Advice Please

I know this might have come up but i'd like to know how do you organise your time, i am a mother of a DD and work from 8-6 PM. My 10 month old DD goes to nursery from 730 to 4. I drop her off and my DH who finishes at 330 picks her up. By the time i reach home i am exhausted. I do try to cook every other day and have left overs when i don't cook. I also try to clean the house when i can. Washing the dishes is a hassle for me as i hate it but i have to do it other wise i will not be able to sleep at night LOL. DH tries to help as much as he can by staying with DD but you all know the patience level of a man hehe.. if i spend 30 mins in the kitchen DH comes to me and says whats taking you so long when i respond its only been 30 mins he then just looks shocked then starts laughing saying that it seemed like 2 hours hehe.. he really appreciates what i do.. but the problem is i have so many things that i would love to do but have no time at all.. i do get help once a week but that really is not enough.. and getting a maid is not an option for me because of all the stories i read here and on the news. and also from past experience when i was single living with my family. the main thing that i would love is to get back to my normal body shape. i still have a lot to lose from my pregnancy.. in the beginning i thought to myself ok i'll lose the weight when i finish BF and when BF was over (Due to problems as i wanted to continue till she weaned herself) i told myself ok when Ramadan is here since i get to finish early i can go after Iftar, that didn't work out so well.. i am desparate in losing the weight, and being confident in myself again. i really hate looking at myself and it really is causing me to get angry very quickly and not go out as much because of how i look. but i honestly can't find the time to do anything other than play with my DD, cook, clean, then lie down like a bum... it's really exhausting.. my precious DD is quite the hyper kind and keeps me on my feet all day during weekends, and when i come back from work..

my plan now is hoepfully when Ramadan is over, i will take my 2 hour break during work and join a GYM, but i don't know how that will turn out.. i just really need advice from the mamas of EW.. guide me to the right path i have 15 Kgs to lose and it's really frustrating.. i can't seem to find the time to take care of myself :'(..