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Baby not latching :-(

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 05:30

Baby no 2 not latching on to breast since delivery,and no milk
Coming in either.is this normal? With baby 1 it was easier n started pretty quick on its own n dd latched
On well.its been 17 hours since I delivered via csec.nurses giving formula for time being but
I wanna ebf as soon as milk comes in.i took the baby thrice to the breast
And tried for half hr each time but no luck.even tried nips shield.any
Suggestions what to do?:-(

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 19:42
I had my DD 3 yrs ago in Welcare and the BF support was terrible. I had bf my son until 18 months and got through the painful times and i KNEW something wasn't right but the explanation I was given about my concern was, sorry to say, utter bo***x. I ended up seeing Dru a certified lactation consultant at healthbay polyclinic who was AMAZING. Please, if you can I would highly recommend you find a certified lactation consultant. They are worth their weight in gold. If nothing else they can reassure and this leads to a more relaxed mummy which can help with your milk too. I ended up bf DD till 2 yrs old and would have struggled had it not been for Dru. also this website help A LOT: www.kellymom.com wishing you lots of love, and milk! xxx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 17:10
Sorry to hear about your troubles Snoopy. In antenatal class at welcare, the head midwife Amanda did stress to talk to her immediately if there were any problems of this nature (i.e. the staff not helping or supporting BFing), so I might try and speak with her; however, I think she is out of town at the moment (not sure though) but there is another South African midwife in charge during her absence -- she may be your best bet right now. Hope everything improves and works out!!!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 16:32
Thanks ladies.hes latching on better but still no milk yet:-( will be patient n wait. Having a little tough time with the staff here though.not answering to my ring when I call them,refusing to give a bath to the baby or change diapers saying now I should do it myself?!? Etc etc. With my first I had no such issues ,am very disappointed in welcare this time. Nurses in a rush,not really bothered and only 1-2 actually help with the bf.very upset with the service.is this normal in other hospitals too?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 07 February 2012 - 14:23
Hi, as a soon-to-be first-time-mum, I have had my worries about breastfeeding. Hope you're doing ok now, Snoopy. I know you've done this before successfully but here is a handy link to show exactly how little babies do need in the first hours for anyone who is concerned. http://www.babycentre.co.uk/baby/breastfeeding/firstfewdays/ HTH xxx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 22:46
I agree with the others just keep putting baby to your breast and lots of skin to skin. The baby needs to learn how to suckle and won't have to if being offered out of a bottle and teat. In uk I was always told by midwives that your milk does not come in until day 3 - 4 (u get engorged then like Jordan). The first few days you produce colostrum and this is sufficient to feed baby. It annoyed me in city that the midwife on the nightshift kept saying to me that I wasn't producing milk and that my baby needed a supplement of formula as her blood sugar was dropping. I asked her to explain the ranges and when it would be absolutely necessary and at one stage it did come to giving some preterm formula but I insisted this was given out of a cup to eliminate nipple confusion. Just relax and see if you can get some assistance with feeding, trying putting the nipple in babies mouth with your spare hand to give some assistance. I had to do this at the start so that she learned to get a good mouthful. Even though you did it before it is still a learning curve for both of you. Trust yourself xxxxxx
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EW MASTER
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 15:31
Your baby may have no desire to latch on if the nurses are feeding it formula. Maybe you should tell them to stop giving your baby formula ASAP. This could sabotage breast-feeding.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 15:28
you will have colostrum only at this stage and your milk might nor come in until up to 72 hours after birth, your baby can survive purely on the few drops of colostrum they get each feed until then. I wouldn't try and pump colostrum, it is only drops but you might be able to hand express some (get an LC to assist). keep putting your baby to your breast every 2 hours, keep her with you(not in the nursery) and let her lie on your chest to sleep so that if she ever does feel like nursing you are right there. most importantly get a good LC straight away!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 11:26
Snoopy, I was also stressed with baby number one and my milk didnt come for a bit, I think couple of days. Once I got home and relaxed it was all good. I used the nipple shields, but my midwife kept assuring me that so long there was colostrum it is fine - teaspoon full is all baby needs for first few days, every couple of hours. Dont let the staff stress you and good luck!
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 06 February 2012 - 08:11
hi snoopy...try not to stress. Which hospital are you in? Can you ask to see a lactation consultant or even see if you can call one in to visit you? If you search on here there is alot of info on lactation consultants, I can personally recommend Paula Miller at Cooper Health Clinic. Have you tried lots of skin to skin contact? Perhaps the staff could help you try and use a pump to get things going with your colostrum to give this to baby instead of formula? There would only be colostrum at this stage anyway which is only very small amounts. Am sure many more ladies will jump on here shortly to offer more advice. Keep perservering and lots and lots of cuddles and skin to skin. HTH
 
 

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