exile,
I am probably re-inventing the wheel by posting it, but what about putting a potty next to a loo? My dad reminded me about this yesterday when I was dicussing the potty-training of DD.
We had a potty in DD's bedroom (she is no way near to be potty trained at 15 months though), but I will defo be shifting it to the bathroom. She knows what the loo is for, but never seen me sitting on the potty ;)
sorry if it is TMI ;)
Thanks solo and bfc, I'm now giving her the choice in the morning as to whether she wants to wear nappies and so far she's choosing to wear undies instead. Still she's peeing on the floor, but she's seeing her sister use the potty and toilet so hopefully she'll gain some confidence sooner rather than later!!
Yes, that would be my inclination too (to wait). When a child is ready, toilet training can happen in a *very* short time; if they're not, then it can take a loooooooooooong time...and there's only so much that we can do to hurry along what is essentially a developmental stage.
I also agree. Went through it twice with two sets of twins and just because one is ready, it certainly doesnt mean his or her twin is.
If you push it, the longer it will take and the more it will frighten her into not wanting to be out of her nappy at all. She will be ready in her own time, even if it isnt at the same stage as her sister.
Twins, however alike they are they still have a mind of their own and will progress as their own rates. Though seeing her sister praised might eventually have a knock on effect to want to try it too of her own accord.
September is still like others say a long way off in the number of weeks before they are to start nursery, and you shoudn't feel pressure due to the nursery rule of completely dry to rush them.
You will all get there soon enough.
I agree, concentrate on the one that is showing signs of readiness. Give the other twin lots of hugs and cuddles but put her in a nappy. Im all for keeping peace in the home and it sounds like that will be the calmest solution.
September is a while away yet, put her nappies back on, let her keep watching her sister going and getting rewarded and don't even mention to her that she might go and see what happens. Not worth scaring the wee girl.
I've had the nappies off the girls (3 yrs old in 2 mths) since Monday and the little one has not had an accident since monday. The other one seems to be scared stiff of the toilet and potty. She cries if I put her on it. Yesterday she clung to me all morning for hours until she was in pain from holding it in, and then cried as she peed on the floor. she peed 4 times on the floor yesterday. And the same thing this morning, she cried and begged me not to put the undies on her but wanted the nappy. I dont think she's ready yet - so I put the nappy back on her. she sees her sister being rewarded for going on the loo but has no interest in it herself. Should I wait a week or two then try again? Im feeling under pressure as the nursery I've got them booked into for September 'wont take children who are not fully toilet trained'. Im not sure i shoud push her though as I feel it will just make things more prolonged. Any advice?