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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 05 April 2011 - 20:27

My dd has recently become really upset that Daddy is away so much and we have been having daily tears about missing Daddy. This is not a new thing as he has always travelled is it an age thing? she's 3.5years is there anything that makes it easier?

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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 10 April 2011 - 20:58
I've been saying that "Dad is in the office". DH is in fact scheduled to return tonight so when DS started to whine about it this afternoon, I casually said "Dad will be getting on a plane right after you go to sleep, and you will see him in the morning..." and he got quite wide-eyed. Before bursting into another round of hysterics.... (edited to add that DS is nearly 3 yrs old) <em>edited by Apricot on 10/04/2011</em>
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 06 April 2011 - 11:16
It must be difficult for them to understand. When it happens, I don't dwell on it and just say "daddy's gone to work"... it's a bit harder when we're doing holiday stints in the UK, but DD has understood that we have 2 houses and that Dh works in Dubai even when we're in the UK. I also find it important to use video-calling when we're apart for more than a few days - keeping in touch visually on a daily basis reassures the children (and me) and DH loves it too.
 
 

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