Guide

Dubai Nightlife: The Best Bars for Women in 2026

The Best Dining Offers in Dubai: Chic Restaurants, Lounges, Beach Clubs and Girls Nights

Sink Into Serenity: Inside Dubai’s Most Luxurious Sand Bath Experience at Cinq Mondes Spa

The Case for Music: Why Dubai’s Expat Mums Are Choosing Aureus

Dubai Polo Gold Cup Series - An Experience They Keep Coming Back To

Top 10 Most Affordable Budget Airlines in the UAE For Your Next Trip

Outdoor Movie Nights Return to JLT Dubai: Cinema Under the Stars Is Back for the Winter Season

Dubai Expat Resident Receives Commemorate Passport Stamp After 60 Years

Dubai Just Launched a Travel Influencer Academy

Classifieds

Jobs

How to Get a UAE Influencer License: Step-By-Step Guide & Requirements

Dubai Announces Pilot Launch of 4-Day Work Week For Employees

UAE Job Loss Insurance Claim Rejected? Here's Why It Could Happen

How to Claim UAE Job Loss Insurance: Eligibility and Step-by-Step Guide

Dubai Ranked Among Top 5 Cities in the World to Work In

Can I Get Fired in the UAE For My Mental Health Condition?

Dubai Dedicates AED 150 Million Government Support Fund For Influencers

How to Deal With Workplace Harassment in the UAE

The UAE's New End-of-Service Programme, Explained for Residents

Events

Don’t Miss It: DAZ Festival 2026 is the Ultimate Family Day Out This April

Dubai Polo Gold Cup Series - An Experience They Keep Coming Back To

Wicked Makes Its Middle East Debut at Dubai Opera and It's Unmissable

Outdoor Movie Nights Return to JLT Dubai: Cinema Under the Stars Is Back for the Winter Season

Real Madrid World is Celebrating World Football Day With AED 199 Tickets

List of UAE Public Holidays in 2025: Announced and Expected Dates

Win Cash Prizes Up to AED 300 For Every Kilo Lost With UAE's Weight Loss Challenge

Eid Al Fitr 2025 in the UAE: When is the Long Weekend?

Ramadan 2025 in Dubai: List of Ramadan Markets to Explore

Education

The Case for Music: Why Dubai’s Expat Mums Are Choosing Aureus

AL JABR EFI Opens Its French Nursery and Kindergarten in Dubai

Why Expat Families in the UAE Are Choosing Online School Over Traditional Classrooms

Dubai Private School Hosts Rare Art Exhibition: "Royal Lineage Across a Thousand Years of History"

The Education Plan Every Expat Parent Wishes They’d Started Sooner

Art, Culture, and Inspiration Come Alive: A One-of-a-Kind Celebration at BC Academy

Getting Kids to Cooperate Without Punishment or Rewards - Aware Parenting with Eva from Kisari.Kids

Back-to-School, Reimagined: How UAE Families Are Choosing a Smarter Start to the School Year

Embark on a Summer Adventure at Kids First Group Universe!

Money

Divorce in Dubai Explained: A 2026 Guide to UAE Family Law, Custody and Your Rights

The Legal Framework of Real Estate in Dubai

Marital Breakdown & Divorce: A Guide for Expat Mums Living in Dubai and Across the UAE

The Education Plan Every Expat Parent Wishes They’d Started Sooner

How to Pay UAE Fines in Instalments Using Tabby

Hidden Costs of Expat Life in Dubai (and How to Outsmart Them)

UAE Unveils New Official Dirham Symbol, Inspired By the Country's Flag

6 Financial Resolutions to Make for the New Year

Meet Dr. Hassan Elhais: A Pillar of Legal Expertise for Expats in the UAE

Home

The Legal Framework of Real Estate in Dubai

Getting Kids to Cooperate Without Punishment or Rewards - Aware Parenting with Eva from Kisari.Kids

Are "Own Visa" and Freelancer Visa Domestic Workers Legal in the UAE?

Hiring a Maid in the UAE: 5 Legal Red Flags

Ask a UAE Flower Shop: Your Most Common Questions, Answered

FYI Dubai is Banning All Single Use Bags From June 1

Carrefour's 'Choose Better' Programme is Here to Reward Healthier Choices With 10x the Points

Are UAE Domestic Helpers Allowed to Work on a Trial Period and Hired After?

Pet Breeding in the UAE: Is it Allowed and Where to Find Legal Pet Breeders

Car

How to Convert a Non-UAE Driving License in Dubai: A Complete Guide

Booking Taxis in Dubai: How to Hail a Taxi Through WhatsApp

What Are the Requirements For a Car Loan in Dubai?

Dubai Public Commute Timings & Road Closures for New Year's Eve

UAE Petrol Prices Will Increase in August 2024

Head's Up! Dubai Taxi Fares Will Increase in May 2024

UAE Announces New Fuel Prices For May 2024

Missing UAE License Plates: How to Report a Lost Plate or Reclaim Yours

Authorities to Waive All Dubai Traffic Fines Incurred on April 16

Wellness

Managing Anxiety During Uncertain Times: Practical Strategies to Stay Mentally Strong

Top Tips to Have a Healthy Heart in the UAE

9 Warning Signs for Breast Cancer

Where to Get Free Breast Cancer Screening in the UAE 2025

Win Cash Prizes Up to AED 300 For Every Kilo Lost With UAE's Weight Loss Challenge

Discover "The New You" at Zieda's Aesthetic Clinic in Dubai

Top Ladies-Only Gyms and Fitness Centres in Dubai

Say Goodbye to Wrinkles With Mediclinic's Botox Mondays Offer

Get Expert Healthcare and Wellness Delivered to Your Doorstep in Dubai Within 30 Minutes

Shop

Shopping In Dubai

Best Online Shopping Sites in Dubai and UAE

An A-Z Guide to Dubai's Popular Malls

What To Wear At The Beach In Dubai

14 Hilarious Realities of Visiting Dubai Mall

Every Day is a Discount Day on THIS Deals Site

Cityland Mall Preview: Dubai's New Nature-Inspired Shopping Mall

EWmums

EWfood

ewmoda

do you get on ith your mother in law?

131

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 12:21

or am I the only one that dosent???
off to lie down...;-(

Log in to post new content in the forum.

654

Posts

EW GURU

Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 08:54

We get along reasonably well enough...as long as we don't talk about politics, which is quite hard as she's very liberal and was a political activist in her early days and a successful lawyer for a liberal law firm. In other words it's hard for her to keep her mouth shut, while I'm much more conservative. She is well mannered but I do know that in an ideal world her son would have married another liberal progressive, or at least another high achieving woman. But I'm happy to be a housewife and I have no desire to climb the career ladder (although I'll never let her forget that I scored higher on the SATs than DH did and had a higher college GPA). I'm sure she did initally view me as DH's rejection of her and what she stands for, which is ridiculous for DH loves her very much and wouldn't change a iota of her character. It's taken her a while to come to terms with me but there's now respect between the two of us, so we're well-behaved around each other. She does love her son and grandsons, which is the most important factor. <em>edited by Tallybalt on 14/03/2011</em>

173

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 08:36

I think MILs are also human ( ducking for cover) ... just like none of us is perfect ... they too can have flaws ... even its the same case with our own mums and friends ... so why should MIL's and DIL's and SIL's be any different mine has lots and lots of good qualities but at the same time there are things about her that drive me crazy ... and i know she too isnt very fond of me ... so the feeling is mutual ... but yeah to answer the question in the title ... yeah i can get on with her or may be i m too peaceloving and like to keep quiet instead of reply and face the heat

117

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 08:25

Yes probably better than my DH does but all the same I'm glad they are in the UK not here. MIL is hard work, - we've a theory that as she's got older she's regressed now behaves worse than a terrible two year old.... squabbles over everything or repeats herself endlessly rather than allowing silence even if everyone else is watching TV, swimming, eating etc then gets cross if we don't respond.

1170

Posts

EW OLDHAND

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 22:35

He jokingly says that he will always only ever one daughter in law and that is me! Aw!!! Not sure if ex DH's wife would like to hear that!!!! ;) *Like*

182

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 22:33

I put up with my ex MIL under duress and sufferance. God she was a nightmare! In fact she didn't and I think still doesn't get on with her own son, ie ex DH!!! But ex FIL (but not allowed to call him "ex") is of a different ilk altogether. See him every time I go back home and we speak regularly on the phone. He jokingly says that he will always only ever one daughter in law and that is me! Aw!!! Not sure if ex DH's wife would like to hear that!!!! ;)

1170

Posts

EW OLDHAND

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 22:30

when h*ll freezes over... on a second thought, no she is pure evil, when ever she have any chance, she have to prove that she is evil. c'mon I had just give birth of my last baby, he was only 3 days old, the whole family visiting my home, not a single help to me, had to serve every body, then she tells me front of every body: you didn't lose weight at all!! Then I gave her the answer she deserves: well last time you give birth was half a century ago, I guess you had forgotten about every thing relates to femininity... I guess since then I don't have in-law's visits.... Heaven!

394

Posts

EW EXPLORER

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 22:11

10 years of marriage and MIL has finally succeeded at bringing in differences between DH and me. She is on her fifth "don't talk to me" phases and this time I dont think I want to make up. Edited for terrible grammar; I must be really upset responding to this thread. <em>edited by Maple on 13/03/2011</em>

2725

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 21:45

My MIL remarried 6 months before our wedding, on her wedding day she tried to spill something personal to the wedding crowd, as I tried to shut her up I accidentally burnt her wedding dress with my cigarette. Well she should try and keep her mouth shut. The time we married in the June her marriage was over by the way!!!!!!!! the poor man escaped lightly. <em>edited by salsB on 13/03/2011</em>

Annabelle0921001

236

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 21:21

Yep, tell her it's nice your LO got some of her features from her side of the family :D. good one, but she has already said that my DD has her uncle's nose ( who is HER son) imagine!

253

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 21:18

I do, I get on better with mil & fil than my own parents. I'm lucky to have them and their unconditional support.

2937

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 21:05

After having twins, in a foreign country, no friends or family, she didn't call me for 2 weeks after the birth. Mine didn't call me at all after DS was born. Still didn't call me when she wanted to arrange a trip to my Mum's to meet him - she emailed DH and got him to ask me to ask my Mum if it was OK if she came. Then invited SIL without asking. And still didn't call me. And got SIL to email me to ask if I could pick them up from the airport.

2937

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 21:04

Yep, tell her it's nice your LO got some of her features from her side of the family :D.

Annabelle0921001

236

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:48

My MIL is barely bearable as long as she is on her meds, which include anti depressants and Xanax..last time i spoke to her, she commented on my DD's nose ( who is her first grandchild) and not in a good way of course..so imagine when she was not on her meds! oh yes she is a classical example of neuroticism edited by Annabelle09 on 13/03/2011 Mine commented on a little whiny noise DS makes when he's just exhausted. She said, "Oh, what a weird little noise that is! How strange! Why is he doing that weird thing?" Uh, because you insisted he be kept up late so people could see him, cow-features. haha good one, can you suggest what I should say the next time she mentions it! bear in mind she is literally crazy meaning she has no problem swearing at me ( most auwful words ever) and scream! she scares everyone:(((

laughing_sid6171

31

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:46

My Mo in law referred to me as her kindred spirit before I married her youngest son. Then it all changed very quickly once we were married. After having twins, in a foreign country, no friends or family, she didn't call me for 2 weeks after the birth. Hard to forget that sort of behaviour. But you know, you have to get over it for the sake of 'im indoors.

2937

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:43

My MIL is barely bearable as long as she is on her meds, which include anti depressants and Xanax..last time i spoke to her, she commented on my DD's nose ( who is her first grandchild) and not in a good way of course..so imagine when she was not on her meds! oh yes she is a classical example of neuroticism edited by Annabelle09 on 13/03/2011 Mine commented on a little whiny noise DS makes when he's just exhausted. She said, "Oh, what a weird little noise that is! How strange! Why is he doing that weird thing?" Uh, because you insisted he be kept up late so people could see him, cow-features.

2937

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:42

My list of DON'T DOs starts with not redorating the tables at my sons wedding with Hawaiian tat just because of having been there. It would not be a "nice surprise". OMG, that's unbelievable! But not something I'd have to worry about. It comes under 'thinking of someone else' - however misguided and utterly ludicrous! - and that's something she simply doesn't have a clue about.

Annabelle0921001

236

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:38

My MIL is barely bearable as long as she is on her meds, which include anti depressants and Xanax..last time i spoke to her, she commented on my DD's nose ( who is her first grandchild) and not in a good way of course..so imagine when she was not on her meds! oh yes she is a classical example of neuroticism <em>edited by Annabelle09 on 13/03/2011</em>

desertprincess9542

371

Posts

EW EXPLORER

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:36

You usually find that when a MIL does not like a DIL it is because she is disappointed with her son's choice. Not always. My sister's marriage was pretty much arranged (as in her MIL chose her for her son, and then they were introduced and got to know each other before deciding whether or not to get married...) but her MIL STILL doesn't like her even though she chose her! And my sister is not only super beautiful, but has a great personality and everyone usually loves her!

131

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:31

No. LOL....

178

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 20:14

Used to think she was irritating, now after 3 years of marriage and 8 years together I've realised that my MIL is a BAD WORD of the highest order. Suspect she is trying to plant mines under our relationship so try very hard to rise above her passive aggressive nonsense, Now, as the mother of a son, I have a very long list of DON'T DOs when it comes to one day being a MIL. I am going to be the world's best MIL :D. Starting with having some manners and hospitality skills. My list of DON'T DOs starts with not redorating the tables at my sons wedding with Hawaiian tat just because of having been there. It would not be a "nice surprise".

2937

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 19:59

Used to think she was irritating, now after 3 years of marriage and 8 years together I've realised that my MIL is a BAD WORD of the highest order. Suspect she is trying to plant mines under our relationship so try very hard to rise above her passive aggressive nonsense, Now, as the mother of a son, I have a very long list of DON'T DOs when it comes to one day being a MIL. I am going to be the world's best MIL :D. Starting with having some manners and hospitality skills.

1234

Posts

EW OLDHAND

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 19:56

I do get along with MIL as long as she doesn't interfere with my business, which normally she doesn't :) she also keeps feeding us :) which means I don't need to cook :D

178

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 19:54

Used to think she was irritating, now after 3 years of marriage and 8 years together I've realised that my MIL is a BAD WORD of the highest order. Suspect she is trying to plant mines under our relationship so try very hard to rise above her passive aggressive nonsense, Now, as the mother of a son, I have a very long list of DON'T DOs when it comes to one day being a MIL.

656

Posts

EW GURU

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 19:39

I do from a distant - very long distance I would like to add as well.

2171

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 17:44

no I don't either. But am trying to feel more kindly and forgiving since she is now old and very ill and am amazed she is still with us tbh. Lot of 'stuff' over the years, which I won't go into.

3901

Posts

EW MASTER

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 17:19

yes i did, and i'm still sorry she's passed away..

131

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 17:18

it seems im not alone...

1579

Posts

EW EXPERT

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 14:19

22 years of marriage and 25 years together and my MIL still asks her clairvoyants when her darling son will be divorced. She was positively beaming the day I left to come to Dubai and apparently doesn't even refer to me casually in conversation instead making it appear to her friends that my DH is divorced or widowed. But to give her her dues she is a much better Nana than my mum ever was and loves my children to bits.

keepinfaith17071

122

Posts

EW NEWBIE

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 14:17

When in different time zones, YES. Otherwise its highly debatable :)

3220

Posts

EW MASTER

Latest post on 13 March 2011 - 14:14

No,but we are civil. My SIL I totally cant stand!

1
2
next
last

Log in to post new content in the forum.

ON EXPATWOMAN TODAY

AL JABR EFI Early Childhood Centre | French nursery in Dubai

AL JABR EFI Opens Its French Nursery and Kindergarten in Dubai

Dubai women dining offers guide 2026

The Best Dining Offers in Dubai: Chic Restaurants, Lounges, Beach Clubs and Girls Nights

Best music schools for kids in Dubai | Aureus Academy UAE

The Case for Music: Why Dubai’s Expat Mums Are Choosing Aureus

Dubai Nightlife: The Best Bars for Women in 2026

Dubai Nightlife: The Best Bars for Women in 2026

UAE Family Law 2026 | Divorce, Custody & Personal Status Guide for Expat Residents

Divorce in Dubai Explained: A 2026 Guide to UAE Family Law, Custody and Your Rights

Managing Anxiety during Uncertain Times: Practical Strategies to Stay Mentally Strong

Managing Anxiety During Uncertain Times: Practical Strategies to Stay Mentally Strong

The Legal Framework of Real Estate in Dubai | Awatif Mohammad Shoqi Advocates & Legal Consultancy

The Legal Framework of Real Estate in Dubai

Top Online Schools in the UAE for Kids and Teenagers: CambriLearn

Why Expat Families in the UAE Are Choosing Online School Over Traditional Classrooms

A Guide to DAZ Festival 2026 in Al Ain | Tickets, Activities, Food & Beverages, Shows, Events & More

Don’t Miss It: DAZ Festival 2026 is the Ultimate Family Day Out This April

How to get a divorce in Dubai as an expat resident

Marital Breakdown & Divorce: A Guide for Expat Mums Living in Dubai and Across the UAE

Royal Lineage Across a Thousand Years of History exhibition at BC Academy International School Dubai news

Dubai Private School Hosts Rare Art Exhibition: "Royal Lineage Across a Thousand Years of History"

10 Essential Steps to Secure Your Child’s Educational Future

The Education Plan Every Expat Parent Wishes They’d Started Sooner

Psammotherapy at Raffles the Palm Dubai

Sink Into Serenity: Inside Dubai’s Most Luxurious Sand Bath Experience at Cinq Mondes Spa

How to Pay UAE Fines in Instalments Using Tabby

How to Pay UAE Fines in Instalments Using Tabby

Kisari Kids - Awareness Parenting Coach Eva Szorad Interview

Getting Kids to Cooperate Without Punishment or Rewards - Aware Parenting with Eva from Kisari.Kids

Top online British and US High Schools in the UAE: CambriLearn

Back-to-School, Reimagined: How UAE Families Are Choosing a Smarter Start to the School Year

Top 10 Low Cost Airlines in the UAE

Top 10 Most Affordable Budget Airlines in the UAE For Your Next Trip

Top Nursery School Kids Summer Camps in Dubai 2025

Embark on a Summer Adventure at Kids First Group Universe!

Dubai Expat Resident Receives Commemorate Passport Stamp After 60 Years

Dubai Expat Resident Receives Commemorate Passport Stamp After 60 Years

Top 5 UK curriculum online schools for expat families and kids abroad

Top 5 Online Schools For Expat Families in the Middle East

Hidden Costs of Expat Life in Dubai (and How to Outsmart Them)

Hidden Costs of Expat Life in Dubai (and How to Outsmart Them)

Travel influencer academy in Dubai

Dubai Just Launched a Travel Influencer Academy

Central Bank of UAE reveals new official currency symbol for the Emirati dirham

UAE Unveils New Official Dirham Symbol, Inspired By the Country's Flag

His Highness Sheikh Mohammed announces 3 best UAE government departments

Pictured: His Highness Sheikh Mohammed at a UAE Cabinet meeting.

H.H Sheikh Mohammed Ranks 3 Best & Worst UAE Government Departments

New 10-Year UAE Residency Visa for Dubai Content Creators and Influencers

There's a 10-Year UAE Residency Visa for Dubai Content Creators and Influencers

Breakfast with penguins at Ski Dubai Mall of the Emirates

You Can Now Enjoy Breakfast With Penguins in Dubai

How to convert another country's drivers license in Dubai

How to Convert a Non-UAE Driving License in Dubai: A Complete Guide

Registrations open for EYFS curriculum Willow Children's Nursery in Dubai

Where to Choose the Best EYFS Children's Nursery in Dubai Marina

Outdoor cinemas in Dubai for the winter season 2024

The Best Outdoor Cinemas in Dubai to See Open-Air Movies This Winter

Executive Hospitality Programme at South View School in Dubai

Introducing the Executive Hospitality Programme at South View School Dubai

Expat legal consultants in the UAE | Dr. Hassan Elhais

Meet Dr. Hassan Elhais: A Pillar of Legal Expertise for Expats in the UAE

Saray Spa promotions at JW Marriott Marquis Hotel Dubai

This Luxury Dubai Spa Has Some of the Very Best Breaks To Escape To

A Complete Guide How to Get an Influencer License in Dubai and UAE

How to Get a UAE Influencer License: Step-By-Step Guide & Requirements