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Activities for DD of 3 yrs to boost her confidence

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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 January 2011 - 20:33

Evening all

Earlier today I just posted this thread and thought i change the title to get more replies

DD 3yrs and it seems she more into singing, dancing or playing instrument. She not a gymnastic or ballet type.
Am based in JLT so I dont want to trek as far as umm sequiem/Jumeriah side.

Advice appreciated. TIA
<em>edited by Sham on 18/01/2011</em>

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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 January 2011 - 23:41
Sorry my post doesnt seem clear. DD is shy no siblings and takes time to mix in. Cut the story short. Atm mixture of things going on with DD not sure whether is was down to when we went away for xmas and her first day back was Monday she missed 2 weeks of nursery already. Beside the point DD doesnt seem to want to participate in group activities, she was told to do something she cried and whinge and eventually she gets on with it. Today she sat with teacher and did a jigsaw puzzel and teacher showed her where the puzzel goes and she refused to do it. Apparently teacher says its down to "lack of confidence". Teacher recommends that I should put her in some activity class surrounded with other children her age. I know she very stubborn but I just think its her personality ... For months I have been trying to sort an activity for her and just havent got round in doing so ..Now thats why ive decided to find her a place she will enjoy and mingle with children of her age. I have been meaning to sort a playdate too just havent got round to it. (dont ask me why) I felt terrible after and my only worry now she will not get into a school next year 2012 for FS2 especially wirh assesment no idea if she pass it and she already showing signs not doing or partipating in activities. DH and I have decided to leave her at nursery for FS1 thoiught she way too young to go school then on the other hand Ive been told she most probaly wont get a place for FS2 for 2012 !!!(well thats a different discussion altogether) :(
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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 January 2011 - 22:46
You are the "activity" to boost your childs confidence, mix with friends, don't force her but equally don't give into her. Don't be a pushy mother and equally don't be a push over. Activities for 45 mins maximum for that age.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 18 January 2011 - 21:31
I'm sorry but I don't understand the query very well? Is your daughter shy? If she doesn't have any brothers or sisters, does she have any friends that she can play with regularly (i.e. daily)? As for activities that last longer than an hour - there's a reason why many are shorter time periods for younger children - they have shorter attention spans and tire/get cranky easily, so the benefit for them is to enjoy the time they do spend wherever it may be. Toddlers are tiring and demanding little beings - that's the nature of the little "beasts" (for want of a better word) - they do grow out of it - you will have greyer hair and a few more wrinkles but again, that's the reality for all of us. I would strongly suggest you try and cultivate a circle of friends for your daughter (and yourself as a bonus) where she can learn to socialize with her peers (and you can get a cup of tea and a chat between jumping up and sorting out problems/tears/etc.). Good luck to you. It's not easy but it will be excellent for your daughter and will help you with getting advice/sympathy etc. from mums in similar circumstances. <em>edited by marycatherine on 18/01/2011</em>
 
 

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