Invited to a wedding - etiquette help please!

Hello Faramo, Thank you for your helpful info, now for a quick update. I was so impressed with the evening, from the moment I stepped through the perfumed cloud at the door it was like entering another world...... in a way I had, words will not do it justice. The venue (Ritz Carlton) was lovely, tables were decorated in a gold theme,tall crystal /glass candle holders held large bouqets of pale peach roses. The bride was stunning, her dress was western, fitted bodice,with long train and veil, she walked up the centre aisle to a raised platform with a couch. A large screen either side allowed all to see what was happening, people sat next to her for official photos. The guests were beautifully dressed, ball gowns that would look at home on any red carpet, lots of henna was also visible. Many ladies kept their abbaya on, you did get a glimpse of lovely dresses underneath, I noticed that abbaya's were finer and more decorative for special occasions. One memorable moment happened when the ladies covered before the Groom and his party arrived, all those lovely colours were hidden in unison and I became aware that as far as I could see I was the only one uncovered (long sleeve shirt, long skirt). The music is loud, the dancing is fascinating, they dance on a platform in front of the Bride, similar to a catwalk. Money was thrown over the dancers for the whole evening, there were ladies who spent all their time collecting it, reminded me of what we do with confetti, rice or rose petals. The food was served continually, small bite sized sweet and savoury items, all looked too perfect to eat. Around 11pm a buffet was served with so much variety to choose from. Young girls were also dressed in satin and bows, the delight on their faces was easy to see. I had a wonderful time, and I will always be grateful to these lovely people who welcomed me and allowed me to attend such a special occasion. Shanni

Enjoy your time at the wedding, but be warned they do often take phones away at the door if there is a camera as no photos are permitted as most women dont wear the abbaya. Usually towards the end of the party the groom arrives to take the bride away - thats when everyone covers up . Anyway -ENJOY - and let us know how it goes!

Hello CSM and Gray Girl, Thank you for your advice, I will make sure that I have a bite before leaving, (will need the energy for the night of dancing ahead). I am looking forward to a wonderful evening and will enjoy every moment. Shanni :)

You will have the [b'>best[/b'> time. Don't worry if you go alone, you will be well taken care of.

Hello Gray Girl, would love to hear how the wedding went. Tonight I have been invited to a local wedding ....... tomorrow, I am so honoured to be able to attend and would appreciate any words of wisdom you can offer. Thank You in advance Shanni