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back in the game, but who to play with

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 20:55

ok, so some of you might remember 2 threads i started recently. one was about my sorry a$$ life when being alone for NYE after a long term relation.
the other was to my surprise especially, about my sudden, totally unexpected attraction to a younger guy.

so, the guy is there and i cannot bring myself to play with him simply because he is just soooo nice. such a really nice person. but i do feel tempted, i just dont want to hurt or lose him.

my issue now is that at 30 something i feel like im 24-27 again, which was the naughty naughty period. i feel alive and free and all the cheekyness in me just wants to come out :D

ps: if any of you thinks of judging me, dont :) its a freedom i didnt ask or hope for, but now that I have it, might be for the best. so what do i do with it?:D

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 21:12
i say go and have a blast lov,!!!! youve been trapped with one man for a while. go and have some fun!!!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 21:09
I think it's okay to feel like you are 24 - 27 again. It's a great feeling but after all the experience of long term relationship, I am sure you are now wiser than b4 when it comes to man and relationship. A friend of mine came out of a long term relationship that began when she was 17/18. She had a few years of fun following the break up...even almost given up hope of ever hooking up with someone for long term again when she met her husband through a website. Now together for 5, married for 3 years. Life is full of unexpected....take one day at the time and enjoy the journey.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 21:05
Enjoy - life can be what you want :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 21:03
Have fun! Enjoy life as that 20-something year old again. Blow all caution to the wind, have fun, accept invites to anything and everything and have a blast. music to my ears :P hahaha but see, thats the thing. maybe its just that i dont know any better (since all my time in Dubai has been with one man), but men here are no good. when i think of all the goodies you can find in europe...
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 21:00
Have fun! Enjoy life as that 20-something year old again. Blow all caution to the wind, have fun, accept invites to anything and everything and have a blast.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 January 2011 - 20:59
What you don't want is a rebound fling - that's never any good for anyone. But if you make it clear that you're just out for a good time - go for it!
 
 

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