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I'm pregnant AGAIN :(

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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 10:59

So I thought I had a stomach bug the last couple of days and my DH was on his way to the pharmacy so I told him to get me a pregnancy test. I did the test and saw two lines (I thought I was negative cause of the signs) read the instructions and cleary said pregnant. I just cried and shouted at my DH that I'm pregnant. We have 2 kids, one is 3 years and 2 months and 1 year and 1 month. It really is my fault thinking I would not get pregnant because I'm breastfeeding and haven't gotten my period. I'm wrong and stupid :( Just feeling down, I'm not ready for baby #3.

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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 21:58
My 2 are 21 months apart (got pg when DD was 1) and yes, it's a bit of a shock to start off with, but you get into a routine and just deal with it. I didn't have family or a helper either. Now, my two are just adorable together - they play really well and love each other to bits. Still drive me wild on occasion - especially when they're both let loose and decide to run off in opposite directions and refuse to stop, but on the plus side, you lose your pregnancy weight quicker! DS is now 21 months and I'm feeling a bit broody... :\:
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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 15:45
Shaf lol @ heels hmm it's been a while not sure if I still have any. DD won't be starting school until sept 2012 :( she'll be going to an American school. I know what you all are saying, have them when they are close in age so they can play together. I can imagine that as well, I'm feeling so much better. Thank you again gals :)
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 14:48
*hugs* Think abt it this way... in another 2 years, u will be able to wear ur heels full time and be hands-free :) I just had LO2 last month and am already considering having another one soon much to my DH's horror. I am finding it damn tough with 2 kids (and this is with my mum around!), and i know 3 will be madness, but i think its better to have them all at one shot and then get my life going, rather than change nappies for the next 10yrs. And yes, hopefully they will all love each other and keep themselves occupied! Dont worry Lulee, I am sure u will be fine :) Besides ur older kid prolly will start school soon maybe? So then its just having 2 kids home in the mornings :)
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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 14:35
All babies are a blessing. I had 3 under 4, its much easier to have them close together as they play all the time. It will seem like hard work but trust me when they get older you will be thankful for having them all close together.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 14:31
Thank you girls I feel a little better. I do hear that the transition to 3 is easier, I really hope so. I don't have family here :( and no maid. I think it's time to search for one. I was so looking forward to going back to work after DD starts school, but that won't be happening soon. DH isn't the sensitive type when it comes to me crying and feeling depressed :( He told me you can't do anything now this is meant to be :( I know that!!! Hmm MEN.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 11:37
Hugs to you darling. Just think of it this way. At least you can get a full time help here, which you can't get in many countries. I had a friend who had first child, then twins with only a age gap of 12 months. She was sooo upset at the beginning, but now she is fine. She even went back to work after 6 months with the twins, eldest was 18 months. You will cope, don't worry.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 11:17
Hi Lulee, just wanted to say that for me, the transition form 1 to 2 was way harder than from 2 to 3! My 2nd and 3rd are 23 months apart. Big hugs to you!
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EW GURU
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 11:10
Hugs LuLee to you. I know it must seem overwhelming but don't forget there's 7 or 8 (or more) months before the LO arrives. Your eldest will be 4 and your middle will be closer to 2. Which can be easier than where you're at atm. I know many more ladies with littlies will be on with many words of wisdom but I didn't want your post to go unnoticed. Don't forget you're not in this alone, have you talked to DH? Is he aware of your trepidation? Can you organise home help? Or family visits? Take care xx
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 11:10
Sorry Lulee. I dont have any sage advice. Just sending you hugs.
 
 

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