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might sound silly..

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 February 2011 - 11:07

Hello ladies,

I need some advice..

I have been married for 4 years now, am 26 years old and my husband and i really want to have a baby now. My only fear is the delivery part - I have read and heard so many horror stories about tearing and needing stiches after a natural birth that i honestly get so scared about it.. i also heard that you can never have a normal love making life once this happens to you.. i would just love it if one of you mums would give me the real deal - the horror, the pleasantries - everything.

I know, most of you would ask why i do not just sit and talk with my mum - but unfortunately we fell out after i married my childhood sweatheart, whom to date she thinks i should have waited and married someone "richer"
:((

thanks :)
<em>edited by fluffypie on 19/02/2011</em>

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EW GURU
Latest post on 19 February 2011 - 12:09
I can't help at all... all 3 c-sections - however, if you're truely concerned, why not make an appointment with your OB of choice and chat with them about your concerns??? Every single person is different - so as much as anyone can give you an idea of what they went through, it will never be identical to what you will go through yourself.
 
 

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