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Baby not sleeping from me - desperate now!!!!

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 03 April 2012 - 12:35

I am wondering if anyone of you has gone through this situation, my 6 month baby is refusing to sleep from me now. It started with bedtime when he would cry and cry when I hold him, and now it is the same for naps. For the past 3 days, my DH has been getting him to sleep at bedtime and now for the nap, the maid got him to sleep!!! This is a first for me as I do all the baby things myself, and now I can't stop thinking that my baby hates me :((((.

To be more coherent, my baby is reasonably regular with naps and bedtime with the occasional hiccup. His timing is also quite regular with a margin of half an hour on either side. He has a pretty consistent nap and bedtime routine too. For naps, it is a nappy change, then into the room where I draw the curtains, read 2 stories and then take him on my shoulder or rock him till he is drowsy or goes to sleep. Now as soon as I finish the stories and take him on shoulder, he will start crying - screaming his head off. Nothing will stop him till someone else takes him and then he stops crying and eventually goes to sleep.

I am extremely disheartened as till now he was only sleeping from me or very occassionally husband. I have never given him to the maid before as I believe in doing everything for the baby myself - I think my DS has decided for himself :(. I am also worried for the future as it is not possible for DH to leave work and come home every night to get him to sleep - he usually sleeps around 7:30 pm, and the maid leaves by that time. DH is also travelling for work end of this week.

I am lost and confused now - not to mention extremely hysterical. Otherwise, my baby is all happy and normal with no problems. Has anything like this happened to anyone?
<em>edited by nams_new on 03/04/2012</em>

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EW GURU
Latest post on 03 April 2012 - 14:09
nams_new, first of all your baby doesnt hate you. you are the most important person for him, and always will be. maybe he just wants to be put down to sleep by the time you finish ? if i can offer any advice, it would be to try and encourage your baby to settle himself to sleep, rather than you or anyone else having to assist him. i would finish his story, give him a cuddle and tell him its night night time, put him in his bed, lights off and leave. you may have some protesting for a day or too, but he will soon get the message and will learn to settle himself. there are various techniques you can use for this, do a search and you will find them, remember crying is his only form of communication, maybe he is just rebelling at being put to sleep!! try to relax and remember you need to be in charge, and that no way does he hate you! good luck, i'm sure you're doinggreat.
 
 

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