There is never a right time! Our first was a surprise and our second planned. Both are emotionally (and financially) draining.
BUT, the best thing that has ever happened to us;)
Ladies need advise, reaching close to a personal set age limit on having sproggers. Though have never been keen on kids . Hubby and I are indifferent to if we have them or not but since we are a mixed race couple are curious , plus being preggers will take me off the workforce for some time I reckon.
So I need some advice from those experienced and those that can just help. What are the pros and cons of having kids? Mentally what should we be prepared to expect? or anything in general i guess:D:cool:
If you need to write lists, then forget it.
DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN, they will demolish your body, drain your funds and screw you head in.
I concur with VP.
Ladies need advise, reaching close to a personal set age limit on having sproggers. Though have never been keen on kids . Hubby and I are indifferent to if we have them or not but since we are a mixed race couple are curious , plus being preggers will take me off the workforce for some time I reckon.
So I need some advice from those experienced and those that can just help. What are the pros and cons of having kids? Mentally what should we be prepared to expect? or anything in general i guess:D:cool:
If you need to write lists, then forget it.
DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN, they will demolish your body, drain your funds and screw you head in.