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Bullying & Allegations in school

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 22 March 2022 - 22:39

My son is 12 years old and joined this new school this year only so the acceptance of kids are really not great. Today my son was sitting and having lunch with his two classmates suddenly a girl of his class has come with 30-40 boys and pointed towards my son and said he is the one. Suddenly all the kids started hitting my son. Now the school is under pressure they are scared that this rowdy incident happened in their school. So what they did they called me and said that the girl has complain against your child so we are suspending him for 3 days. The girl is saying he is looking at me inappropriately.

My question is after this whole incident 30-40 kids hitting one boy just for the saying of one girl...how far it is right that school is suspending my son and giving the verdict that he is wrong.
Please note my son shares everything with me and he clearly said that he has not done anything wrong with anyone, he is victim of bullying everyday. Sometime they hide his books and lots and lots of other examples are there.

I am not able to sleep, kindly advise me what i should do.

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 17 April 2022 - 02:06
I sympathize that this is happening to you. I think in this case the fault lies with the school, since such serious problems on the scale of 30-40 people happen. The best option would be to change schools or transfer to distance learning.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 23 March 2022 - 08:50
My condolences that this is happening to your son. My daughter went through the same thing except not with 30-40 boys since that seems like an exaggeration considering the ratio of boys/girls per classroom. She promised me she didn't do anything and I believed her because as parents we always assume that our children are blameless, but in reality she was spreading nasty rumours about another girl on social media. This was a shock to me - my Honours Student, School Prefect girl who just like your son would share everything with me. Now that doesn't mean your son is the same of course, but it's very important that you need to find out exactly what's transpired between your son and that girl and keep an open mind - parents aren't always told everything and kids will lie to make themselves look they're not at fault. Whether your son or the girl is at fault needs to be cleared in a private discussion. I suggest bringing it up to the principal so they can sit down with you, your son, the girl, and her parents in a private conversation to get to the bottom of this. All the best!
 
 

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