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Sick Maid - Awful treatment at Gov Med Cen

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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 19:01
I just wanted to say how nice it is to read about a madam who gives a damn after everything we usually read. I know most people do but knowing that shazman, and other like her, genuinely care is lovely to see. Cyclone T, I do really care about my helper, she is an absolute diamond, but apparently that is the problem - I treat her too well - according to the Dr. he is such a bl@@dy idiot. And sadly Crystil is probably right.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 15:45
Some doctors should have their license taken away from them. Probably already has been revoked - in another country which could explain why he's here in Dubai.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 14:07
Yep, there should be a Practice Manager of the Clinic. You should complain to them. That is disgusting from one human being to another, let alone a doctor to a patient. A dog would have got more empathy. He needs to be reminded of the Hippocratic Oath he swore to when he became licensed: [i'>I swear to fulfill, to the best of my ability and judgment, this covenant: I will respect the hard-won scientific gains of those physicians in whose steps I walk, and gladly share such knowledge as is mine with those who are to follow. I will apply, for the benefit of the sick, all measures [that'> are required, avoiding those twin traps of overtreatment and therapeutic nihilism. I will remember that there is art to medicine as well as science, [b'>and that warmth, sympathy, and understanding may outweigh the surgeon's knife or the chemist's drug.[/b'> I will not be ashamed to say "I know not," nor will I fail to call in my colleagues when the skills of another are needed for a patient's recovery. I will respect the privacy of my patients, for their problems are not disclosed to me that the world may know. Most especially must I tread with care in matters of life and death. If it is given to me to save a life, all thanks. But it may also be within my power to take a life; this awesome responsibility must be faced with great humbleness and awareness of my own frailty. Above all, I must not play at God. [b'>I will remember that I do not treat a fever chart, a cancerous growth, but a sick human being, whose illness may affect the person's family and economic stability. My responsibility includes these related problems, if I am to care adequately for the sick.[/b'> I will prevent disease whenever I can, for prevention is preferable to cure. [b'>I will remember that I remain a member of society, with special obligations to all my fellow human beings, those sound of mind and body as well as the infirm. [/b'> If I do not violate this oath, may I enjoy life and art, respected while I live and remembered with affection thereafter. May I always act so as to preserve the finest traditions of my calling and may I long experience the joy of healing those who seek my help.[/i'> My bold.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 13:02
Good idea Clairehdp.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 13:00
I'd go to the head of the clinic though and ask for your money back why should you pay for such bad treatment ......
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 12:03
Some doctors should have their license taken away from them. That treatment is just awful. My maid barely gets sick but did have a pretty bad experience herself - and I was there to witness it - in a government hospital. We are looking into getting a health insurance for her. Here according to labor law, all companies should provide a health insurance - if I am correct. But labor law does not apply to domestic help. But should somehing happen, then an insurance would be a good idea to have. That is what I was thinking about now doing, she has her health card, but I am going to look at private health insurance now. Not that money matters but it cost quite a bit to get S correctly diagnosed and if that happened a few times a year the cost of health insurance would be no more expensive (i think), anyway if you find any good med insurance maybe you could share on here. I definitely will - my Dh is on the case at the moment.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 12:02
I just wanted to say how nice it is to read about a madam who gives a damn after everything we usually read. I know most people do but knowing that shazman, and other like her, genuinely care is lovely to see.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:56
Gleekfamily - No did not read your post like that at all I knew what you meant. Have been to S and ask if she would like me to make a complaint against the Dr. I have explained I am happy to and the reasons that it should be done (as pointed out by Gleekfamily) etc etc, anyway she has said no, she just wants to get better and not think about the Dr any more. So I am going to go with her wishes, as I am sure if anything did come of it, they would need to talk to her as well, and as she has said no, I will not go against what she wants.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:51
Some doctors should have their license taken away from them. That treatment is just awful. My maid barely gets sick but did have a pretty bad experience herself - and I was there to witness it - in a government hospital. We are looking into getting a health insurance for her. Here according to labor law, all companies should provide a health insurance - if I am correct. But labor law does not apply to domestic help. But should somehing happen, then an insurance would be a good idea to have. That is what I was thinking about now doing, she has her health card, but I am going to look at private health insurance now. Not that money matters but it cost quite a bit to get S correctly diagnosed and if that happened a few times a year the cost of health insurance would be no more expensive (i think), anyway if you find any good med insurance maybe you could share on here.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:40
Some doctors should have their license taken away from them. That treatment is just awful. My maid barely gets sick but did have a pretty bad experience herself - and I was there to witness it - in a government hospital. We are looking into getting a health insurance for her. Here according to labor law, all companies should provide a health insurance - if I am correct. But labor law does not apply to domestic help. But should somehing happen, then an insurance would be a good idea to have.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:30
I have a court case against a govt hospital and a doctor on going. It was filed in 2005. Will it ever get to court? doubt it. Just tell the doctor in charge of the clinic, he needs to know.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:28
@shazman I hope you didn't think I was implying anything wrong on your part...when I was saying "you," I was referring to doctors. I know you came on here for a well-needed rant! :) If you do decide to make a complaint, it wouldn't be against the clinic it would be against the actual doctor. I know it's tough to make these decisions, but what if this doctor sees a child in a similar situation who can't express what/why it hurts and the child is just brushed aside? I don't mean to guilt you into doing something you aren't comfortable with doing though.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:11
gleekfamily - I always use this clinic for my helpers, this is the first time my current helper has been sick in 8 months so the first time she has been to Dr (except visa med), I have seen never had treatment like this before at the clinic. Did not think about making a complaint, not really sure it would result in anything but a headache for me, and I may feel the need to use the valium prescription. If I can put it back together out of the shredder bin. P.S Sorry I got rid of the prescription if I thought anybody would have needed I would have kept it for you. lol. x I just put up the thread as a rant to get it off my chest and to stop mulling it over in my head and making me madder.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:10
I'd say name and shame him and the hospital if they decide to stand by him,...complain to the hospital ad health authority... glad she got the right treatment
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 11:01
That's really awful. I have to say, I use the government health care clinic and have always been treated well. It's no frills, but it certainly isn't shortcutting or maltreatment like it appears in this case. Do you have plans to make a complaint to DHMS or MOH? It's not right to treat certain people a certain way...ever heard of Hyppocratic Oath? I know some doctors must get annoyed/sick of patients feigning illnesses, but it still doesn't absolve you of YOUR duty to perform thorough checks regardless. :(
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:46
That's disgusting behaviour from someone who is supposed to be a healthCARE worker. You can only imagine how his staff get treated! Our helper went to a doctor for recurring migraines. He told her it is because she takes a shower before she sleeps??? Didn't ask her about water intake, diet, blood presure, periods, eyesights, or I don't know anything that actually made sense!
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:45
I am pretty mad at how my domestic helper has just been treated at the Government Medical Clinic. She (S) came into work yesterday looking pretty poorly, so I put her in a taxi (could not take myself as my DD is already home sick), off S goes to clinic, she came back and said the Dr. said it is just a muscle pull. I dont believe this, anyway off she goes back to bed, this morning she looks like death warmed up, so drop DD off at school and take S to Clinic, I go in with her, the Dr. was very aggressive he almost had me in tears (and I am a strong person), this is before he gave her physical examination, kept saying to S - What do you think is wrong, what you want me to do, why are you saying you have pain, I then ask him to stop asking her questions in that manner and giver her examination, so he does anyway, he says there is nothing wrong with her, just a bit of muscle pull, it is all in her head, she justs wants to go home, just send her she is no good. I then said If I was the one showing same symptoms would you treat me as aggressively, - he just looks at me and says nothing. Then he had the cheek to say to me - The problem is you treat her too well. At this point I said, are you going to give her a prescription for what I believe is an infection, he said NO INFECTION - SHE TAKE VALIUM. I can not believe how a professional person can treat anybody regardless of who they are or where they come from like this. I am so mad, just wanted to have a rant. Anyway, took her prime medical and yes she has an ear infection, S in now on antibiotics and the Valium prescription has been destroyed. no, no, no! give me the valium. (please) That was my first thought too! But a close second was indignation on the part of your maid. I can't imagine a doctor talking to my maids that way - I'd be livid.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:42
Are you kidding me???? And this is supposed to be a professional? Pretty awful
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:41
That's terrible shazman. I'd be taking the diagnosis of the second doctor back to the first one and having firm words with him. Also be tempted to file a complaint. Glad you got it sorted and bless you for being such a wonderful person.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:41
What a horrible experience for your maid and yourself. Glad to hear she is now sorted. I hope she gets better soon. :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:40
I am pretty mad at how my domestic helper has just been treated at the Government Medical Clinic. She (S) came into work yesterday looking pretty poorly, so I put her in a taxi (could not take myself as my DD is already home sick), off S goes to clinic, she came back and said the Dr. said it is just a muscle pull. I dont believe this, anyway off she goes back to bed, this morning she looks like death warmed up, so drop DD off at school and take S to Clinic, I go in with her, the Dr. was very aggressive he almost had me in tears (and I am a strong person), this is before he gave her physical examination, kept saying to S - What do you think is wrong, what you want me to do, why are you saying you have pain, I then ask him to stop asking her questions in that manner and giver her examination, so he does anyway, he says there is nothing wrong with her, just a bit of muscle pull, it is all in her head, she justs wants to go home, just send her she is no good. I then said If I was the one showing same symptoms would you treat me as aggressively, - he just looks at me and says nothing. Then he had the cheek to say to me - The problem is you treat her too well. At this point I said, are you going to give her a prescription for what I believe is an infection, he said NO INFECTION - SHE TAKE VALIUM. I can not believe how a professional person can treat anybody regardless of who they are or where they come from like this. I am so mad, just wanted to have a rant. Anyway, took her prime medical and yes she has an ear infection, S in now on antibiotics and the Valium prescription has been destroyed. no, no, no! give me the valium. (please)
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 10:37
I am pretty mad at how my domestic helper has just been treated at the Government Medical Clinic. She (S) came into work yesterday looking pretty poorly, so I put her in a taxi (could not take myself as my DD is already home sick), off S goes to clinic, she came back and said the Dr. said it is just a muscle pull. I dont believe this, anyway off she goes back to bed, this morning she looks like death warmed up, so drop DD off at school and take S to Clinic, I go in with her, the Dr. was very aggressive he almost had me in tears (and I am a strong person), this is before he gave her physical examination, kept saying to S - What do you think is wrong, what you want me to do, why are you saying you have pain, I then ask him to stop asking her questions in that manner and giver her examination, so he does anyway, he says there is nothing wrong with her, just a bit of muscle pull, it is all in her head, she justs wants to go home, just send her she is no good. I then said If I was the one showing same symptoms would you treat me as aggressively, - he just looks at me and says nothing. Then he had the cheek to say to me - The problem is you treat her too well. At this point I said, are you going to give her a prescription for what I believe is an infection, he said NO INFECTION - SHE TAKE VALIUM. I can not believe how a professional person can treat anybody regardless of who they are or where they come from like this. I am so mad, just wanted to have a rant. Anyway, took her prime medical and yes she has an ear infection, S in now on antibiotics and the Valium prescription has been destroyed.
 
 

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