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Help ive lost my spark

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 July 2011 - 13:51

Ladies,
ive been married 4 years now, and ive totally lost my spark with my husband.
Dont feel like being romantic with him anymore!
Anyone else feeling like this?
Ive tried and tried for romantic nights, getaways but its still not there!
VAT TO DO??

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EW GURU
Latest post on 19 July 2011 - 20:59
Sounds familiar. We have to try much harder at our relationship when were here in Dubai. When we're on holiday...no matter where it is - things are totally different. Things just fall into place and the spark is back. It's easy to blame Dubai, but DH and I have made an effort to not blame Dubai and just accept the way it is but to rather beat it. We have found talking the key...no matter what we feel, we've promised we'll come out and say it. And I must say, it's working. We're going to bed feeling happier and closer and I guess that's the key. Like I say, it's working for us...your situation may be totally different. We tried the dates, romantic dinners etc. But for us, communication has been the huge thing.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 July 2011 - 18:25
when we go back to the UK, its great hes a different person! but here things just arnt going well for us atall. Im trying and trying all the time but just dont know what to do anymore
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 19 July 2011 - 14:05
I feel the same....(although we have been together almost 13 years, we are not married) Its been going on for a while now. Initially I tried to make more of an effort, but you quickly lose interrest when its not reciprocated, now there is 2 of us uninteressted in this relationship, doesnt make for a happy relationship! We have spoken about it and both agreed to make more of an effort, after all it does take two to tango. It went well for a little while, but now we are back at square one....I'm out of idea's too!
 
 

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