I got the Jujube "Be Prepared" - big enough for travelling, a reasonable size for every day, not too feminine for DH, and goes in the washing machine!!
http://shop.ju-ju-be.com/Be-Prepared-at-Ju-Ju-Be-PID10785-07MB01A.aspx
I got a simple black messenger type Skip Hop Dash from Bumblebee Dubai Mall. DH doesn't mind carrying it. Another good thing about it is that it can be attached to your buggy as well.
This is a pic of my nappy bag - [url=http://www.skiphop.com/product/dashdiaperbag.html'>Dash[/url'>
Here's a link of Skip Hop bags - [url=http://www.bumblebee-me.com/index.php/outandabout/bags-luggage/diaper-bags.html?manufacturer=139'>http://www.bumblebee-me.com/index.php/outandabout/bags-luggage/diaper-bags.html?manufacturer=139[/url'>
ETA - They don't have the dash in the link above but they have it in their store if you're interested.
HTH :)
edited by pinkbutterfly on 05/05/2013
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I'm looking for a stylish diaper bag, that isn't too feminine as we're having a boy and I also want DH to be able to use it.
The only bags I've seen are either cheap and plastic-looking, or otherwise have leather or metal on them which means I can't throw them in the washing machine...
I'd love any suggestions that you have please ladies.