking my DH's advice and staying completely calm and patient when she is misbehaving.. My DD had started shouting quite a bit on me and at times raising her hands to hit me in frustration... My DH, bless him for being intuitive and smart enough (or maybe an advantage of being bystander) told me that she is just 3.4 yrs and does not understand my threats or short tempered attempts at discipline.. so i got my act together and am at the moment trying to keep my self completely calm no matter how irritated i become with her... and its helping a lot... i did not even realize that it was my behaviour that she was copying or reacting to.. So no matter what the reason for your niece's short temper the best way to deal with the tantrums is to stay calm, with positive reinforcement and no-threat policy.. and yes the new-born does not need any emotional attention right now so concentrate on the daughter... I feel you are so right. She always say exact same words my sister uses when she gets irritated with her. She is short tempered and right now fighting with BFing problems, God help her to stay calm. I will definitely tell her about some good advises I'm getting here. I know what your sister must be going through and I completely sympathize with her... but your niece is a child and she will never understand... Being adults the responsibility of rising above our issues/problems and putting our kids first fall on our shoulders... and in this case by being patient and forbearing with her daughter, she will actually be making her life easy. For i am sure it must be tough to deal with her own suffering and a difficult short tempered 3.5 years old...parenting needs ton's of patience in normal circumstances and this is a difficult time for her... May God help her and make ease for her...
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 12:10
@ shjbelle ... the problem usually is that we do not get to the core of the reason behind our child's bad behaviour... if our child is picking the behaviour from another child in school or elsewhere then she/he need to be removed from such company and disciplined through time out etc (but not empty threats and cold stares) proper action... however in my case I was the one she was reacting to and thus evening out my own temperament with her helped a lot... So you need to figure out what is the case in your instance... do you shout at her and react explosively at her behaviour?... My DH used to advice me but being stubborn as i am i actually learnt through experience.. you are the one setting the pitch with which to deal with your child, the child will communicate with you at that pitch, so if you keep increasing the pitch the child keeps getting used to that pitch and its not tough on him any more, in fact the increased pitch is just tough for you to maintain!
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 11:42
One thing that has helped me immensely in disciplining my child is taking my DH's advice and staying completely calm and patient when she is misbehaving.. My DD had started shouting quite a bit on me and at times raising her hands to hit me in frustration... My DH, bless him for being intuitive and smart enough (or maybe an advantage of being bystander) told me that she is just 3.4 yrs and does not understand my threats or short tempered attempts at discipline.. so i got my act together and am at the moment trying to keep my self completely calm no matter how irritated i become with her... and its helping a lot... i did not even realize that it was my behaviour that she was copying or reacting to.. So no matter what the reason for your niece's short temper the best way to deal with the tantrums is to stay calm, with positive reinforcement and no-threat policy.. and yes the new-born does not need any emotional attention right now so concentrate on the daughter...