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You hear about maids and DH's but does it really happen?

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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:30
I don't think i can approach the DH, the whole thing could go into WWW3 and then i woulnd't be able to support my friend who is having a tough enough time of it as it is with him. And if it's wrong and there's nothing going on you're highly likely to lose a friend over it if you intervene. I'd say to stay well clear.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:28
I worked as a therapist and many women came to me suffering from this infidelity so I think I have a bit more background with this subject. LOL @ wikkid at 22 ?? Exactly what I was about to write.....plenty of life experiences and knowledge packed into 22 years :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:28
I don't think i can approach the DH, the whole thing could go into WWW3 and then i wouldn't be able to support my friend who is having a tough enough time of it as it is with him. <em>edited by LovinDubai on 11/01/2011</em>
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:27
I worked as a therapist and many women came to me suffering from this infidelity so I think I have a bit more background with this subject. LOL @ wikkid at 22 ??
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:26
It does happen, but that doesn't mean its happening or not happening with your friend, does it? A few people tried to suggest to me that my ex and maid were too close. I had to be polite and not give details, but only I knew that ex and I were long seperated (in the same home) and not only was he a closet gay, but then impotent too!!! :\: So what appears on the outside can be deceiving, I would often let the maid go grocery shopping with him etc, hence the reason for suspicions
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:26
LMAO wikkid, have to say never heard the word "boffing" before!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:26
I worked as a therapist and many women came to me suffering from this infidelity so I think I have a bit more background with this subject. LOL @ wikkid
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:26
OH it happens sweety, it happens much more than it doesn't happen! I have a friend of mine who caught her DH in action with the maid and it is disgusting! That means that over 50% of husbands in a household employing a maid are boffing said maid. Erm... I don't think so. "Erm" and how would you know?? LD DO NOT CONFRONT THE MAID! confront the husband! Trust me! They are very sneaky some of them and you can't trust them so have a small word with the DH AB you seem very worldly for someone of 22 years???????
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:25
Mine would have to be joining the mile high club as he's currently mid flight to Bahrain :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:24
Because I'm pretty certain that 50% of men I know are not shagging their maids. Maybe it depends on the company you keep. LOL SD, going on the quoted statistics then, either your DH or mine is boffing the maid... Mine's in Oman and the maid is here with me, so better you go get your rolling pin out :D
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:23
OH it happens sweety, it happens much more than it doesn't happen! I have a friend of mine who caught her DH in action with the maid and it is disgusting! That means that over 50% of husbands in a household employing a maid are boffing said maid. Erm... I don't think so. [b'>"Erm" and how would you know??[/b'>LD DO NOT CONFRONT THE MAID! confront the husband! Trust me! They are very sneaky some of them and you can't trust them so have a small word with the DH LMAO !!! - and how do YOU ???
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:23
Id be really careful about this, and agree, if youre going to confront anyone, confront the not-so-D DH.... What happens if the maid goes to the Police and says the DH raped her...
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:22
Because I'm pretty certain that 50% of men I know are not shagging their maids. Maybe it depends on the company you keep.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:20
OH it happens sweety, it happens much more than it doesn't happen! I have a friend of mine who caught her DH in action with the maid and it is disgusting! That means that over 50% of husbands in a household employing a maid are boffing said maid. Erm... I don't think so. "Erm" and how would you know?? LD DO NOT CONFRONT THE MAID! confront the husband! Trust me! They are very sneaky some of them and you can't trust them so have a small word with the DH
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:19
So now i want to face the maid and ask her privately if it is true but fear it could all blow up, it would hurt my friend so much if she ever found out that it is a rumour let alone true. I hate this. I\d imagine there's zero chance of the maid admitting it, even if it's true - she'd know she'd be in deep sh!t if she admitted it. Have you seen any kind of interaction between the man and the maid?
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:15
OH it happens sweety, it happens much more than it doesn't happen! I have a friend of mine who caught her DH in action with the maid and it is disgusting! That means that over 50% of husbands in a household employing a maid are boffing said maid. Erm... I don't think so.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:15
So now i want to face the maid and ask her privately if it is true but fear it could all blow up, it would hurt my friend so much if she ever found out that it is a rumour let alone true. I hate this.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:14
OH it happens sweety, it happens much more than it doesn't happen! I have a friend of mine who caught her DH in action with the maid and it is disgusting!
 
 

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