Sorry Emily...only just saw your post. They were able to close the hole with just the one operation so going under water etc was fine. Before the operation (and you'll gasp at this!) the Dr told my Mom that if anything went up the hole she could give me a little coke as this was apparently effective at "cleaning it out". How times change hey! Guess I turned out ok though ;) If she's sneezing, it's probably dislodging the food anyway? Keep us posted x
Clair, did the doctors close up the hole fully in one operation? Can you (or your mum) remember when you were little and ate food, did you sneeze a lot as some food went up the hole? Also, were you allowed to go under water when swimming??
Yes, she is a very brave litttle girl who has taken everything in her stride. She amazes me everyday :-)
Wonderful news Emily1984 and good on you for being so strong and brave for her. I think I did mention the arms in the post below but wasn't sure if it was still the practice these days. A necessary evil I guess and it does make sense at their age. Your DD sounds like an absolute Angel! Children never cease to amaze me and the same goes for Mums! x
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Hi Clair
Thank you for thinking about us.
Her op went brilliantly. We can not fault Al Wasl hospital in any way. They were great. We went in the day before for tests and general observation. DD was great and took it all in her stride. I actually think she was excited as it was something new and different surroundings and she was getting all this extra attention from the nurses!!
She went to surgery on the Thurs morn at about 730am. It was heart wrenching leaving her but i was so strong and brave for her. i didnt want to let her see me upset. We got her back at 12. That was the longest 4 and a half hours of my life. I have never been away from her for that long before. We went up to surgery twice to check on her and the staff were great going to check and giving us updates.
When we got her back, thats when i broke down. Seeing her like she was with the tube up her nose and hooked up to the monitors, it was heart breaking. She was also coming round from the anaesthetic so was a bit uncomfortable and usually where i can settle her, she wasnt interested the poor thing. The surgeon said that the tube could come out once she had 2 bottle feeds. As always, she was a little star and took 2 feeds before bed so they took it out.
We were discahrged the day after. She had to have her arms bandaged straight so that she couldnt put her fingers or anything in her mouth. She didnt like this very much. We persevered with it for a couple of days and then let her take them off during the day and we didnt take our eyes off her. She was on painkillers and anti inflammatorys for 5 days.
We went for our post op check last month and the surgeon was very happy with how it went. She has to have another op next year to close up the remainder of the hole as it was so big but im trying not to think abouyt that just yet.
Thanks so much for thinking about us and to evryone who has wished us well :-)
Emily1984 - not sure what made me think of you today but was wondering how your LO's operation went? Hope they took good care of you both and that she is thriving even more now x
Oh and also - something doctors don't tell you is children are often very emotional after coming out of a general anesthetic, my son was - dh basically had to hope into bed with him and hug him very tight, he was hysterical, throwing his arms around, kjicking etc. Same happened with a dear friends DS
Emily - I think it is really normal to be so emotional about the thought of the operation. Remember added to the normal "mum" emotions/hormones that we will always have surrounding things to do with our children, you will still have post partum hormones, esp if you are still BF or lactating.....
BIg hugs and good luck.
Hi Emily. Just wanted to offer my support too. I have a cleft palate (not lip). I had a few speech therapy lessons but that could have been on account of my hearing loss so your DD may not even need those. Some need braces to correct their teeth but then again, so do a lot of other children so nothing to worry about there. I do remember my Mom telling me how shocked she was when I came out of theatre as they'd put both my arms in plaster of paris to stop me getting my hands in my mouth and damaging the stitches / getting an infection. That was over 30 years ago though and won't be the practice anymore but let the Dr's prep you on what to expect and just know that everything will be fine. I've also heard good things about Al Wasl. All the best to you and your baby girl.
Have nothing to add about the procedure, bit wanted to wish you and DD the very best. Sounds like she's in very capable hands. Will be thinking of you.
My nephew had the same, he was born on Sep'09, he went through the 2 surgeries in AlWasl, he looks so beautiful now. Dont worry, as I know that the doctor who's doing those surgeries in AlWasl in great doctor & he's specialized in those cases.
gogi, you said your nephew had open heart surgery at Al Wasl as a baby. When was this and can you tell me more about the dr's? My DD had open heart surgery in July at 4 days old in Abu Dhabi and thought it to be the ONLY place in all of emirates doing heart surgery on baby and young kids right now. Al Ain is trying to establish a pediatric cardiac unit as well but is not complete yet. I did SOOOOOOOOO much research and talked to many dr's and they all agree that sheikh khalifa is the only place in emirates for pediatric cardiac surgery. Did these dr's come in from Europe especially for his case? I am curious to know more as she is due for more surgeries in the near future. Hope you read this msg :)
BTW sorry Emily 1984 didnt mean to hijack your thread :) I am so sorry to hear about your baby! I know 1st hand how hard it is to know and see you precious LO have to go through surgery, meds, etc.... my prayers are w/ya!
edited by gusncoley on 26/01/2011
Wow 4 days old!! Yes my nephew had a surgery at 4-5 days as well but it was only a side cut. The open heart was done at 6 months i think.! I can totally understand what you both are going through. Besides all the medical care, prayers and faith goes a long long way. sometimes we dotn give the little things the credit they deserve.
Yes the surgeries were at Abu dhabi (like i said..the treatment was combined between al wasl and abu dhabi.) Most of the initial diagnoses were done in al wasl and they sent him to abu dhabi. The doctors are permanent i think. I dont think they were flown down from europe. You are in good hands at Shk Khalifa hospital as well. This was in 2009.
gogi, you said your nephew had open heart surgery at Al Wasl as a baby. When was this and can you tell me more about the dr's? My DD had open heart surgery in July at 4 days old in Abu Dhabi and thought it to be the ONLY place in all of emirates doing heart surgery on baby and young kids right now. Al Ain is trying to establish a pediatric cardiac unit as well but is not complete yet. I did SOOOOOOOOO much research and talked to many dr's and they all agree that sheikh khalifa is the only place in emirates for pediatric cardiac surgery. Did these dr's come in from Europe especially for his case? I am curious to know more as she is due for more surgeries in the near future. Hope you read this msg :)
BTW sorry Emily 1984 didnt mean to hijack your thread :) I am so sorry to hear about your baby! I know 1st hand how hard it is to know and see you precious LO have to go through surgery, meds, etc.... my prayers are w/ya!
<em>edited by gusncoley on 26/01/2011</em>
Thanks all for your messages and support.
I was wary to having the op for her out here but nobody has said anyhting bad about al wasl and the dr was very reassuring when we went to see him.
Luckily she doesn't have the full cleft with lip so hopefully she will only need the 2 ops.
Im just dreading the op. I hate having to take her for her injections and this is going to be soooo much worse :-(
Emily, I dont know much about the condition but I have tremendous faith in Al wasl care especially the pediatric team. Rest assured you will get the best medical care there is in the region. My nephew had a heart restructuring done through al wasl and the AUD hospital combined ( with excellent swiss doctors at his beck and call) - a couple of operations with the final one being an open heart surgery all from age 3mo-12 mo. He is now doing so well, its only when you see the little scar on his chest that you ask the mum what its about. These docs are Saviours. You are in the right hands. More than anything, these LO's can endure so much more and have no memory of it - completely healed and cured when they grow up.
Take care and Good luck.
emily I know how you feel when something bad happens it takes a long while to get over the shock and be able to face things and talk
My niece was born with the same, she had 4 ops and now she looks beautiful
As a mum you wish it was you not them I know that feeling but she will be fine as she s so young much better now than later
Take care and let us know how she and you get on
And don t forget this forum is here for support for us all xxx
I know of a friend whose DS was born with a cleft plate in october.
He just had his 1st surgery in the UK 2 weeks back and looks great now! :)
But i think he has another 2-3 surgeries left.
I will ask her to send you a msg here.
I know its hard not to worry, but its harder on the mothers than on the babies!
Hi all
Does anyone have any information on cleft palates? My dd was born last August and with a full soft cleft palate and a third into her hard palate. She is having her first op in March to correct her soft palate and then she will need to have another op between 18 months and 3 years to correct her hard palate. She is having the op at Al Wasl.
I have only recently got my head around it and have been able to talk about it as i got very upset when talking about it when she was first born. She is thriving and the only thing different we have to do is sit her up slightly when we feed her.
I am beginning to get very nervous/emotional about the op and cant even get my head around when they will take her and put her to sleep to do the op.
Does anyone know of anyone who has had this op over here beofre and any experiences to share?
tia