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Making Friends

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 12 April 2011 - 14:25

Why is it so tough to make friends with your neighbours here in New Dubai.
Or is it just me having this perception?

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EW GURU
Latest post on 12 April 2011 - 16:48
Not referring to making friends as such, but with regards to neighbors I think its definitely a cultural thing. Where we live generally you don't see any ladies about, mainly the men and then to myself (as a woman) am never acknowledged. And we having been living in this street for quite some time now. I find here people generally stick to their own culture and are almost afraid of others. Of course there are exceptions but that's my general observation. Singles I think mix more but families tend to stay within their own cultures. Look around and see who's out and about. If you go to brunch on a Friday, it will be normally the same people sitting together. Even myself, if someone from my own country moved next door I would probably be more interested to get to know them on a friendship basis than perhaps other nationalities, whereas I would be more than happy to say hello and be pleasant but not really interested to take it further. Not being friends with the neighbors? Take it as a positive; last thing you need is someone annoyingly inviting themselves around every five seconds ;)
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EW GURU
Latest post on 12 April 2011 - 16:37
The street where i live (in new Dubai) is very friendly, walk round the neighbourhood between 4 and 6pm and you will see lots of people walking dogs/children etc. When people move in for a whole day normally there is a big truck outside stop by and say hi.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 12 April 2011 - 15:02
yeah I do agree.... but like me have you noticed, the neighbours here are so quiet. not like our neighbours back home. we used to always have ppl calling upon, tea party, community gatherings, when a birthday was held, everyone was invited, it was an open invitation. but here it seems sooooooo quiet!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 12 April 2011 - 14:34
Aww Tweeti you don't have to be alone - EW have coffee morning meet ups throughout the week - take a look at their what's on page. You'll soon make new friends, I did! http://www.expatwoman.com/dubai/whats_on_coffee_mornings.aspx
 
 

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