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Nine month old not napping - help!

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Latest post on 17 July 2012 - 15:23

Hi ladies,

Over these last 3 weeks or so my nine month old, who normally goes down for two naps during the day right on schedule, is refusing to nap!

I don't know what's changed. If anything, our routine has gotten better now that school is out and I don't have to do the school run with him.

He's still a 100% breastfed baby and sleeps through the night for me (from about 7pm to 5am).
I was reading that he may be getting so much sleep at night that it's interfering with napping during the day. However, he's definitely still tired during the day, fussy & crying quite a bit if I'm not holding him. He'll fall asleep while nursing and even if I am careful to gently lay him in his crib, the moment he is out of my arms, he turns over and starts screaming.

I don't know if it's some sort of negative association with his crib - I wouldn't think so because he sleeps so well at night.

He also can and will sleep for an hour or more in his car seat during the day if we go out. If we don't, he will not nap and is very fussy by the afternoon.

I don't have any help around the house so trying to balance a tired & fussy 9 month old and completing the everyday chores, leaves me worn out by the time he goes to sleep. :)

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Latest post on 18 July 2012 - 06:32
My nine month old is doing the same. I'm dealing with a 3 yr old who gets very moody as well if she doesn't have a nap. :( He was doing exactly what yours was doing crying as soon as his head hit the bed. He cried it out for a few months but now his getting clever. I now put him in a battery operated swing chair, he seems to go into a deep sleep in there and after 15 min I'm able to move him in his cot. In the afternoon I put him in his pushchair in front of the telly and he takes a little nap in that for an hour. I don't normally give up I use to let my other two cry it out, but as its the summer holidays I had to do the easiest route before I'd go mental.... And of they are all driving me crazy putting my 3 kids in the car seems to calm everyone down :)
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Latest post on 17 July 2012 - 15:51
maybe his nap times just need tweaking, or have you started giving different foods that might be upsetting his digestive system, or is he learning a new skill and finding it harder to wind down? Maybe start the whole naptime routine a little sooner and allow more time, they have little developmental stages that can make them clingier/more emotional and I do remember my DS going through phases when he was harder to settle although usually that was right before he needed to drop a nap. I don't think he is getting too much night sleep, lol is there such a thing!
 
 

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