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For how long would you sent your toddler to his grand-parents?

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 20 June 2013 - 09:40
At that age I would do a week at the very most. Feels a lot longer to them than it does to us. Plus I would miss dd terribly after only a couple of days...never mind weeks!
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 20 June 2013 - 08:16
I wouldn't leave my 3 year old for more than a couple of days, unless it was an emergency situation. 3 weeks is a long time for a toddler to be away from their parents. Obviously depends on the individual child and family dynamic but it's not something I would personally feel comfortable doing.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 19 June 2013 - 09:44
since my DD was a toddler she used to spend her summers with grandparents. And am planning to do the same once my 3 month DS is of age too!Grandparents wait for the quality time too...
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 15:11
Both my husband and his sister would go for the summer to their grandparents when they were kids and they had a brilliant time in terms of playing, learning and i think its the best sort of life experience to go stay in another country with family. Your son will probably appreciate the nicer climate, there will be constant attention for him and he will learn a new culture...this is sometimes so necessary when living in a more sheltered place like Dubai. I am pregnant at the moment, but I know I would send my child over the summer to stay with one or both sets of grandparents and hopefully join him for a part of it. :)
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 June 2013 - 18:57
In our family 2 months :) But then my brothers and I used to spend extended periods of time with our grandparents, and my parents always looked after my kids alot before we moved.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 June 2013 - 14:18
it all depends on you and your husband and how long you are happy for him to stay? when i was younger my brother and i would stay with my grandparent for a 1 week 3 or 4 time throughout the year. depends on what you and your husband are happy with.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 09 June 2013 - 14:16
Hi, My husband and I are both working and due to heavy work schedules we are limited in the amount of vacation we are able to take this summer. We have a 2,5-year old toddler and we were thinking about sending him to his grand-parents to sweeten his summer and also learn French as it is his mother-tongue (literally!). My husband is adamant that he should not be left more than 2 weeks without us, I am more flexible and think that 3 weeks should not be too hard. What do you think? What is your experience? I should add that the grandparents are fit, healthy, looking forward to any arrangements and know our toddler very well as they are living in Abu Dhabi during the year. Thanks in advance!
 
 

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