Tough one. My godmother once told me that she hated getting greetings cards without her husband's namein the "to" line after he died. I suppose it depends on the individual...
I would absolutely send a card, christmas or not, the gesture will not go unappreciated :)
I agree when my Mum passed away people didnt acknowledge it as i feel they didnt know what to say
A card with "Here if you need" written inside would be a lovely sentiment
It will be a horribly difficult time for them, so a Christmas card with the usual printed message would be inappropriate, but if you can find a blank seasonal card with a beautifull picture (Angels?), you could add your own meaningful words.
The time will be difficult and she will be well aware of her loss without seeing it in print again. A standard Christmas card with an extra 'thinking of you often during the festive period' is enough in my opinion. She will know what you mean.
a card that's not a Christmas card but is a note saying I am thinking of her over the Christmas period. He died at the end of October after a short illness.
I've already written and emailed her before now. However I don't want to ignore the fact that it's Christmas and a horribly difficult time for them.
It's so hard to know what to do for the right - he was such a lovely man and they were fabulous friends even though I only knew them for a short time here.