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Terrible maids with kids in the Marina

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:54
I don't know what "At the first place is" I think its..."In the first place"...anyway...you sound racist...are you saying the cultures that most of these maids are coming from are barely civilized? Where are you from? I am willing to bet if its from an Arab country or India, many many many people would say you are barely civilized...doesn't feel too good does it?? Stereotypes can be ugly at times huh? hahaha... No, im not from any part of the world you mentioned above. But I bet you are an american.;) and it's not bc of your name. <em>edited by AriVW on 08/03/2011</em>
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:51
I don't know what "At the first place is" I think its..."In the first place"...anyway...you sound racist...are you saying the cultures that most of these maids are coming from are barely civilized? Where are you from? I am willing to bet if its from an Arab country or India, many many many people would say you are barely civilized...doesn't feel too good does it?? Stereotypes can be ugly at times huh?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:45
At the first place: if you can trust someone barely civilized to take care of your child, you clearly don’t care much.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:44
You have to be the lone voice. These babies have no voice, and for all we know these maids act like loving caregivers with the parents around and have fooled them. You cannot assume the parents are bad parents or wouldnt want to know-they really could be victims of trusting someone that appears to care. Its so sad, how can someone treat a baby like that?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:40
Find out how to notify the parents. Who cares if you are a lone voice against a maid mafia. If you notify them, and the parents don't do anything about it or don't care at least you will feel good about trying to stop it. I am just sick about these maid stories.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:30
As for the police I doubt they would be interested. I know someone who was the victim of a hit and run. Many witnesses identified the perpetrator but the police are yet to charge him.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:28
Yes that's what I figured - some parents may not want to know. The maids themselves have quite a mafia type gang going around the fountains which in itself is intimidating for a lone voice to interfere with. I guess what I hoped is that perhaps India's mum or one of the other mums may chance upon this post. I do think that sometimes nanny cams are warranted.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:13
terf - I would very politely ask for the 'madame's' number saying that I needed to call her for something....no need to share your intentions. As a mom of a three year old, I would definitely want to be told as to what my maid is doing behind my back and would appreciate if someone was thoughtful enough to do so.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:13
oh god this is tricky. Personally i would say something afterall if it was your child u would want to know.Could you not ring police or something but have a witness with you.I know some parents might think u are interfering but at least if its in the open and the doubt is there they might pay more attention to whats going on!!!! Cos I know what I would do if I thought someone was harming my child if I wasnt there God it brings a shiver to me <em>edited by corkshelly on 08/03/2011</em>
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:08
Why should you bother if their parents don’t care? I wonder if the parents know just how bad things are? If they would care they would know.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:08
I sometimes tell a maid they aren't looking after their kid well - sometimes it shames them into appearing to care.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:06
Why should you bother if their parents don’t care? I wonder if the parents know just how bad things are?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:05
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 16:04
Why should you bother if their parents don’t care?
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 15:52
Have you thought about following them home, find out which apartment they live in and go and say something to their parents.
 
 

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