It's not necessarily about doing the things you should be doing. It's maybe the things that are unexpected. I feel for you on the commuting thing, it makes the men tired and grumpy. I get monosyllabic answers when my OH's brain is fried from a long day, so it's pointless talking to him until he's come in, unwound and de-stressed.
i agree....that is exactly what happens at my end too.
he de-stresses in front of the tv...talks to my DD for a few mins
has dinner and then again in front of the tv....and goes back to sleep.
Put yourself in his shoes !
How would you feel with that daily commute ?
He needs looking after and stop feeling sorry for yourself, you help him and it will help you both.
Life is tough.
I feel so down!
DH doesnt say anything sweet at all :(
nor does he act sweet. :((
what do I do ?
edited by Tweeti on 12/03/2011
It's not necessarily about doing the things you should be doing. It's maybe the things that are unexpected. I feel for you on the commuting thing, it makes the men tired and grumpy. I get monosyllabic answers when my OH's brain is fried from a long day, so it's pointless talking to him until he's come in, unwound and de-stressed.
i have gone through a similar phase only to realize it was me whose harmones had made me over-sensitive ... consider that too ... and may be you should do something extraaa extraaa sweet for him in order to get it out from him ... may be he is just too distracted due to work or something ... HTH
what extra extra sweet things should I be doing?
I do everything I should be doing. :)
Just tell him that you require some sweet talking.......
Is that right ladies?
Anyway, I really should not answer this one...I HATE sweet talk, it usually means I will be up all night...
yawn yawn TMI, I know
ALL night??? did Mr Possumus pay you to type that? ;)
Just tell him that you require some sweet talking.......
Is that right ladies?
Anyway, I really should not answer this one...I HATE sweet talk, it usually means I will be up all night...
yawn yawn TMI, I know
i guess....he just doesnt know how to react.
he commutes daily from AD for work.... would that be effecting our relationship?.
he acts all normal.....but just doesnt say anything romantic these days.
Could he be knackered and stressed? What do you do re being caring and sweet to your dh? Talk to your dh.
i have gone through a similar phase only to realize it was me whose harmones had made me over-sensitive ... consider that too ... and may be you should do something extraaa extraaa sweet for him in order to get it out from him ... may be he is just too distracted due to work or something ... HTH
i guess....he just doesnt know how to react.
he commutes daily from AD for work.... would that be effecting our relationship?.
he acts all normal.....but just doesnt say anything romantic these days.
Sorry about this! I guess u can't force him to be "sweet" - it has to come from him to be sincere.........have u talked to him about how this makes u feel?