Be proud of yourself that you know what you are looking for in a partner, and not going for second best. I know so many women that settle for worse then second best because they don't want to be on their own. They are missing out on finding that special person.
Well at least you gave it a go :) And for all you know, if you went down this path again you might just end up with someone you'd go on to have a long and happy marriage with.
edited by DesertRose1958 on 29/03/2011
Maybe. Now I am willing to try it again :)
Well at least you gave it a go :) And for all you know, if you went down this path again you might just end up with someone you'd go on to have a long and happy marriage with.
<em>edited by DesertRose1958 on 29/03/2011</em>
Don't be too hard on yourself, its very difficult to meet someone in those circumstances. But I'm sure you came out stronger after this and you realize that your parents are on your side.
Hello ladies ,
Hope all of you are well. I have been very busy with work lately and had no time to come and say hello of follow on the treads .
I don't know if you remember my story about the suitor that I had to meet and my struggle with the whole idea of marrying someone I meet through family referral !!
Anyways I followed the advice that you ladies gave me and I met the guy last week , when I was in Iran for my brothers wedding. I met him over coffee at a relatives house and we sat and talked for two hours ( I did most of the talking) . he seemed like a very nice person , but we have no common interests . I love traveling and he hats it . I am messy and cant be organized , he is fussy and has obsessive cleaning problem. I love to go wild sometimes and just try new things , he seems like a man who is happy with his daily routine..... The list will go on and on and on .I don't want you to think that I would reject or accept dating a guy only based on his appearance , but this guy had no sense of style or fashion or matching colours.Not to go through details of his height and weight , I can only tell you that there was no chemistry at all.
Once the meeting was over , I told my parents what I thought about the guy and they accepted everything that I said and confirmed that it is a very wrong match.
Guess I am a drama queen sometimes and I make things look harder and more difficult than they really are.
Anyhow , I though I should share this with you and give you an update.