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Royal Wedding party at polo club, maids cost include kids buffet!!!! Disgusting!!

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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:50
if they were going to let the maid eat from the adult's buffet, they would need to charge her the adults price. Or all the ladies would be coming in pretending to be maids. :D I agree, which I think would probably encourage people to have their helpers eat at home first so they can focus on their job for the evening. :) Imagine the maids and nannies fighting with little Johnny over the last mini cheeseburger! Mayhem!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:49
Sorry ladies but this just keeps me thinking: in true British style = Entry for maids is AED 100 (including CHILDREN’s buffet and non-alcoholic drinks) Well, then I'll pass on the stereotypical-colonizing-arrogant style :( , really!!! -
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:44
I think the part that was rubbing the OP (and others) the wrong way is that they are offering the CHILDREN'S buffet to the maid, even though the maid is an ADULT. It does seem a bit demeaning: just take the food on the side with the children, you aren't welcome at the adult's buffet. It would probably seem more correct to have a smaller buffet selection near the children's buffet area so that the maids/nannies can do their job and eat something other than nuggets, burgers and fries. Or would it be asking to much to have the helper just eat at home beforehand, since she is technically "at work" so should be attending to the children not stuffing her face. I guess there are two (or more) ways to look at it.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:36
As a nanny I would expect to be able to eat even if I am on duty at a function. Yes I know a maid is treated differently when it comes to things like this but even if you are working it's nice that you can also have a bit of fun while in charge and eat. We are all entitled to lunch/snack breaks - or do maids not fit into that category??! I have even indulged in a few drinks *gasp* courtesy of my employers! Guess it's whatever works for you and yours - personally I would leave the kids and maid at home and have a great time without them!!! ;)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:29
What's "disgusting" about it? The maid is there to look after the kids so it makes perfect sense for her to eat at their buffet, doesn't it? Or am I missing something dark and mysterious?
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:23
I am not going to comment on the advert but I would like to say that I took my maid to a buffet at Atlantis and paid full price for her to eat and drink (soft drinks). She went up to the buffet once and all she ate was fruit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I kept telling her to go up and eat some seafood or something, but she just wasn't interested. It was such a waste of money....:\:
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 14:01
Yes at least they get an offer to have a buffet for 100 Dhs, sounds fair enough. I have witnessed quite a few local families at buffets that let their maids dig in to the same food as they do, which of course is very nice. Last time I went to IKEA I saw an European lady dining in the restaurant with her two children. She took an empty plate for the maid and she and the children gave a little bit each from their meals to the maid’s plate. That really looked like feeding the dog. I mean how much is a meal at IKEA?
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:51
no comment.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:49
seriously, kids buffet... Yeah, kids buffet. They're maids! If I was a hostess or otherwise working at an event, would you expect me to plop down beside you and dig in? No. If you are working, as a maid or otherwise, it is more appropriate to not eat or eat with the kids.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:48
How many times have we seen maids hanging aroung restaurants looking after the kids whilst the parents and kids eat and they get nothing? I remember some posters awhile ago stating that a lot of maids feel embarrassed eating in public, with the family etc. I think this is a fair compromise at a nominal charge, you get your helper in to do their job and they have the opportunity to eat if they wish to do so. Or why not give your helper the day off and look after your little ones yourselves?
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:39
seriously, kids buffet...
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:39
I don't see what the problem is. If you must take your maid with you, then you should at least pay something for her. Why should she be free? She is there to work and I assume you would actually allow her to eat, so therefore something should be charged. Me either. I think its a good thing. I wouldn't bring my maid if I had to pay full cost for her (like at the xmas buffets) but I wouldn't want her not to eat.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:39
At least they are ensuring the maids will have food. While their sponsors get hammered then drive home. <em>edited by troublebubble on 07/03/2011</em>
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:38
seems someone found another way to make money.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:36
I don't see what the problem is. If you must take your maid with you, then you should at least pay something for her. Why should she be free? She is there to work and I assume you would actually allow her to eat, so therefore something should be charged.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:34
I think 300 AED for a non alcolholic buffet plus full day and evening entertainment is actually quite good value for money! I'm looking forward to it anyway :) <em>edited by Redlesley on 07/03/2011</em>
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:32
Well I suppose it gives clarity and prevents problems on the day. It is what it is. As for the prices, cashing in!
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EW GURU
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 13:31
The usual is that if you bring the maid you pay full price normal entrance, meaning she is a guest like everyone else. If you don't want to pay for that, you don't bring her at all. The below seems very colonial, doesn't it? But she wouldn't be there as a guest would she? If I wanted to take my helper as my guest then fine but I then wouldn't expect her to look after my children. The majority of people who [i'>would[/i'> take a helper would do so to look after the children (and let's face it, we all see plenty of people who take their helpers everywhere)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:31
The usual is that if you bring the maid you pay full price normal entrance, meaning she is a guest like everyone else. If you don't want to pay for that, you don't bring her at all. The below seems very colonial, doesn't it?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:20
[b'>This is the rest of the advert:[/b'> [i'>We’ve got a full day and evening of entertainment planned to mark one of the most exciting events our nation has experienced in years – a very British Royal Wedding! Our traditional British street-party-themed spectacular celebrates the Best of British. Start the day off by celebrating in true British style. Watch Wills and Kate get hitched on the big screen whilst enjoying a lavish all-you-can-eat buffet packed with British culinary delights. We’ll also have a British market where you can shop for exclusive wedding memorabilia as well as a range of lovely British products, with lots of fun activities and entertainers from Double Decker on hand to keep the kids happy. Then kick back and relax for the rest of the afternoon while you watch the polo, undoubtedly one of the world’s most elite and exciting sports. Often referred to as the ‘Sport of Kings’ and certainly a favourite of our own Royal princes, it’s the perfect way to while away a few hours on this most royal of occasions. Finish off truly memorable day with a night of dancing to the best British music from the past 50 years. We’ve got something for everyone with a musical mash-up of everything from Britpop, Glam Rock, Disco, Indie and Madchester to the top dance, pop and rock hits from the 00’s. Rule Britannia![/i'> [b'>What about if I want to bring my butler? Any special price for him?[/b'>
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EW GURU
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:19
I think it's a great idea - I won't be taking my helper but for those that would then they get food. Children's buffets over here are usually more than just a few crisps anyway!
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:14
Why is it wrong? They are there as domestic help.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:12
Wrong It's all over Twitter, following this ad: A very British Royal Wedding Garden Party Date : April 29, 2011 Dubai Polo & Equestrian Club Cost: AED 450 per person including buffet and unlimited house drinks AED 300 per person including buffet and unlimited soft drinks AED 100 per child aged 6-12 Free for children under six years old [u'>Entry for maids is AED 100 (including children’s buffet and non-alcoholic drinks) when accompanying their sponsor family, or free entry without refreshments[/u'> If that is not reinforcing the stereotype.......
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EW GURU
Latest post on 07 March 2011 - 12:07
I would have assumed that the maids that accompany families are there to help with the kids anyway and perhaps it's in a seperate area making it easier for them to use the different buffet area? At least they're "letting" maids eat! I can imagine on many occasions that maids aren't provided with food at all!
 
 

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