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A little help needed

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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 21:11
Sorry you are having such an unhappy start to the new year. Just get rid of him by not replying to any of his messages or calls. You gave him a chance and he did not appreciate it and put himself (even if it's just a little innocent flirting) and his wishes before yours. Don't let him hurt you again. It's still early in the new year so still a good time to make a fresh start:-)
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 17:09
tell him not to let the door hit his a s s too hard on the way out. Geez Louise...close the door on that man..he is trouble.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 16:09
He is not even worth your time to analyze the situation! Sometimes I feel the guys who play these games are the ones that are the most insecure! They shuffle women around like this to make themselves feel more attractive or masculine or some BS...The last thing you want is to try and build a relationship with someone who you always have to question in the back of your head. It's not worth the drama. All it will do is drive you crazy every time you hear his phone and you wonder 'who is that calling now'...who wants to deal with that? Life in Dubai is hard enough lady! Well we can certainly live without men, but who would take out the trash and kill the bugs in the house :) Cheer up babe, go out and have yourself a drinkie and find Mr. Next!!!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 15:37
oh man I can't stand guys like these...I'm going to give it to you straight, SATC style hun....any man who'd drag you through all this mess doesn't deserve you! If he had any respect for you he'd be more up front about these babes and be truthful about what's really going on...why is this always so hard for so many guys?!? Why can't they just tell us what they really feel, even if it's going to hurt us or if it's not what we want to hear?!?! I'd rather hear it straight and have the pain all at once than be dragged along wondering why hasn't he called, did I say something wrong, does he like me etc!!! What is so wonderful about him for you to put up with this nonsense?!? Life is too short to get hung up on anyone who doesn't appreciate you! I say NEXT! Go out and buy yourself some shoes...you'll feel better soon :(
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 15:37
Fedup, I dont blame you for feeling frustrated. If there is one thing a woman should always do though is trust her instincts. If you think you smell a rat, it probably is a rat :) Even if your guy is telling the truth and nothing has happened with this floozy, you still need to make it clear that this texting and girl staying over business is not on. If he doesnt like it then he can do what he wants - just not with you on his arm. Even if she is in the past and you are his number 1, he is obviously enjoying the attention as she is catering to his EGO. Ever had someone that you werent really that into flatter you and flood you with texts and attention - and as soon as they lost interest you start to miss the attention a little? So he is either a) not over her and seeing her on the side or b) not into her but enjoying the ego boost from her (and you) regardless. Give him one more chance to be honest. If he doesnt like it, kick him to the kerb. Love from your agony aunt xx :cool:
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 15:34
What do I do and how do I explain to him that this is not on and its totally wrong. I wouldn't explain anything. I'd tell him to $%& off and then not waste anymore time or breath on him.
 
 

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