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need advice for 28 months old pleaseeeee

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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 22 May 2011 - 22:41
Reading, reading and more reading. We have lots of books at home for DD and have read to her from day 1 and it's never too late to start. Start off by sitting together, point at pictures in the books and name what they are. Talk about what's happening in the pictures and stories and take it from there. We have also restricted her TV from the beginning - there's lots of research out there how it's not good for toddlers at all.
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EW GURU
Latest post on 22 May 2011 - 20:15
If this helps ease your mind. When my DS was that age we had him say very few words. Actually he said very few words just before turning three. When he turned 3 it was a light switch and all of a sudden the words started. He still mumbles some words at 3 1/2 but now talks in sentences and comes out with words like octopus. Basically he won't shut up haha :)
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EW EXPERT
Latest post on 22 May 2011 - 19:58
Good for stopping the telly - there's apparently nothing wrong with it as such, but it's not good in large amounts because it doesn't offer any interaction, and becomes just like babble in teh background - you know, like when we have the radio on in the background and whatever they're actually talking about just washes over us because we're focussed on doing something else? Anyhow, every child is different. DD at 23 months was talking in sentences, and DS at the same age says about 3 recognisable words and several others in his own way. I always repeat what I think they're trying to say, so for example, if my son says "ooo! Kaah!", I say "Oh yes, there is a car there! A blue car!". I also talk to them about what I'm doing - a running commentary, so to speak. You feel a bit daft to start off with, but you get used to it... so talk to him when you're going round the shops, tell him what you're up to in the kitchen or around the house and get him to help out. You don't need lots of "enrichment" activities or playgroups, just normal life!
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EW EXPLORER
Latest post on 22 May 2011 - 11:37
While dealing with my babyboy, i always knew that i am his only friend and i tried to make it up to him that he knows no one but me and DH. The only hint i can give you is that with the talking thing try not to be a mother. we moms tend to help our little ones, sometimes more than we should. i mean you understand what your baby is saying even in his own words and the idea that he is interacting with you properly means that he is not pushed enough to use your words "as far as he is doing well using his own". if he wants to eat and he bubble some words - even if you are sure of what he is saying, try to look really interested in understanding, but you are not capable of. try giving him options like "what do you want??" can't get the word!! water? juice? please be clear... and keep repeating the words including what you know that he is referring to. couple of times he will feel that his language is not doing the job it is used to do, and he has to use your terms. by time "short time" you will notice a big difference ... good luck.
 
 

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