:\: happened to my dh before he was so embarressed cos they asked him on leaving!!!
tight is what id say ...
yeah - you cut your coat according to your cloth and all that. If you can't afford to host the party that you'd like, then it's time to maybe think of alternatives!
<em>edited by Hello.Again.Kitty on 08/03/2011</em>
She is a good friend and if she had to ask me what I thought about it - I would find it very difficult to say anything other than how awkward I find it to be. That is my opinion on this and I know we are all different.