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To breastfeed after a previous abscess?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 12 October 2012 - 23:48

Hi all,
I had a huge and painful abscess that had to be removed surgically when I was breastfeeding my daughter some years ago. Now, I'm expeting my second child this month & spoke to my doc to ask if it is a tendency of my body and how likely that I will develop an abscess again. She advised that it is very likely and if I don't want to take any risk, I shouldn't be breastfeeding at all!

I really don't want to go into that route again (4 times infections & antibiotechs in just four months, finishing this by the abscess and it's removal). Was too painful and caused me a lot of misery and stress until it totally healed after more than a month.

My question is : anyone with an experience of developing an abscess with first child and not during the second time aound? I just feel sorry for the baby to take formula right away, however very scared of the abscess thing happening again!

Any thoughts/personal experience is greatly appreciated!

TIA

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 October 2012 - 12:18
Thank you Ladies for the replies and the nice wishes! I will have to think about it again & again before the baby is born. Will also check the link you suggested Kiwispiers. Fingers crossed! And as you rightly said, Sobevan we all want what's best for the kids but we shouldn't forget ourselves into it!
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 13 October 2012 - 09:56
I had an abscess that was surgically drained with my first baby, I am currently breastfeeding my second. To be honest it didn't even cross my mind not to. I would though, take antibiotics at the very first hint of mastitis, to prevent the same thing happening again. I also think that probably my abscess was partially caused by a bad latch, you should work closely with an LC to prevent this. My abscess first time around happened when my baby was 7 months, and I continued to feed him until he was 22 months, without further abscesses developing. Things you can do to prevent clogged ducts are make sure your baby is latching properly and draining the breast evenly, (work with an LC), make sure your baby has no issues such as a tongue tie that can make latching difficult. If you have issues with oversupply (too much milk) then there are ways of feeding to help reduce your supply (again work with the LC), massage any lumps out during a feed, and take lecithin supplements. I had a friend who had an abscess with her first and fed her next two without issue. There is always the possibility it could happen again, but its your choice and you can be proactive to help reduce the likelihood of it. Here is a list of breastfeeding support in the UAE, I'd suggest finding a well qualified and experienced Internationally Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) before the birth and working with them from day one to get breastfeeding going as it should. http://www.expatwoman.com/dubai/monthly_pregnancy_babies_Breastfeeding_Support_In_Dubai_8935.aspx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 October 2012 - 07:41
I too had abscesses (yes, plural) last time around and was hospitalized 3 times. Although I don't plan on having more children, I would not take the risk again. I know breast is best and all of that, but it was such a horribly painful, stressful experience, took so long for me to heal, that I would never be able to relax and let it happen. I know there are plenty of people who have had abscess and then continue breast feeding, but that was not an option for me. I am still very traumatized from what happened. I think the most important thing is for you to listen to your own instincts and go with what you really and truly want to do. Each woman has to do what is right for her without being made to feel guilty. I am still angry (less so now, working on letting those feelings go) at the people who kept insisting I give it another go because the formula was "poison" and it would all be fine. Or that I must be exaggerating. Until those people are experiencing what your own body is going through, no one has the right to tell you what to do or to judge you. I think it's hard not to let something like this bother/worry you. We all want what's best for our kids and there are so many pressures out there to do things a certain way, so much competition (from baby age on up), it can be overwhelming. I don't know when women started getting so judgmental instead of being supportive of each other's choices. But go with your gut and don't worry about explaining your choices to anyone. Best of luck to you.
 
 

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