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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:05

Just a q is there many mixed race couples here in dubai?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 09:16
I'd say DH and myself had more stares and remarks back home then here, Totally agree, here we don't even realise we are mixed race, but when in the UK i am always asking DH what people are staring at then I realise it's us!!! :( My son is a skinny 6ft plus with ginger hair, his beautiful girlfriend is a beefy Ghanaian, I'm (slightly) taller and much older than my chubby DH so when we're all out together we seem to attract attention. In the UK as we entered a posh London restaurant my son was asked if he wanted a table for three, assuming we thought that girlfriend was not in our party. We were about to leave due to their racist attitudes, turns out it was me they hadn't included as I was thought too old to be with them!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 08:56
yes all the time. my OH is english but has very dark skin, most people think he is arabic. I am very english and very blonde... he gets the arabic menu all the time (he doesnt read arabic) and they ask him what i want for a drink etc... i think a lot of time they think he has just picked me up (i dont dress like that) it bothered me when we first moved here to the point that i dyed my hair dark brown but it doesnt bother me anymore- we just laugh...
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 08:46
A couple of years ago, while I was playing with DD at the playground, a mother asked me if I am looking for a new job as she need a maid. Taxi drivers ask me all the time if DD is my daughter and when i say yes, ask me where DH is from.....and then....ohhh...that's why!!!
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 08:06
I'd say DH and myself had more stares and remarks back home then here, one night when we were out with a big group of friends one particular female who knew one of our friends tried to join in a conversation and didn't realise who my hubby was and made a big mistake in making a nasty racial remark against him, saying I saw red would be a understatement,in the end she was thrown out of the pub and barred, no problems here though.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 08:06
One of my girlfriends often jokes about being the lady of the house and taking the 'gardener' out for the day.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 03:07
LOL! I've had maintenance boys rung the door bell only to be greeted as " Is Sir in? Madam in??" When I replied that I am the Mrs, the look they gave me was like "Is she for real??" People there are so shallow and I pity them. I don't need to be drapping in jewelry nor wearing designer clothes to show them that I am the lady the of the house!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 02:10
I think sometimes people think my husband might have married his maid too!! LOOL I was out with my husband's niece and a local lady asked her "is your mother filipino?" And she said, "no, she is my aunt and she is American" and the lady looked all suspicious that she was lying LOOL but once... some guy rang our door so I answered and the guy goes, "oh, are you the maid?" and I said "no" and he said, "oh, you must be their friend" --like I am a maid from another house visiting the housemaids !!!!! he needed my husband for something and I said, "just give me your mobile number and I will let my husband know to call you." and his eyes got all big LOOL
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 00:41
Corkshelly, I too got the 'have you seen Not without my Daughter?' comment all the time. It used to drive me insane! Now we get a chuckle from it...
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 19:49
In our local park, there are two twin girls - one looks black and the other white. But I stare because they are noth so beautiful and so sweet together ... I'd probably have to explain myself if I ever saw their mother!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 19:28
lol my hubby can barely cope with having a wife never mind a bit on the side lol... Oh and when I told my family and friends I was with a Muslim if I had a pound for everyone who said OMG have u seen the film not without my children lol
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EW GURU
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 19:14
after baby no.2 was born my Mom&Dad suggested that we go out for dinner, just the 2 of us and they would stay with the babies. Anyway, we were shattered and just sat at the table in silence, and then the waitress asked him what his lady friend would like to drink....LOOOOL....it looked like he had just picked me up. He told her she could ask his wife herself...yahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh chin drop
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EW OLDHAND
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 18:58
Oh yeeeah happens all the time. When I refer to 'my husband' in shops, the clerks often do a double take and say "oh, you're married????!" and look incredulous. Just laugh it off, not worth bothering about. People especially give us weird looks when DH is in a kandoura...I guess they assume I'm a bit on the side...he wishes! :)
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EW GURU
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 18:38
Yep.. Ignore the ignorance.
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:41
Its such a common thing here to see "Mixed Raced " families, I wouldnt think anything of it to be honest. I had a friend here and she was always looked down upon as they thought she was the maid, it so peeved her off, a rightly soo too!!!!!!!!!! Having mixed families is no different to the UK, my DH family has an allsorted family, am very proud to be apart off aswell.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:36
I saw a couple in MCC this week, white as could be...carting around two babies, dark as could be. And I admit I stared for a couple seconds...then I smiled.
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:32
GOOD FOR YOU! That is appalling! A similar thing happened to my Italian friend with a Trinidadian husband. She was alone with their baby and someone asked her, "is he YOUR baby?" in an incredulous tone. Some people have such nerve!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:28
i think u have to laugh it off cos I used to get upset about it but realised its their problem... Worst I got was one time in uk which is totally integrated was at a baby group with my two kids and one child has darker complexion than other and this cow came up to me and asked did they have the same father..... My jaw dropped cos had never even spoke to woman and said Emmm not sure cos I dont know who their fathers are was worth it to see her jaw drop and she couldnt get away fast enough;)
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:23
Ah, a lot of people don't understand "manners" here. I think "staring" is normal. I find it extremely rude, but even if you gave a HINT to someone to stop, they wouldn't understand why, 'cause it's not rude to them, clearly! MY DH and I get funny looks all the time - he's in Gulf Arab gear and I am in extremely conservative Western gear. That alone, apparently, is worth a head turn and a jaw drop.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:22
lol i tell hubby they must think hes my man slave!!!!! mmmm not too sure what backgroundsu r on about cos am a newbie here but sure I will figure it out
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:19
We get the looks like: "How come sir is holding the diaper bag instead of the maid?" (pause) "Oh...that's not the maid.":cool: To answer your question, there are plenty of multi-cultural families here...but I think that families of certain racial backgrounds may get double takes more often than others (if you know what I mean) ;).
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:19
u know the look twice and then the second glance when we walk past!!!and then the look at the kids !!!
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:16
What makes you think you get strange looks?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:15
was just curious cos always get strange looks when out with hubby!!Damn must mean my hair is worse than i thought thats why the looks lol
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EW GURU
Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 17:13
Yes. Loads and loads.
 
 

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