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How to advise my friend
A good friend of mine is married to a divorcee. The hsbd has 2 kids with his ex. When they got married, the ex said so many things that hurt my friend's feeling that she couldn't get over it despite enjoying a good marriage with her hsbd.
She just told me that her hsbd ex has decided to jump start her career which require her to go to training which might take several years. In order to do that, the hsbd has to take care of their 18 y.o. son who has asperger. My friend completely refuses to do that after all the things that the ex had said about her over the years and also because she might end up being treated like a maid by the son. Apparently, the ex doesn't make the children lift a finger all their life.
Anyway, she has given her hsbd an ultimatum. She would only allow the son to come and stay with them once in a while and not for a long term. She told him that if he allows the son to move in with them, she want a divorce and it's not negotiable. She told me he is a wonderful hsbd.
I have given her my understanding and also my advice. I told her to forget the ex and just think of her hsbd. I can't imagine how the hsbd feel having to choose between his wife and his son.
<em>edited by blimey on 15/02/2011</em>
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