Thank you for your advise and kind words ladies x
A1984, I have been using the ovulation kit and conceive plus for the past two cycles. and I am taking pregnacare multi vitamins.
I am also not using any medication, not even panadol. I don't like taking medication.
And we tried every other day up until ovulation, then we tried every day for four days.
That's why I am quite gutted :( DH is very supportive but I don't think he really understands how it feels to have to wait every month...
Make sure you're not taking any medication - everything from anti-depressants to ibuprofen can make baby-making difficult. But do take a baby aspirin every day as that will actually help - but stop taking it once you are sure you've got a bun in the oven.
And ***, lots of it. Not just when you have ovulated, but every flipping day. People are too busy to have enough of it these days but the more the better.
Don't let your hopes down. I know its tough when it comes when least expected.
I'm sure you know, but if you are using lubricants they are not 'sperm friendly'. So its just a little bit of extra helping hand to stop using those and use 'Preseed' or 'Conceive plus' instead. They seemed to work for me the very first month.
Hi OP...sorry to hear it didnt happen this month...but keeps your hopes up and it will happen soon!
we have been trying too...I know exactly what you are going through..exact same thing happened to me last month...was late by 3 days ...was very hopeful but HPT negative and got my period the next day.
but as you said yourself...i think better to relax and keep trying and it will happen!sending best wishes your way!
Thank you A1984, but unfortunately I got my period today :( I am gutted. I don't know what we are doing wrong. I was certain that this was the month!
Anyway, back to trying. Am going to try to take it easy though and not focus on it so much. Maybe I am just too stressed out and anxious
If I haven't gotten my period by Monday I will go to the clinic :) I also feel 'different' but I don't want to get my hopes up... May just be wishful thinking.
Holding thumbs and toes and everything that this month is the month! :)
Very likely.....i had the same thing too tested too early.....HPT turned out negative too......so wait another couple of days and then re-test or if you really can't wait.....get a blood test done....thats what i did....they r really very accurate.....can walk in and get it done anywhere like Aster polyclinic.
The month i got pregnant i just knew even though HPT was negative.....my body was giving me wierd signs.You will know in your gut!
But the HPT is negative... Am I testing too early?
I don't have any pms symptoms really except for some lower back ache every now and again and my bre@sts are a little sensitive. We also really tried a lot this month and I used the ovulation kit so knew exactly when to try.
I really hope my period does not show up today, it's as though my body is trying to torture me!