Prolonged stress can be detrimental to health and its best to seek professional aid. Remember, someone's always willing to help!
17 July 2017| Last updated on 22 May 2018
Stress has its funny ways. While some people see it as motivation to work harder or push through that deadline, prolonged stress can actually be a terrible thing. Managing stress is complicated and time-consuming, mainly because it is often difficult to narrow down the cause of our stress.
Other types of stress can be categorised into financial, mental, emotional, physical, social/ relationship and traumatic stress. If people are unsure how to cope with their stress, often bad habits begin to form, such as using alcohol, drugs, smoking or restricting or overeating food to seek comfort. Additionally, stress can emotionally affect us, leaving us feeling anxious, agitated, overwhelmed, frustrated or angry.
Often many individuals will begin to isolate, avoid people or social situations, develop a lowered self-esteem, and lack of confidence. What many people do not know, is that stress can not only affect us emotionally, however physically we can begin to see it, from weight gain/loss, sweating excessively, difficulty sleeping, and experiencing pain that is not from an injury or physical activity. Too much stress can cause serious health issues if not managed properly.
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Why seeking a counsellor can be helpful?
It is challenging to be vulnerable, especially to someone who is so close to you. Seems weird, I know. But think of a struggle you have dealt with and if you talked to a friend or relative about how you were truly coping with it? Were you able to be open and honest? Maybe yes, maybe no. Talking with a counsellor may seem intimidating, and is a scary thought for many out there, however, it could be the best decision you make. Sometimes It’s easier to talk to a stranger than to friends or relatives, and a counsellor gives you the time to talk, cry, think, and be open and honest about your issues in a non-judgmental atmosphere. It’s an opportunity to look at your situation in a different way.
A few tips to help manage your stress
- Keep a journal
- Balanced diet & eliminate processed foods
- Regular exercise & hydration
- Connect yourself socially – surround yourself with positive engagement
- Devote 30 minutes a day to meditation and/or “me time“
- Put yourself first! There is only one of you and we all deserve to shine!
Talking with a professional about the difficulties you’re experiencing can help you understand any underlying issues or patterns in your life that may be causing your stress and identify your personal stress triggers and ways of coping and dealing with them. If you need any support, do not hesitate to reach out to Blue Lights Wellness by giving us a call on 04 243 2930.