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Gifts for midwives and Ob/Gyn after delivery

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 04 September 2013 - 21:03

What is the general 'form', so to speak, out here?
I had DS in the UK and gave the midwives who delivered him and the post-natal ward team cards and chocolates when we discharged from hospital as a small thank you.
Given it's not the NHS out here and we're technically paying for their services, is a gift OTT? Would a box of chocolates be appropriate? What is 'expected'? Not sure what the done thing is and don't want to cause offence one way or the other!
Advice and experiences would be appreciated! :)

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 21 September 2013 - 10:33
I left a card and 2 boxes of chocolates at the nurses station (1 for day staff and 1 for night staff). They were thrilled to bits and a group of nurses and the nurse manager came to my room to thank me and say how much they appreciated it
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 September 2013 - 23:53
Well yes u have paid them for their services... but as an appreciation for their kindness, you can have a decorated basket of chocolates and cupcakes in your room or one kept at the nursing station.. thats what i did.. I had one of the most complicated surgeries and ended up staying for more than a week at the hospital.. my doctor was really supportive the whole time and i gifted her a Marks & Spencer gift basket of body wash, perfume, lotions etc.. at first i was thiinking of gifting her gold or silver studs but then realised that ethically it would be very inappropriate to gift a very expensive item so if u really feel tht she deserves one, then give something that would not compromise with her work ethics.. And i gifted it to her on the follow up appointment after discharge in her clinic.. so that she doesn't need to carry it alllll the way out of the ward and feel awkward (just in case!) <em>edited by Sabahz on 08/09/2013</em>
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 05 September 2013 - 16:02
i've been thinking about this. after a high risk pregnancy, if my baby arrives safe and sound i would gladly hand over gold bars to my doctor (if i could afford them) as she has been a miracle worker. i'll probably sort a giant bouquet of flowers/boxes of chocolates, tears and a huge, huge hug :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 05 September 2013 - 11:42
I've never heard of giving gifts to the hospital staff, we didn't do it and I didn't feel like anything was expected.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 04 September 2013 - 22:44
I totally forgot about this, asked DH to pick something up on his way to the hospital to collect us...he arrived with a bag from Bateel which was well received when I handed it over. Have no idea what was in it though...
 
 

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