Im not saying my parents did a bad job, but I did feel I wanted my children to be able to come to me with any problem, my one DD has always shared everything with me, my other was more shy, but when she fell pregnant she knew she could turn to me. Ive always been around to listen to the kids.
All teenagers have some issues and I felt abit let down as I was growing up, I suppose I wanted the opposite for my kids.
after reading the park incident told by a fellow EW and all the incidences we didnt confide in our parents ..i really want some tips on how do we go about and make our kids to confide into us ....
i was just wondering how to create that environment or be a parent who understands and listens.
Yet i dont want to be a mother who would just listen to all without a negative reaction leading to children doing mischief and knowing that just 'reporting' would get them out of trouble, or would make things fine.