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Extremely worried.....have I waited too long???

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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 13:16

Hello ladies, I just joined in this forum...the reason is, I was really happy to see everyone helping each other and giving great advice on different things.
Here is my problem...my husband and I are both young and healthy. We want to try for a baby but no luck...I recently had all my blood tests/X-rays/vaginal X-rays etc a few months ago and everything looked fine...the ovaries/tubes...this was almost 3 months back...but, I didn't get a pap smear...I have been irregular for the past few months and didn't get my period since may..and now for the past two weeks I've been getting dark brown discharge...test came negative this morning....what could this be? Can someone please suggest a good gynecologist?

Thanks in advance....really worried....

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Latest post on 29 June 2012 - 18:18
Maha, I thoroughly recommend Dr Justine at Lifeline clinic in JBR. She has a vast amount of experience in all areas including pcos and posesses a very motherly, caring attitide towards her patients. Best of luck!
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Latest post on 28 June 2012 - 14:34
Emilyg, thanks I will get the book!
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Latest post on 28 June 2012 - 14:32
Thank You everyone for the encouragement...it means a lot to me especially being new to Dubai....I have the update and a question.... I was regular with periods throughout my life I've until 2 years back...that I started getting them 35-45 days....and a couple of months ago, I had the transvaginal probe ultrasound done and all the blood work done on the 2nd day of my periods and the doctor told me nothing much to worry about....just eat healthy and stay stress free... UPDATE: as u know I have been having old blood/dark brown spotting for the last two weeks...I got worried i tried going to dr.yulia but she was booked....Natalia didn't work out...I ended up with d. Mira...I took all my reports to her and she did not like them as they were from backhome...she said the dr didnt do complete blood check, n she didn't like the way the report was written....just by listening she diagnosed me with pcos...and them immediately did the ultrasound and within two minutes printed out the ovary pics and told me I have pcos! And, she said lt the bleeding be and wait until it finishes that it is from the endometrial lining shedding because before it was 2 cm and now 1 cm...and told me to take primulant for 14 days......what do I do? <em>edited by Maha7 on 28/06/2012</em>
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 21:56
Hi Maha Congrats on deciding to try for a baby. I know it can be quite a daunting process - I too worried at first, and was afraid I may have fertility issues. Have you recently come off the pill? If so, that may explain your recent irregularity. It can take as long as a year for your cycles to settle down again. LIke the PPs, I would recommend seeing a good gynae for peace of mind. But like taurus baby I would also suggest that you get to know your cycles well yourself. It's amazing how much you can learn about your body by simply observing a few fertility signs. By far the best book on this subject is 'Take charge of your fertility' by Toni Weschler. It teaches FAM - the fertility awareness method - and explains everything very clearly and comprehensively. In fact I read most of it in a weekend and once I started charting I was hooked! Anyway that's how I managed to conceive very quickly 3 times. Good luck and have fun :-)
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 15:47
It took us 18 months first time round, so don't give up hope.
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 15:31
If you are young and healthy then no, you haven't waited too long. It could take up to 1 year for a normal healthy couple to conceive so don't be discouraged. The number one reason couples don't conceive is timing. You need to start tracking your ovulation cycle so that you can have a really good understanding of your cycle so that you can time baby making correctly. It took me about 6 months of tracking my cycle before we conceived. Good luck and enjoy the journey and don't worry too much about it :-)
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 14:37
Dr. Yulia fully booked for next two weeks and then on vacation til end of July. Trying dr. Nathalie...
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 14:05
Thank You the dangerous blonde. I don't know why the post got deleted, sorry if you don't see it! I was trying to quote you, it will take sometime to get use to the forum and how to reply... You are right, thanks for the suggestion I will check it out...I hope it's nothing serious...
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Latest post on 26 June 2012 - 14:02
Hey Maha Welcome to the forum :) First things first I would find a good gynaecologist and have a proper thorough examination. I don't know how long you have been trying but for some couples it takes a year or more. The average is about 6 - 9 months. Good news is that most issues can be sorted out once diagnosed but it's really important you have a smear. You may feel young and healthy but there can be infections and problems with no symptoms that can cause damage to your fertility. Sorry I don't want to scare you but it's always good to keep things in check "down there" especially if you're trying for a baby. There may be nothing wrong with you - some women just have irregular periods, but this will make it harder to predict when you're ovulating and therefore when are the peak times for you to get pregnant. I recommend Dr Yuliya at Cooper Health Clinic - good luck!
 
 

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