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Need help with potty training!

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 19:04
I've got a portable potty that I use/d as an adaptor on an adult loo... but then again, we moved to adult loos very quickly during potty training because the potty was way too accessible for DS. DD has never had a problem with any adult loo. If I don't have an adaptor available, I just support her under her arms and she's fine with that. When going out, I'd get her to go just before leaving and then again about 2 hours in to the trip, or before sitting down for lunch or starting a big shop. You're probably aware of your daughter's routine and how long she can last between trips. Just time things well, but pre-empt it rather than running to find the nearest loo like a mad thing with a dripping toddler under your arm! Been there, done that. VERY envious of your "dry at night" thing. DD's journey to dryness has been long and difficult and she still hasn't really cracked nights... 10 months in to training and she's still doing 6/7 nights at best, with a trip to the loo at 22h30!
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 12:48
My advice is not for the night as she naturally stopped going in the night (we used that cue to start potty training in the first place). However once we started potty training, for her nap time we went cold turkey and put her in underwear w/ a waterproof mattress topper. The first couple of times were a NIGHTMARE when she would wake up after having wet herself (think non-stop yelling/crying for 1/2 hour), but it only took a couple of days before she stopped wetting her bed. I won't lie, it was rough and almost broke me! It might be that she is used to peeing in her diaper during the night, so it's just routine for her. If she now pees in her underwear, it'll be uncomfortable and she might not want to do it anymore. I would definitely take her to the bathroom before sleep as well as cutting out any liquids about 1/2 hour before bed. I found that for DD she wet the bed if she fell asleep soon after her afternoon milk...but if I was able to squeeze in toilet time before naptime, then we were good. Start by halving her evening drink and slowly phasing it out...
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EW GURU
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 12:38
I am in the midst of potty training my 3 year old daughter, and I am not sure if its going well. She relieved herself on the potty several times and was duly rewarded, clapping and so forth and I assumed her bladder was empty. At her bedtime I put on a diaper for the night (we are in the beginning stages - shame! and so she wears underwear during the day and a diaper at night which I plan to slowly phase out). When I put the diaper on within half an hour it was completely soaked. She had obviously been holding it in. I am worried about the chance of her picking up some kind of infection if she continues to hold it in like this. She is obviously not relaxed enough to let go and completely relieve herself on the potty, and I may have left potty training too late. What now ladies?? Snap! MY DD is also 3 and doing the same. As soon as the knickers goes on she holds it in! fustrating.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 10:02
I used to do the whole "push the wee/poo out" thing. Also, do you get her to go for a wee just before bed? It'd be helpful to do so, even if she's then in nappies. My daughter always seems to want to get up as soon as she's finished, or even not quite when she's finished. If you think this is the case, try and distract her near the end so that she stays sitting for a little bit longer - not like sitting there for 5 minutes, but maybe a "wait! Now for the loo paper... Is all the wee-wee out? Let's wipe your bottom then"
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 09:50
How long have you been trying for? I think you are doing a great job. i am pretty sure that she cant get any infections from holding it, and you would know if it was serious and she was holding it as she would be winging and crying in pain or just plain wet herself. Was she asleep when she soaked the nappy? If so thats normal as she is completly relaxed and the ability to hold for long periods of time have to be developed. Maybe encourage her to sit on the potty for longer. Or i use to ask are all the wee wee's gone, try and push more out ect. Then she may realise there is more to come. Best of luck. Xx
 
 

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