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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:15

I find i am the one doing all the contacting of my friends to arrange play dates with my son coffee etc. Do i need new friends or will my freinds see fit to change in the new year and act like real friends. i can text them and they take ages to contact me. i would have thought that in a place like this we need company and real freinds.
Any one else have his problem?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 19:28
Yes it's pretty strange here. Even if you organize a playdate, some just don't show up or having pretty funny excuses for not coming. Unfortunately the ones that weren't like this already left the country.. Hello new ones I would say...
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 14:56
I find i am the one doing all the contacting of my friends to arrange play dates with my son coffee etc. Do i need new friends or will my freinds see fit to change in the new year and act like real friends. i can text them and they take ages to contact me. i would have thought that in a place like this we need company and real freinds. Any one else have his problem? Yes, I find this, so I do an experiment and don't contact anyone and no one contacts me! I find it so weird out here for friends, I had loads of friends back home so I know it's not me. I think it's just the way it works here! I know a lot of people but some days I wonder if I have any 'real friends'. Terribly sad situation and one of the reasons I definitely don't want to stay here, it's so lonely.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 14:07
Also it gets difficult when you have more than one child to fit in all the playdates, parties and outings. Some people don't make the effort but others are genuinely busy - you'll know the difference in your heart.
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:50
I find i am the one doing all the contacting of my friends to arrange play dates with my son coffee etc. Do i need new friends or will my freinds see fit to change in the new year and act like real friends. i can text them and they take ages to contact me. i would have thought that in a place like this we need company and real freinds. Any one else have his problem? Maybe they just dont have the time or the inclination to put into socialising that you do. Thats not a dig by the way its just a fact - you can be really good friends with people and not have to see a lot of them. Quaility over the quantity of time spent together is what Im saying.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:44
I'm afraid dubai is full of fair weather friends...as I have experienced sevaral times. If you find a couple of good ones hold on to them!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:40
One way friendships have an "expiry date"...... SH
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:39
Minus the childre, I'm always the organiser in my group of friends. Sadly once you start doing it, people expect you to carry on doing it until you force them to take responsibility for things.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:37
This is one of my NY's resolutions.......making time for me and the people that do the same........clearing out the "cupboard" so to speak! SH
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EW GURU
Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 09:31
I find i am the one doing all the contacting of my friends to arrange play dates with my son coffee etc. Do i need new friends or will my freinds see fit to change in the new year and act like real friends. i can text them and they take ages to contact me. i would have thought that in a place like this we need company and real freinds. Any one else have his problem? These are the type of friends I stopped contacting. I figured why should I be the one constantly making the arrangements. How old is your son?
 
 

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