Were you not in the same situation before coming to Dubai or are you here via a different route? The most daunting of prospects can turn into the most thrilling and enriching life experiences. Don't miss an opportuntiy and don't ever look back and think "I wish....." Good luck!
jane30, I am in Dubai because of my DHs job. We have just moved here a fortnight ago from the UK. I have given up my work, sold my car, left family/friends/beloved dog behind to come to a country i had never even so much as contemplated holidaying in! I always said I'd never move to the ME and here i am.
My DH came home from work one day in October and said he had been offered a job, 3 weeks later we were married, a month later we were in Dubai.... I am also 7 months pregnant (just to add to the whole experience).
My advice, go on holiday to the country first to get some sort of idea. Carefully think about what it is you are giving up.. work? friends? family? pets? independance? and weigh it up against the new job offer....
For the record, if i'd have had time to come for a holiday here before having to make a decision about uprooting, I wouldnt have moved....
What is it about Dubai that you don't like if you don't mind me asking
jane30, I am in Dubai because of my DHs job. We have just moved here a fortnight ago from the UK. I have given up my work, sold my car, left family/friends/beloved dog behind to come to a country i had never even so much as contemplated holidaying in! I always said I'd never move to the ME and here i am.
My DH came home from work one day in October and said he had been offered a job, 3 weeks later we were married, a month later we were in Dubai.... I am also 7 months pregnant (just to add to the whole experience).
My advice, go on holiday to the country first to get some sort of idea. Carefully think about what it is you are giving up.. work? friends? family? pets? independance? and weigh it up against the new job offer....
For the record, if i'd have had time to come for a holiday here before having to make a decision about uprooting, I wouldnt have moved....
When we moved here from Scotland I was not happy about it, I was giving up a very good career of my own, in support of DH.
5 years down the line I am working again and enjoy it here in Dubai.
If DH was to come home with another opportunity the only thing that would stop me from saying YES would depend on where the job is. We have agreed that Dubai will be our only Middle East stop... no where else so it would have to be America/Canada/UK/Europe/AUS etc but not Bahrain/Doha/Saudi etc.
My career is important to me, but I know I can find work wherever we go, and I like new opportunites to explore new places.
If you are happy to leave Dubai, then why not give it a go? Sometimes the unexpected can put a totally new slant on things and you might even enjoy your new destination. I certainly never expected to be in Dubai and can honestly say ithe move has brought us closer. Getting out of your normal routine shakes up the system and although daunting, adds a frission of excitement to your life as well! Go for it and make the most of it. Make new friends/acquaintances, sample new cultures. Life is too short for ifs or buts:)
Do you have a career of your own which would be affected by his job move? Or are you a married dependent? Do you have a family with him? Is his career dependent on this move to a different country (ie, with the same company and a step up the ladder, or with a new company?) and is your opinion going to be taken into account? Circumstances alter cases, as someone said (I can't remember where that quote comes from, it's going to annoy me all day now).
Well, I think you both have to be willing to move to the place. Unless you are in financial troubles and need to go to this country for the job. If not, then all feelings should be addressed.
You should definitely go visit the place before moving.
That said, I would just go and make the most of it. I spent 7 years in a place I couldn't pin-point on a map before moving there ! lol