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Latest post on 26 July 2013 - 19:13
Yes, naive and bad luck I just wish I could help or give some advice....do u think she has no option but to go home? Can she even do the "buy a visa" option as I've never heard of that?
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Latest post on 19 July 2013 - 16:58
Hey kiwis, try not to stress...if you have a nursery that is flexible and willing to work with you it will be ok. Every kid is different and it took us a few weeks to settle, but luckily they allowed me to stay with him for as long as needed. In the end however, I could tell he was enjoying it and was just wanting me to sit in the corner so that's when I told him I had to go but that I'd be back. He did cry for ten mins but then was totally fine. They had planned for me to come back in after an hour (I stayed in reception) but he was happy so I was able to just come and pick him up at the end. The next day he cried for a minute and then after that he never cried and just had fun. Only last week he was practically pushing me out the door when I dropped him off :) for us it was about learning that Mummy always comes back, once he got that he was ok. The first week or so he also took a favourite toy with him and a small pic of Mummy and him in his pocket :) the other thing that helped was him bringing home artwork etc and DH and I making a big fuss about how proud we were. One benefit for me with the gradual seperation was that I learned some of the songs and structure and was able to sing with him at home or talk through the activities to make things safer and more familiar. Good luck, it's harder on us I think! If you are only doing a few days a week, try and see if they will let you do consecutive days for the first week or so, even if you do extra days as that also helped us settle in with the familiarity
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Latest post on 16 July 2013 - 14:05
I got the deluxe ones from Oz sorry, but I know you can get air wrap in Dubai somewhere, remember someone on here mentioning them before....or you could try amazon. I have a cot that has slats all the way around and there was a air wrap that went all the way around....I have a feeling the ones for the cots with two solid ends only go on the sides. :( you could try putting some long towels tight under half the mattress and over the ends, securing them somehow on the outside if that makes sense?
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Latest post on 15 July 2013 - 21:33
We started using the air wrap bumpers when DS started banging his head too....from memory he was about 8 months. He's two now and still in his cot and we are still using them! We have the deluxe ones that are a little more padded and he snuggles up in the corner with his back to them :)
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Latest post on 10 July 2013 - 14:06
Thanks, yes might get the mother in law to make some enquiries for me!
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Latest post on 10 July 2013 - 13:22
Thanks for the feedback ladies. Does anyone know what they do in particular at Newcastle, rather than Heathrow? I know they have strollers in Dubai but didn't notice any last time we were there a year ago. That year we packed our bugaboo and checked it in with our bags and used the Ergo, but he refuses to be in it now. We have a chicco liteway stroller, so it is an umbrella one but I'm not keen on it getting wrecked and also don't want to waste money on something really cheap and nasty. Don't think any of them fit into the overhead carriers anyway, except the baby zen your which isn't a cheapie. What to do? Might just bring the bubble wrap!
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Latest post on 09 July 2013 - 18:51
Thanks purple!
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Latest post on 09 July 2013 - 16:23
Hi ladies, Off to the UK next week and flying Emirates direct to Newcastle with my 2 year old. Was planning on taking stroller to the gate and wrapping in bubble wrap but need to know if we will then get the stroller back at the gate or not until the baggage carousel. I know Emirates have strollers in the airport here but just concerned about other end as after a 4am wake up and prob no sleep on the plane I'm sure DS will be knackered at the other end. If I know we can get the stroller as we get off the plane we will do bubble wrap at the gate but if not ill check it in with our bags and then look forward to lugging a tired 15kg DS on the other end! When we travelled to Thailand earlier in the year (diff airline) we were able to take the stroller to the gate and get it as soon as we landed. Thanks!
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Latest post on 06 July 2013 - 18:29
My son is currently doing summer camp twice a week at Kidville, JBR. It was his first nursery experience and they do encourage gradual seperation....I stayed in the room for the first few weeks which really helped him settle in. The facilities are great, don't have any complaints but the only reason we aren't keeping him there for Sept is the astronomical fees :( if you can afford a super pricey nursery you could consider it! It was the only nursery around this area that offered gradual seperation that I had heard of. There is one at Mirdiff too. They also follow the emilia Reggio curriculum.
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Latest post on 03 July 2013 - 15:23
Anyone been this year? Thinking of taking my 2 year old tomorrow or on the weekend....is there enough for a younger one to do there or is it mainly for older kids? Thanks!
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Latest post on 02 July 2013 - 19:28
kiwis, that choco date recipe sounds delish, similar to some raw bars you can buy at the Organic (roo bar brand)...do you make the date purée yourself or buy it? Can you post your quantities, as would love to make this! Have done the banana ice cream, it's great huh! We mixed in some peanut butter and unsweetened cocoa one time and another time some tart cherry concentrate. My DS also loves porridge, I make his with some grated pear mixed in to sweeten and also add things like goji berries which he thinks are red raisins :) I also do him smoothies with berries, bananas, organic milk or coconut milk and a handful of baby spinach (you can't taste the spinach). I do sometimes buy him the organic gluten free whole o's (healthier version of Cheerios) but he tends to just snack on a small handful of these dry. Banana bread is another great idea, we do these as muffins as that ups the appeal factor!
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Latest post on 29 June 2013 - 18:23
Thanks! Any particular stylist you recommend?
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Latest post on 29 June 2013 - 15:49
Bump...anyone? C'mon, I know there are so many kids here with curly hair, someone must have a recommendation! :)
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 14:00
Thanks for your feedback KB75 that's great to hear as I think we are going to choose F&F after all....mainly due to the fact that they are so warm and down to earth, I think Jo is fantastic. How old is your LO? Perhaps they might be in the same class :)
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Latest post on 15 April 2013 - 15:54
Thanks ladies!
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Latest post on 15 April 2013 - 15:42
I have to find a compound behind the Ibis Hotel?
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Latest post on 07 April 2013 - 14:21
Big fan of piddds/dorn therapy as have used for myself, but no experience with kids. However my DS had 6 months of reoccurring fevers which was diagnosed by a rheumatologist as a periodic fever syndrome called PFAPA. rather than look at medication which incl steroids, i researched natural therapies and we started on upper cervical chiropractic adjustments and a regimen of codliver oil, tart cherry concentrate, vitamin c and probiotics and he has been fever free ever since, apart from the odd teething low grade fever. Happy to chat offline if you wish.
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Latest post on 26 March 2013 - 15:21
It was! Wish I was back there!
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Latest post on 26 March 2013 - 14:14
I swear by vitamin c, in higher doses than normal.....http://doctoryourself.com/coughing.html You can get vit c powder at Holand and Barrett in Dubai Mall.
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Latest post on 26 March 2013 - 14:11
We just got back from a week in Koh Samui with some friends and stayed at this villa....http://www.ban-laem-set.com/ Would highly recommend! The villa manager is super lovely and we had massages at the villa everyday. They can also organise a chef to cook amazing Thai meals, and babysitters too.
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Latest post on 10 March 2013 - 21:02
My bub at that age preferred fruits like pear and mashed papaya, peaches and I also used to steam apple and add a bit of cinnamon, he started to like banana later on. Sweet potato is also a good one with a nice natural sweet flavour. By then we had also started on meat and fish, he especially loved things like lamb stews that I would purée, basically just lamb cooked with veggies like a bit of carrot, celery, leek...we did a combo of puréed and finger foods as he was happy to be fed that way, he loved holding fingers of soft bread and pieces of really soft veggies, but always preferred to eat the veg if they were roasted instead of just steamed lol! Good luck and try not to get stressed! If she likes yogurts you can def try mixing different grated fruit in too. There are some good recipes in the Annabel Karmel and Gina Ford weaning books and plenty online if you google Annabel Karmel.
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Latest post on 10 March 2013 - 20:23
Another easy thing to try that my bub loved at that age and doesn't incl cooking is just mashing avocado with banana. He also loved the avocado mixed with finely grated pear as a dessert.
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Latest post on 10 March 2013 - 20:21
Most bubs love yogurt. I'd definitely stick to a plain organic yogurt at this age with some mashed fruit. You'd be surprised that they dont mind if its not sweet. I find the petit filious brand full of sugar and preservatives/e numbers. If you want to stick to the pots you could try the Rachel's Organic or the Glenisk organic brand in waitrose, they also do little fromage frais. No preservatives or added sugar, but of course still have fruit sugars.
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Latest post on 26 February 2013 - 20:17
Not sure about capsules, but both Holland and Barrett and the Organic store (nutrition section) stock the liquid concentrate....they may have the capsules too....
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Latest post on 23 February 2013 - 09:16
Before we had our son, we had a lovely holiday at Ayara Hilltops resort in Phuket on Surin Beach. From memory it was very reasonable and we had a gorgeous room, only a few minutes to Surin Beach and lovely little places to eat. A question for Snugs....we are off to Koh Samui in March and also staying in a villa with our son and some friends and their little boy. Any recommendations for places to eat/see in KS that are kid friendly?
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Latest post on 06 February 2013 - 18:28
Thanks ladies, DS is only 21 months but am sure he'll love it all. Will check google maps unless anyone else has some fool proof directions!
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Latest post on 03 February 2013 - 14:20
Thanks ladies....trying to get to the bottom of my sons monthly fever syndromes which after some research match up with a periodic syndrome called PFAPA....now trying to find someone who knows something about it! WikkiD, will inquire with Dr Darwish, thanks
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Latest post on 19 January 2013 - 13:57
We also have a young feisty cat and toddler. I was worried in the early days too, but I honestly believe that animals know these little people don't mean harm and are more gentle with them. My boy at times has given our cat a good whack or grabbed his tail or fur, but our cat has always just given him a pat with no claws or walked away. I've always tried to explain from early on to be gentle too, demonstrating like Dubai city chick mentioned. At 20 months now he understands to be gentle with him and they really do love each other! I think in all this time he's only been mildly scratched once and probably deserved it, and as one other poster said a scratch isn't serious and will teach them not to do it again. Give your cat a chance, make sure you are always there to monitor and keep your baby's bedroom door closed so that the cat doesn't go in.
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Latest post on 19 January 2013 - 13:45
Yes we were very lucky. We also have a video monitor and its one of my favourite baby gadgets! Does your DD sleep well in your bed? If you end up co-sleeping anyway later in the night, you could try putting her to sleep in your bed? but if you want to stop co sleeping and get her to sleep in her own room you may as well keep trying to settle her in her own room. Perhaps changing to a bed rather than cot, with a new special sleeping buddy soft toy she can choose and a new night light will help. You can explain to her that this new little friend will watch over her when she sleeps. It does sound to me like she is waking at almost each sleep cycle to check her surroundings, so because you aren't there anymore she's fully waking up and wanting you. She may also be over tired and that would make her more prone to wake up too. How are her naps during the day? When my boy is ill, I usually co sleep with him, but when he's better he usually settles back to sleeping alone quickly. Occasionally he will kick up a tantrum but I tell him firmly, but gently that its sleepy time now and that Mummy loves him and will see him in the morning. He responds better to a bit of firmness and me leaving, but he's a strong personality...very outgoing and not shy at all. Your little girl sounds the opposite so a gentler approach sounds more appropriate. Wishing you all the luck....it's horrible to be so sleep deprived!
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Latest post on 18 January 2013 - 18:31
Evelyn2000...If you're not in a position to comment, don't. I don't think the OP needs a guilt trip, just some support. OP - do what feels right for you. If you don't feel CIO is working, perhaps a different approach is necessary. I personally tried everything, including co sleeping which made my DS sleep even worse as he thought it was play time. CIO was not such a traumatic experience for us however, it was literally one night of 20min crying where we then went in to settle him and he then slept through. Perhaps you can try what shjbelle suggested and stay in, just shush, pat, tell her it's sleepy time etc but don't pick her up? Or get your DH to do it, sometimes that makes a difference? Good Luck Edited to add that our strategy was to leave DS for 20 min max before going in, telling him it was sleepy time and at that point we would pick up and cuddle, whatever it took to get him back to sleep. We also still put him to sleep normally and only did the 20 min at first waking. Luckily after the first time he only woke once or twice in the week that followed and within 5 min went back to sleep. Now at 20 months he sleeps 12 hours and has a 3 hour nap in the day. <em>edited by sydneygal on 18/01/2013</em>
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Latest post on 18 January 2013 - 13:42
We sleep trained around 6-7 months and had no problems....so sorry to hear you and your LO are going through this. My DS is now 20 months old and by this age they are much stronger in knowing what they want! It might help to know why she was waking....for feeds, for comfort for example? What were you doing previously? Does she have any toys in her cot or use a dummy for comfort? In the past few mths my son went from sleeping with two dummies to wanting two teddies, two bunnies, a mouse toy, a frog toy and a dog toy in there with him.....if your LO has a particular toy shes attached to, perhaps something to try? Or maybe you could leave her door open or give her a nightlight? Hope you get through this and get some sleep soon! There are other non CIO techniques to try if you don't think this is working. Only you know your LO and what would work best.....good luck
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Latest post on 18 January 2013 - 13:32
Jambase at the Madinat.. There are two guys who play Tues to Sat, Shero and Ziryab, really good funky tunes.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 15:04
As Daza said, most people who do any kind of sleep training do a lot of research on the subject. I for one was certainly worried my DS couldn't sleep for more than 45 min at a time, especially when he was so tired and when it affected his feeding. I don't think ignoring that and hoping he'd work it out on his own eventually would have helped at all. And yes, we tried co-sleeping and every other attachment style option and they just didn't work. Also, CIO does not have to be extreme. For us it was basically one night of 20 min crying and we settled him after with lots of cuddles and telling him it was sleep time. He seemed so desperate to sleep and then once he worked it out he was so much happier in every sense. And we were too...almost 7 months of sleep deprivation was a killer and I'm not ashamed to admit we couldn't cope. Kudos to you scandinaviangirl that you could survive long term lack of sleep, but that doesn't make you a better mother. A happy mum equals a happy baby, and a baby who sleeps well is a happier baby too in my opinion. This topic will always invite heated conversation, as will BFing vs formula feeding...again I'll repeat we should be more supportive of one another as mothers and less patronising and judgemental if someone else's parenting style differs from ours. It happens everywhere, on a different note I often get judged for not putting my 20 month old in nursery yet...it never ends!
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 22:10
This topic is always a controversial one and at the end of the day we all need to do what is right for us, without guilt or judgement. My DS was a nightmare sleeper, waking every 45 min through the night to be rocked to sleep, or given the dummy at every sleep cycle. As a result he was so overtired he could barely nap in the day and it affected his feeding too. Co-sleeping is not always the answer either...we tried that and he still woke every 45 min and in fact thought it was playtime with Mummy in bed! We consulted with Cecile and almost overnight DS became a brilliant sleeper....he literally went from waking that often to one night of crying for 20 min - angry protest crying - and being settled by us, then sleeping through the rest of that night! In the week that followed be napped better and would maybe wake up once or twice and be back asleep within a few min. From that point we could put him down wide awake and he would quite happily go to sleep by himself.....and would always wake with a big smile. At 20 months now he is a happy, intelligent, secure and affectionate toddler who sleeps 3 hours during the day and 12 hours at night. I am a SAHM and he lives in a very secure environment and I firmly believe that the little bit of CIO we did has not harmed him one iota. My point is that as parents we all want what's best for our children and we have to do what is right for us whether that be CIO or co-sleeping, what works for one won't work for another. Less judgment and more support for one another....
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 21:29
Thanks kiwis looks great....will look into it! :)
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 21:12
I wish....it can't be used with a seatbelt and is not airplane approved....
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Latest post on 20 November 2012 - 13:43
Thanks ladies!
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Latest post on 27 October 2012 - 16:14
Yup was pretty shabby an event. Went yesterday late afternoon to see the balloon animals....five mins after the supposed start time and they were saying no more balloons....so we wandered outside to check the "children's workshops" to find three tubs of soapy water with bubble paraphernalia and no one running the supposed workshop....totally ****! Luckily the carousel and train amused our DS!
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Latest post on 19 October 2012 - 09:51
Hi ladies, thinking of taking DS to Barsha park this morning....haven't been before but have heard a lot is covered....would it still be too hot? We're thinking if it does get too hot we can duck into Barsha mall to Cheeky Monkeys, does anyone know if they are open on Fridays? Thank u!
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Latest post on 18 October 2012 - 19:56
The guy at JBR is great, my 17 month old loved getting up close and even patting the camels one late afternoon while they were eating. He's just past the Hilton.
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Latest post on 18 October 2012 - 19:56
The guy at JBR is great, my 17 month old loved getting up close and even patting the camels one late afternoon while they were eating. He's just past the Hilton.
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Latest post on 18 October 2012 - 19:36
Not just Chinese - they do Thai etc as well - but excellent is Noodle Room. Dashing Dai also good
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Latest post on 17 October 2012 - 13:59
You could try a humidifier, I have one in DS room and it emits a low hum. Or get a white noise app for your phone/iPad?
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Latest post on 17 October 2012 - 13:03
Not sure this helps but recently saw a pin on Pinterest where someone used the plastic things that come with a loaf of bread to keep the bag tied..she put one on each cord as a label....
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Latest post on 26 September 2012 - 14:42
Thanks that sounds quite easy! cheeky monkeys is a kids play area
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Latest post on 17 September 2012 - 21:08
Flydiver, sure oct sounds good. Tabloid, definitely drop me an email. Enjoy your trip to Oz. We tried a great class on Mon called Moms and Tots which he loved. I totally agree with you...my DS is very social already and I really dont think nursery is necessary right now for him. Maybe later down the track when we have number 2 but we'll see!
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 09:26
I don't wish to let him cry it out since he really is a good boy, he has maybe cried a total of 30minutes since he was a born, so it would just feel wrong. edited by Umm A on 14/09/2012 One thing the sleep consultant pointed out was that even though listening to them cry is hard, it's the only way they can communicate so they can be crying because they are frustrated and angry, or stressed because they are overtired. One thing that helped me was realising it was not something I was doing to him, but FOR him. My DS was a happy "good" boy too who had hardly ever cried and thankfully we only had to let him cry for twenty minutes... and in fact teaching him to sleep this way made him a happier boy....as he was not overtired anymore. he never once became upset with us outside of this and always had a big smile in the morning. But I am not trying to get you to CIO, just explaining what we did and a different point of view. I hope you find a no cry solution so you are all getting more sleep. I had also bought and read the no cry solution but realised on reading it that I had already tried most of the solutions in there which is why in desperation we resorted to a sleep coach thinking it would be a nightmare, when in fact within a few nights of hardly any crying we were sorted.... As for bedtimes, we are quite strict. If DH gets home late from work that's too bad, he'll see him the next day and make up for it on the weekend....keeping him up is not worth it as he's much happier and sleeps better with his regular bedtime. <em>edited by sydneygal on 15/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 14 September 2012 - 22:32
Flydiver...930am??!! Sooo jealous!
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Latest post on 14 September 2012 - 19:50
Hi there....sleep deprivation is a killer isnt it! If your bub is waking that often it sounds like he has some sleep associations...does he require a dummy/boob/rocking or anything else to get back to sleep? When my DS was younger he would wake every 45 min for his dummy all night long so we had to teach him to fall asleep on his own. We worked with a sleep coach but it did involve some crying it out, but it worked and now DS sleeps a solid 12 hours and goes to sleep by himself with no tears. But there are other ways of getting rid of sleep associations that don't involve crying, they just usually take a bit longer. See if u can get your hands on the book The No Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley, or give Kiwispiers a shout out I think she has a PDF of the book she could email you. Good luck and I hope you all get some sleep soon. Oh...and have you tried putting him to sleep earlier? 9.30pm is very late and he might be so overtired he can't settle into a deeper sleep, especially if he's only having short naps. My boy goes to sleep between 7-730pm and sleeps 12 hours plus has a 3 hour nap during the day. Sometimes the more they sleep, the more they sleep! Earlier bedtimes can do wonders, it's worth a try.
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Latest post on 14 September 2012 - 19:40
Hey M, DS dropped to one nap about a month and a half ago and he's 16 months now. He started fighting his first nap at ten am so eventually I just stopped trying to put him down and then instead of putting him down at two for an afternoon 2 hour nap I started putting him down at one....and he started sleeping three hours! I know others keep a longer morning nap and then drop the afternoon nap. I found the afternoon nap suited him better and us too as far as organising activities and classes and working around his meal times. He also now goes down around half seven and sleeps 12 hours. I did find however that when we first dropped to one nap, there were days where he still seemed to need the first nap and he would take it, so you might have to go with the flow a bit during that flux period....eventually they settle right into the one nap with no issues. I usually had to take him out and keep him distracted in the morning for a while, but also staying close to home so there was no danger of him falling asleep in the car! Now he is fine and has no issues staying up from 730am until 1pm.