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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 18:45
@glenfiddich "Some of the comments on this thread have been very below the belt" I was referring to a comment made by a poster (it seems to have either been removed by the poster or mods) you know what or get off the pot. I never mentioned your name in fact I never even looked at who posted it. The age issue was rude and uncalled for.What is wrong with referring to the biologocal clock .
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 18:15
I think what we should all bear in mind is that EW serves woman from many cultures. This should be respected. We all come from different backrounds and have different ideas about relationships. Some of the comments on this thread have been very below the belt and in my view uncalled for.That is my point of view and I am entitled to it. If you don't agree with a contributor or OP by all means voice your opinion but why be rude or sarcastic. BTW who gets to decide that a new poster should suck it up and accept a remark that was downright rude.If you think the origional question was silly,it's simple don't read it. In a previous thread a poster was pulled up on "netiquett" I would like to add a new concept to some,it's called manners.
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 05:42
Thanks Greenish as you can see this thread really struck a cord. I really loved WH's music but the banging on about addiction and debating if it was untimely,has just got me. If nothing else all I have been through has taught me not to judge a situation unless you have experienced it. The problem I am experiencing now is once again knowing when to step back and when to take action. <em>edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 01:40
Nomad and Sue, I don't know how it feels to see the withdrawal or been dealing with addict before, true, but there are ALWAYS programs in schools tell the kids about how bad is addiction, prochores education and so on.... yep once I had been offered something like that in my youth, been with circle of what called in that time friends, I was a teen, and I can tell that I was the only one who did not use this funny cigarette, even called chicken for that, I didn't care, only becose I CHOOSE to not to be one of those you read about..... I had my share of troubles, but never ever done something that will affect my whole life like that. edited by Gorobattie on 13/02/2012 I will try again. The adult in my life was not offered drugs they were prescribed by the doctors and specialists treating a back injury due to a disease. As part of their recovery very strong pain killers were given and they became addicted to said pain killers.This only took a matter of a few weeks.......addiction is not ALWAYS a case of you are offered something and you just have to say no. There are many causes of addiction and it is not a black/white issue,as in life, there are many grey areas edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012 Sorry for your loss Nomad. in that example - WH - was she the same case like your beloved one whom been prescribed those pain killers? I don't think so, still it was a choice to take those pain killers, knowing the dangers that accompany it, being a pray of those pain killers means there were a time that overdosed those pain killers - unknowingly or just can not stand the pain - that led to the addiction. my grandfather and my untie both cancer sufferers, my grandfather lost his battle with pancreatic cancer, my untie had removed her both breasts and parts of her under arms, and still battling it, but it had gone deeper into her bones, she is doing chemotherapy at the moment, and she have unbearable pain, she have 5 children, abusive husband used her as punch bag, on one stage she lost her spiel and one kidney, and she kept going on.....I admire her courage facing all of that, and she never thought about using drugs or any escape from all of that, the community she live in doesn't think that beating up your wife of your children is bad...not at all, and she is surviving. I keep praying for her all the time, and by the way she have a strong personality, and she never ever lost her faith that something good must happen. now back to WH, well I do not see any point giving her any excuse for what she did with her life, when I posted about WH, I was talking about people whom are from the same category of her, ( actors singers showbiz people) do not take it personally as I do not know you in person. edited by Gorobattie on 13/02/2012 Thanks Gorbattie. Haven't taken it personally:) we just have different opinions on the issue. It sounds like you Auntie has had a terrible time,as you say an amazing woman. I too will pray for her. <em>edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 01:08
Nomad and Sue, I don't know how it feels to see the withdrawal or been dealing with addict before, true, but there are ALWAYS programs in schools tell the kids about how bad is addiction, prochores education and so on.... yep once I had been offered something like that in my youth, been with circle of what called in that time friends, I was a teen, and I can tell that I was the only one who did not use this funny cigarette, even called chicken for that, I didn't care, only becose I CHOOSE to not to be one of those you read about..... I had my share of troubles, but never ever done something that will affect my whole life like that. edited by Gorobattie on 13/02/2012 I will try again. The adult in my life was not offered drugs they were prescribed by the doctors and specialists treating a back injury due to a disease. As part of their recovery very strong pain killers were given and they became addicted to said pain killers.This only took a matter of a few weeks...... 41 years later we are still dealing with various forms of addiction .Addiction is not ALWAYS a case of you are offered something and you just have to say no. There are many causes of addiction and it is not a black/white issue,as in life, there are many grey areas edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012 <em>edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 00:49
@ Gorbattie thats just it "you think Fulla is right when she says addiction is a choice", people make assumptions without having experienced addiction first hand. I have given my addiction experience based on being personally involved and believe me it WAS NOT BY CHOICE the person in my life was addicted, it was a set of circumstances that led to addiction. I say once again I am not condoning or excusing addiction, what I am saying it is not a one size fits all condition and should not be judged as such. As for the 40+ plus issue I go with Joyce B, age has given me more widsom gained from experience.I still consider myself a young person,its just when I look in the mirror that I get a bit of a shock He he. <em>edited by Nomad on 13/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 23:15
When I think of her I have this vivid memory of watching the movie at the cinema with my date of the time, but while I do not recall who my date was, I perfectly see the scene of the silk scarf cut by the blade. The elegance of the scarf fluctuating in the air, the razor sharp blade cutting it effortlessly, the two pieces of the scarf falling down lifeless... With hindsight it could have been a metaphore of this incredibly talented, fragile butterfly of the scenes. Your description gives me chills, can so remember it myself.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 20:58
Dont know about Europe, but collectors in Canada are trained to be rude and obnoxious. Soooo true.We were paying off a loan early and the person handling this department was also in charge of collections. She was so rude and obnoxious that my DH demanded to speak to her boss.His excuse was she deals with collections so got a bit carried away. My DH replied so does she have a" problem" that she doesn't know the difference between the two !
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 20:02
I know someone who died a year ago this week and left a young family. He never took drugs - until he had his illness. His death was untimely! These are the people I am sad about. We will just have to agree to disagree won't we.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 19:27
Drugs are an escape. Unless one of us has been a celebrity, or chased around by paparazzi, how could we possibly know what that life is like? The pressure, the expectations, the gossip, the tabloids...this is why it is more prevalent. A bad choice of boyfriend goes back to self-esteem, and this goes back to childhood or early years. I do believe everything is a choice. But no one knows what secretly drives another person inside. There are many different levels of addiction. The more brilliant or artistic the mind, the more tortured it can be. The mind is a terrible thing to waste--and sometimes the mind is a terrible thing. It's real easy for someone to sit on the sidelines having not gone through it themselves--and I mean the first person--and cast some dimestore philosophy about what someone else should do, or should have done. Thank you Beebers for expalining it so much better than I could. I type through tears today, as once again dealing with the fallout of said addiction toady, from thousands of miles away. :(
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 19:19
Addicts make one mistake and that is to start whatever drug it is. They are almost powerless to the drug afterwards. I will never judge an addict because I know how much they suffer inside. If the sober Whitney had seen the addicted Whitney, she'd have been horrified. It's almost comparable to schizophrenia and that is a recognized "disease". Mmmm but there are plenty of other addicts she could have looked at - I'll admit I find it VERY hard to understand or feel sympathy for addicts Thats just it they don't see anything around them all that matters is your next hit. Your addiction dictates your life, and so the cycle continues. But I'm referring in particular to "If the sober Whitney had seen the addicted Whitney, she'd have been horrified." There are plenty of times I look at addicts and think Yuck, no thanks - I see that BEFORE I would ever contemplate starting let alone have to care about my next hit Without going into too much,I lived with an addict ,childhood into adulthood not DH BTW.Said person was addicted to pain killers due a very serious back injury due back disease.When their back was on the mend Dr's. contunue with pain meds. Now 40+ years later after many interventions, detox ,rehab still on pain meds and now addicted to extremely dangerous sleeping/depression meds. Do I blame them ,no,but they have become the smartest manipulators when it comes to getting that fix. Result I find it difficult to even take an advil,despite the fact that I have major pain and back issues. Yes this is because I have seen first hand what drugs do,but I have also seen someone in real pain relying on doctors to what is best for them. Thus my feeling on not judging the addict unless you know the whole story. <em>edited by Nomad on 12/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 19:02
Addicts make one mistake and that is to start whatever drug it is. They are almost powerless to the drug afterwards. I will never judge an addict because I know how much they suffer inside. If the sober Whitney had seen the addicted Whitney, she'd have been horrified. It's almost comparable to schizophrenia and that is a recognized "disease". Mmmm but there are plenty of other addicts she could have looked at - I'll admit I find it VERY hard to understand or feel sympathy for addicts Thats just it they don't see anything around them all that matters is your next hit. Your addiction dictates your life, and so the cycle continues.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 18:48
Hmmmm what I find unreal is how some folk respond to, in my mind, a sad and untimely death. The first thing I felt was such sorrow, her beautiful voice is now silent forever. Her daughter is without a mother. Those of you who "know " so much about addiction belive me if you had so to speak "walked a mile in their shoes " I wonder if your attitude would be the same. I am not talking about I have a friend of a friend etc.I am talking living with an addicted person or being an addicted person. There are many reasons for addiction and I am NOT defending them but try to understand WHY some are driven to it in the first place. It must be wonderful for some on that lofty perch up there to look down on others who haven't fared so well in life. The thing is it's not " untimely" , is it? It is a consequence of a certain lifestyle. But what drives some to the "certain lifestyle" is my point.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 18:33
Hmmmm what I find unreal is how some folk respond to, in my mind, a sad and untimely death. The first thing I felt was such sorrow, her beautiful voice is now silent forever. Her daughter is without a mother. Those of you who "know " so much about addiction belive me if you had so to speak "walked a mile in their shoes " I wonder if your attitude would be the same. I am not talking about I have a friend of a friend etc.I am talking living with an addicted person or being an addicted person. There are many reasons for addiction and I am NOT defending them but try to understand WHY some are driven to it in the first place. It must be wonderful for some on that lofty perch up there to look down on others who haven't fared so well in life.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 06:01
Oh No such a terrible loss. Thank you Whitney for your beautiful performance in the Body Guard. May you find peace at last. RIP
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Latest post on 11 February 2012 - 03:50
OOPS....Grey matter not as good as it used to be HAHA ;)
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Latest post on 11 February 2012 - 03:01
Origional post gone.... Hopefully you have found you cat.
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Latest post on 11 February 2012 - 02:51
There will aways be positives and negatives,that is what makes life what it is. I have friends who have had really bad experiences here, through no fault of their own ( yes property related). They have lost everything.Contracts, being work, property,mortgages etc. here, are very tenuous to say the least. Everyone has the right to their own opinion positive or negative. Yes there are many things I loved about DXB and there are some that drove me nuts. Still miss it, warts and all. Here's something I've never disclosed here before... We lost everything (financailly) while in Dubai. We are in our 40's and starting from scratch after deciding to risk property investment in Dubai. Have I ever sounded negative about Dubai? No, and I think that's because I'm generally a glass half full person. Sure, I have my moments but, financially speaking, our life could not have been more stressful over the last two years. There have been many weeks where I just didn't know where the money was going to come from to feed the children. So I agree with some posters below...some people are just more negative than others and no matter their circumstances, will find something to moan/whinge/complain about. In my case, we knew the risks, we took the risk and we lost. Nobody's fault but ours so I just have to suck it up and get on with life. Greenish I am so terribly sorry to read what you have gone through. I can remember your posts before leaving, trying to sort the cats out. As you say it does help being a glass half full type of person.With that kind of attitude one tends to land on your feet. Hopefully your experience will be a wake up call for some to count their blessings.
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Latest post on 10 February 2012 - 20:34
There will aways be positives and negatives,that is what makes life what it is. I have friends who have had really bad experiences here, through no fault of their own ( yes property related). They have lost everything.Contracts, being work, property,mortgages etc. here, are very tenuous to say the least. Everyone has the right to their own opinion positive or negative. Yes there are many things I loved about DXB and there are some that drove me nuts. Still miss it, warts and all.
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Latest post on 10 February 2012 - 20:17
There isn't a forum in the world where an all-caps post won't result in several "no need to shout!" responses. Wow... You're a member of every forum in the world? If you have that much time on your hands I've got a big pile of ironing upstairs ;). When your's is done I am next in line, PLEASE. *ROFL* <em>edited by Nomad on 10/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 10 February 2012 - 19:06
So true Greenish,DIL said she had to "pick her battles" when insisting on him using his words.His big sister had the most adjustment as she loved to mother him.
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Latest post on 10 February 2012 - 01:26
Hi Irooni, It is a novel idea but I doubt if it would work. These Damas trees are a curse and seem to kill everything under them.I know someone who put pebbles down and pots on the pebbles. Maybe it was lack of light but everyhting died. I know it is a hassel but your best bet is to chop them down.Friends of ours had to have all the exterior plumbing replaced as the Damas roots have started to grow into the underground pipes. My neighbours Damas started to lift our garden walls.He refused to do anything about it so I showed our LL. Trees were cut down pretty sharply. Hope you can find a solution.
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Latest post on 10 February 2012 - 00:10
Oh for heavens sake how ridiculous are some people - having a go at people for typing in capital letters, get a grip It's standard netiquette that you don't type in all caps. As has been said, it's considered the online equivalent of shouting. There isn't a forum in the world where an all-caps post won't result in several "no need to shout!" responses. Even if it is considered shouting the OP was WARNING readers. She is possibly a new poster and maybe even new to Forums,not all of us are as up to date on netiquette.Op was sharing information, and look it worked. One poster was just about to put up a sign in her car. She wasn't being rude,not that I can say the same of some responders.
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Latest post on 09 February 2012 - 22:00
Hi Mamanna, Under Featured Links just to the left of the page there is a Pets and Vets section. Scroll down and there is a "If you have lost your cat " to do list. There is great advice and also gives you something to occupy youself wile waiting/worrying for your fur baby to return. HTH and hope Thomas finds his way home soon.
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Latest post on 09 February 2012 - 21:52
I honestly wouldn't worry just yet. My GS was the same,had an older sibling who would constantly fetch and carry for him. Why talk when you just have to point and everyone runs around after you ! DIL resorted to insisting he must "use his words" when he wanted something .It was a battle and yes much frustartion on his part. He is now 2 and begining to string words together into a sentance. All the best. <em>edited by Nomad on 10/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 09 February 2012 - 21:30
Jeez, what an idiotic thread! Why is it still on top??? Maybe because some people are thankful for the info and have the good manners to say so. Just a thought..... BTW who gets to decide what is a good thread or not.Nobody is forced to read each and every thread.If you find it idiotic don't read it .Simple;)
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Latest post on 09 February 2012 - 19:42
Perhaps what is old news to you is 'new' news to others, and perhaps others may not know that capitalizing every letter in a sentence is equivalent to -in your own words- shouting. Exactly....... The way I read it was Mahr was just trying to warn people and making sure that the thread stuck out.The spirit of the thread is what is important. If you feel the caps are inappropriate say it without being mean. By the way Mahr I had no idea this law existed.Thanks;)
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Latest post on 09 February 2012 - 00:17
Irooni from what I have read dogcatchers posts have been very informative. She was one of the few who has given the newbie pilots wives very valuable information.In fact she has praised EK high hiring standards. What many have been discussing is more the attitude some people adopt when things are not going they way want it to go. @ dogcather your point which resonated with me was everyone has a right to put food on the table and a roof over their families head.Over the years aviation has been a roller coaster ride I tell you.When you get an opportunity you grab it with both hands. To all the new joiners good luck and enjoy the ride,it is what you make of it.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 22:16
Don't do a Han$over weekend LOL Sorry not much help but couldn't resist it. Just loved that movie. Enjoy your trip.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 21:25
@Akia,so true enjoy the ride. Trigg Beach I think in many cases it is what the DH feelings are that trickle down to DW.Can fully understand where you come from, my DH was born to fly it was so much more than a career. <em>edited by Nomad on 08/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 20:25
Yes Sue 2007 and I seem to remember it was only the 2nd or 3rd time since EK started operations.Hours were extended in 2008 if I re call correctly, and had nothing to do with DEC. As you have alluded pilots with these pre requisites don't fall out of the trees. Believe me,generally it is those who have been in International aviation for 25 + plus years. What got me the most was the pre concieved ideas based on rumors and plain old jealousy. <em>edited by Nomad on 08/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 19:20
Great news. zimbomum don't give up,keep up the exposure perhaps a letter to 7days asking for help. Have had greys all my life, can only imagine how you feel.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 18:18
JS I really believe that God would want you to do what is best for Ginger. He sound very unhappy with his life despite the fact that he is fed and cared for. Moving him to another location would just be transferring the problem.He would probably be even more agressive without you looking after him.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 17:43
Just to add the engineers perspective into the mix. When we arrived 12 yrs ago with 3 small children we were put in a 3 bed apartment as per our 'entitlement' (even though at interview it was villa accom). Flight crew friends with no children were given 4 bed villas. They wanted the apartments, we wanted the villas. It caused a lot of heartache and resentment. After 3 yrs we were finally moved to a villa at safa park as the compound had become too noisy for flight crew! Obviously there must still be a lot of jealousy re the accom dished out by grade, hence the cold shoulder treatment. We solved our problem by getting out of company housing. Best move ever. Good post, always good to get both perspectives.In other postings we enjoyed a great mix of engineers ,pilots and it guys in the compunds.So sad that these things happen.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 17:32
The irony of it all is many Fo's who become captains move onto other carriers as DEC's,but thats OK is it. As Skykitty says it is supply and demand,the airline will do what it takes to keep a safe schedule going.Thus ensuring growth and expansion in an industry that is not faring too well at the moment. The criteria for DEC is VERY HIGH and it is that way for a very good reason. @funnyfish some of the comments made are way out of line and on a public forum. It is the spreading of mis information and rumors that causes this DEC/FO issue in the first place. Please don't presume on behalf of other pilots that they wouldn't accept a DEC position.Many will tell you what you want to hear. When the chips are down we will all do what is best for our own circumstances. If a person has the qualifications for a position,gets the position and is successful in that position, what right do others have( who don't qualify) to deny said person the right to said employment. I am not debating this issue,as dogcatcher says it is just so "high school" <em>edited by Nomad on 08/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 16:41
JS be guided by what your rescue colleuges advice.Sometimes it is very difficult when it comes to animals,but we have to not let our hearts rule our heads.
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 01:13
Dear Zimbomum, I've been following your story since you posted about your lost Max. I totally get the devastation you must feel as I too know how it is to lose an African Grey Parrot. My Dad has had them since before I was born so I've grown up with them and we too have a Max (I told my parents to tell our Max his cousin Max was lost!). One of ours died after being with us for 20 years we still talk about her almost daily as she was super special. At the time I was so distressed that I told my mum, thats it, I cant do this anymore its too painful, I'm never keeping another pet! We have since then rescued another baby African Grey who was stolen from the wild and had a traumatic experience where both her feet were broken and her eye scratched. She is not a replacement but she does make the loss bearable and brings us joy in new ways everyday. The reason I am telling you this is, if you love African Grey's as much as I think you do, please dont give away the new guy/girl, unless ofcourse the owners are found! You know he/she has already become a part of the family and just imagine when your Max is back the fun the two of them will have together! If you still feel you can't look after this new baby then I would love to meet him/her and see if it will adopt me! I wish you all the best in finding your Max. Warm regards, Sav. What lovely words Savannah. Zimbomum I too feel that this lost grey has found it's way to you for a reason.
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 21:21
you get promoted when you prove you are capable and not before Yep, applies to all of us and some people just can't stand to see others successful... in Oz we call it "Tall Poppy Syndrome" *Like*
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 21:15
I guess I just dont pay any attention to any of it :)...not worth it....the husband has his job, he does qualify for what he does and worked alot of years and sacrifice to get where he is...certainly not going to let a few 'about faces' worry me so....dont let them get under your skin, not worth it :) sour grapes should never be in the vocab, ignore....you get promoted when you prove you are capable and not before Have to agree Sue.Yes DH worked very hard for many years to get to that point.As is said , nothing replaces experience. Water under the bridge. <em>edited by Nomad on 07/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 20:46
Possibly because of an all pilot compound and many were waiting for their UG.;) <em>edited by Nomad on 07/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 20:37
Dogcatcher, that's some really good advice you've given. I moved over here 2yrs ago with a newborn to join hubby and was shocked with the negativity I encountered from some expats here. Hubby and I did the long distance thing for a while so he could focus on settling in here and do his training so I was lucky that I missed that settling in period. I also had our DD in Oz and he did all of that associated paperwork so it was an easy arrival for us - what a gem! It's great to get people's opinions on life here, both positive and negative, but you are spot on, it is ultimately up to the individual to make the most of this opportunity. As I mentioned, the negativity I faced on my arrival was devastating but I rose above it and am so much better for it. In a nutshell, I came here with a brand new baby, not knowing ANYONE and was determined to make friends for myself and my baby. The apartment building we were in had a Facebook page with a mums group which I quickly joined and attended one of the playdates at the pool. I put myself out there and introduced myself to some ladies and all was going well until they discovered through conversation that I was married to a pilot and BANG!!! Without a word of a lie, they literally turned their backs on me and wouldn't speak to me!!! I discovered later that they were all engineer and IT wives and felt that I had no right to live there and should be in a villa spending my days sipping coffees with the JJs! Needless to say, I didn't interact with them again and we are fortunate enough to now live in a villa in a great area with amazing neighbors who have become great friends (both EK and non EK). Hubby works very hard to provide for us so I've ensured that I've maintained my independence and have figured a lot of stuff out on my own. I try not to bug him for things or dump chores on him on his days off. Except maybe for today as he's just returned from a 9 day trip and I've been nursing a very sick DD for the last week (I'm also 36wks pregnant) so he's promised to amuse her this afternoon so I can catch on my chores (although I'm sure he will insist I have a nap!). I might just take him up on that! Anyway, good luck to the newbies joining us here. There will be ups and downs but try to stay calm and take it one step at a time. Ask your neighbors and the lovely ladies of EW for advice. You will find your feet and all will be well! Best wishes! Giggles I can so relate. Newly arrived here I went to a do had a similar experience with pilot issues.Couldn't believe the nastiness. This was the first time in all our travels in aviation (30 odd years) that I had experienced anything like it. Needles to say I got involved with like minded people both in and out of aviation and made the most of my time there. As you say It is all about attitude and how YOU make it work. All the best to the new girls. <em>edited by Nomad on 07/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 09:04
might have been easier to just ask the question....:-) Shia is obviously in a bit of a state ( as I am sure you would be ) She is asking for help and using an old thread, that has a common connection, seems like the smart thing to do.;)
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Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 08:46
Hi sirenbritbabe, We lived in Japan for 3 years on the South Island of Kiyushu. I found it amazing and just loved learning as much as I could about the culture.Loads to see places to visit. The Japanese are a very ordered society,everything is on time,excellent road manners.Only negative when driving is they tend to jump the yellow light and actually go through on a red ! Always found people helpful in the shops smiling and bowing their heads. My phrasebook was useless so resorted to flash cards,these caused quite a giggle! I loved our time there and was really sorry to leave.Can you imagine the baptism of fire I had on the roads in Dubai LOL What field are you in ? Fire away if you have any more questions.:)
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Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 20:33
Whatever you do don't be tempted to plant any Damas Trees. They are really cheap and grow unbelieveably fast,BUT....have terrible roots systems. Recently a friend had to replace thier entire underground plumbing systems as the roots had got into all the piping.The grass dies under them, in fact nothing will grow in the immediate area. Dont pay extra for more mature plants/shrubs as everything grows like spit in DXB. Happy gardening with your "little helper".
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Latest post on 05 February 2012 - 20:29
Summerdream,wish I could give you a great big hug of support. It amazes me how those that "sit on the sidelines" always have so much to say.You came on here for a bit of direction and suggestions. Yes there have been those who have been very helpful, but if you don't agree with the OP why be B****Y:(.GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM. Op is concerned about these childrens welfare end of. Summerdream don't let the negativety put you off,you are doing this because you care. All the very best
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Latest post on 04 February 2012 - 23:19
Great news GA so happy for you.:)
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Latest post on 04 February 2012 - 23:15
Well done Sprinkles;)
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Latest post on 03 February 2012 - 20:46
Yes the thread title is misleading. However the response from amandamusic is uncalled for. The contributions are merely pointing out their own thoughts about boarding school.As an alternative. I was a boarder,granted more years back than I care to mention LOL. We lived literally in the middle of the bush,my parents had no option than sending me away for schooling.Beleive me it nearly broke their hearts having to send me away. My fellow boarders were from all walks of life.Children caught in messey divorces, diplomatic children,children who had no schooling in the areas they lived in etc. I can say that most of their parents only wanted what was best for their children. I can today look back and thank my parents for their sacrifice .The schooling I got made me independant able to tackle problems on my own AND prepared me for that big wide world out there. I agree it is not for everyone ( my own kids wanted to give it a try but only lasted 2 terms!) however don't bash something that works very well for some. Ali.K all the very best I know how hard it can be.It is not generally a decision that is taken lightly.
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Latest post on 02 February 2012 - 20:55
Glad to hear that the surgery is over. Let us know how you get on. Hugs to you and pooch.
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Latest post on 30 January 2012 - 22:07
Awwwwww great news,so happy for you.
 
 
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