setback....need advice please
hi! i have been following attachment parenting (hard not to) with my 3 month old ds. so far he was a happy baby playing on his own too. i used to pick him up whenever he cries.but from last week i am noticing changes in his behaviour. he is quiet as long as i am visible or in my arms only. even if i am sitting near him at his back and he is not able to see me he starts crying very noisily. if i wait for some time ( i did yesterday for 10 min) he was sobbing with tears! another incident was when one of the older kids from play room in our building took him to meet her mama. i was with him. my phone rang and i went outside their house to recieve it. he started crying so loudly :( he goes very happily to my DH in the evening but then wants me infront of him all the time . my voice alone is not enough for him.he has stopped playing anywhere. his playgym and his bouncer has lost interest to him :( i am not able to understand why suddenly he is behaving like this.he used to coo and smile at everybody and now only do that if i am in the vicinity. he want to be with me in my arms all the time which is wearing me down. i have ordered ergo baby carrier and just waiting for the delievery. so will try babywearing after that. i have already taken him to my paed if there was any problem. he is fine .even his reflux is almost not there. although his gums has started to swell. is it because of that? he does not take pacifier,teether,or cooled carrot. only my DH's finger not even mine. really has a mind of his own. when my husband said this morning that he has become too attached to me (crying since morning today) i realized he is right. i am at a loss :( what should i do?
ps: bear with me if the post is long and random. thanks ladies
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