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New comer (Brits) in twenties moving out-advice please!

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 28 November 2014 - 22:51

Hi!

Myself and my fiancé are in our mid twenties, I am studying and my partner works in oil and gas. He is very well qualified and has a great job here but after a few offers to transfer to Abu Dhabi we are considering making a move and seeing how we like the expat lifestyle. Although it's hard to resist the allure of the money and the luxury that seems to be available to expats in UAE, for me personally the pull would be being able to more easily afford to stay at home and start a family. I have a few questions for you and I hope you can bear with me if they seem ignorant (I have only been outside of Europe once!)

1. Getting married before, is it a necessity?
2. How does access to health care work is it on a case by case basis with his employer? Would I be covered, is the health care good?
3. What's it like to be 'western' in Abu Dhabi? I am fairly conservative, don't drink or wear revealing clothing etc but wondering if you feel safe/free/independent?
4. How do you find the heat?
5. What's it like to raise a family here?
6. Best and worst bits of living in Abu Dhabi?
7. Any home comforts here or is it best to prepare for culture shock?!

Many thanks in advance

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<em>edited by Sojobee on 29/11/2014</em>

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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 07:42
No - if you already hold a post grad certification and have experience, you would be able to get work here. If you did get your PhD though you would get work very easily. Education is so valuable to this market and a PhD is priceless.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 29 November 2014 - 14:04
Londiamond, thank you so much for taking the time to answer and give me such an honest and detailed reply, I really appreciate that. It is good to know what we must negotiate for regarding health care, rent etc. I am one year into a thee year (full time) PhD, I fear that my skills and experience would not be valued in Abu Dhabi? My field is in early years and specifically in supporting vulnerable families so I realise it may be very difficult to work over there.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 29 November 2014 - 07:43
Hi! Hope I can help... 1. Yes, you will need to be married first,otherwise he cannot sponsor you. 2. The sponsor will normally cover you. In fact, insist on this in package negotiations, that health care is included, as if you are thinking of a family then you will want to have held health insurance for at least 1 yr so you have access to their maternity package. A lot of AD cos once age ADIC insurance and that was a good one according to a friend. 3. There is a very thriving expat world in AD, and you will be comfortable. It is not like it once was where the white woman would stand out. AD is conservative in practice compared to DXB, however it is not Soodi Arabia conservative. 4. Heat is hot however EVERYWHERE is air conditioned, so it is basically three (five it feels like now) months indoors, then a fantastic outdoor season. 5. Do not know, others will help on this one. Off these boards and friends, ensure that your package includes the ever increasing school fees, and find out the popular schools early and see when their registrations open as waiting lists are long and people register very early. 6. An AD person will get this one. 7. A lot of. However there is no large shocks as you will not be working. As long as you are aware of the fact that is is a religious country, that women do cover (a lot of, not all), that for a month of the year, you cannot eat, drink, smoke in public areas, that locals are not the people to fight with, that patience needs to be with you, that your fiancee will not hav Christmases off (Christian holiday), that even if you fall in love with AD and call it home, AD will always call you a guest, you will be fine. As an extra - have you finished or will you have finished your degree before expatriating? I ask as, later on, when children are in school, you could want to work as something for yourself to do. And getting work here is hard for ladies who have spey a few years as stay at home mothers. If you are a career person and are thinking that the family side is only a part of the road, then do not lose sight of how important the career road is to stay on when trying to get work in this region, as there are people here everyday looking for work, with experience, degrees, etc. etc. and if you have sat in the house with no experience or qualifications, then getting back in later (here) will be harder. And flexi work is not easy to get here. Get rent allowance included in the package. I wish you the best! PS It is lovely here, but avoid gutting caught in the glamor as advertised, as the advertising appears to magnify the life of before the recession - since 2008, there are a lot of people now only paying the bills and that life is a CC debt...