When I found out I was pregnant with DD it was when I was traveling for business. DH and I met up in London for a weekend and went out for a nice dinner. We ordered champaign and I made the toast "to my last sip of wine for 9 months".
For family we did a similar thing with the scan. We gave the scan to my nephew (7 yo) and asked him to ask grandma what it was. It took her a lot longer to clue in than we thought it would!
For DS, we emailed a picture of DD with a "big sis" tshirt surrounded by dummies and bottles and blankies.
Whatever way you do it is very fun.
What I did: for the family; it was Christmas time and so I made Christmas cards showing at the front a Santa carrying a heavy bag and it read: what is Santa bringing this year? and inside it was a copy of the scan. (I gave them the card in person, they love it: not only they "were told" but they also kept the first scan as a souvenir...)
of course, it is not Christmas now, so a bit trickier with the whole santa thing, but you could try a similar idea if you like it...
for my husband: my personal experience was a bit rubbish, i thought there was something wrong with me (i.e. I could not be pregnant!), we bought the test just in case... when it was positive, i just said: "i think i might be.." next time i think i will try the tantrum! ;)
Mornin. I have no help when it comes to hubby. he just had to see my face and he knew...sucka! But when it comes to fam, I am the only one here, so I am announcing in an email with the subject: "so when is this morning sickness supposed to end???" something like that. I am also africna american, so an old wives tale is that someone in the family will dream of fish when someone is preggers. I would say: "so did anyone dream of fishes recently?". it automatically means I'm preggers!
I like the tantrum idea too! :D
I told DH that we were going to have to stop having ***. I get pregnant really easily, you see, and DS was a complete [happy'> accident WAY ahead of schedule!
anyone know of any creative and good ideas to break the news to husband or family when expecting their second child...not pregnant but just planning ahead :)